Ms. Monterio was a great inspiration and confidant for me during four years of High School.  She was my chemistry teacher, head of the outing club, and co-advisor to the Class of 1995.  She had an incredible spirit, one that could barely be held by the walls of our High School.  On trips to the ski slopes, she was always the person with whom everyone wanted to ski (not your typical role for a teacher) and someone who truly had a joie de vivre that was unparalleled in a High School known for conformity.  In the classroom, she pushed her students to excellence and is responsible for truly shaping hundreds or thousands of minds.  Having lost my mother-in-law two years ago, my deepest condolences go out to Patty?'s family.  She was an amazing woman and will be missed by more individuals than you can imagine.

My condolences to Jim and the entire Monterio clan. Patty was a lovely classy woman with real integrity and courage. Knowing her was one of the highlights of my life.

Patty, (Ms. Monterio to me) was a great friend and inspiration to me during high school. She was my chemistry teacher, and head of the outting club. She is probably one of the chief reasons that I am teaching high school biology. I will always remember her skiing at Sugarloaf in negative 40 degree weather and giving me shit because I thought it was cold. What an awesome spirt she had. It was a gift to have known her. All my best to her friends and family.

My deepest condolences to you and your family, from a childhood friend, Stella Esposito

Dearest Jim and the entire Monterio Family,
I was not in town this past week and so was unable to attend Patty?'s memorial service.  I want to extend my deepest thoughts, love and prayers to you all as you make your way through this very difficult time.  Patty was a gift to everyone whose life she touched.  I feel honored to have been a part in bringing her comfort during her courageous and sacred passage.  She always gave more than I think she realized while emanating a pure love and reverence for life.  
This poem seems fitting because of Patty?'s love of nature.  She will always be in our hearts.
Warmly, 
Oliver Pijoan at the Traditional Chinese Medical Clinic
For Patty:
Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there, I do not sleep.	
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awake in the morning?'s hush,
I am the soft uplifting rush, of quiet birds in circling flight.
I am the soft star that shines at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry.
I am not there.  I did not die.
				  Mary E. Frye, 1932

Like all who knew Patty, we were profoundly saddened by her death.  Patty was such a unique and interesting person!  We?'re grateful that we had the opportunity to work with her and share some times outside of work as well.   She had a rare and remarkable ability to connect with people, from CEOs to toddlers,  in a deep and genuine way.  
Patty?'s optimism, intelligence, and passion for life will live on even though she has passed.   Though her life was way too short, she lived it to the absolute fullest and touched all who knew her.  She won?'t be forgotten.  
Our thoughts are with Jim and all of Patty's family and close friends.

To The Monterio Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.  So sorry for your troubles. Prayers Emily

I wanted to say I'm so sorry for your loss.  I didn't know Patty very well, but what little I did know, she seemed like such a kind person.  We were all sadened by the news here at HP when we heard that she had passed away and I wanted to send you my condolences.

I wanted to say I'm so sorry for your loss.  I didn't know Patty very well, but what little I did know, she seemed like such a kind person.  We were all sadened by the news here at HP when we heard that she had passed away and I wanted to send you my condolences.  
Jennifer Loveday

To Patty's husband, parents, Joey, Marylee, Cheri and family,
   My deepest sympathy to you all. Patty was such a sweet person as is all her siblings. The last time I saw Patty was at BugLight park and she was telling me how she had just married a wonderful guy and she was so happy. What a wonderful last memory to have of her.
I know too well how hard it is to lose someone you love. so please know my thouhts and prayers are with you all.   with love, Caroline

Dear Monterio/Whalen Family,
My deepest sympathies to you all as you deal with this incredible loss.  Although Patty and I didn't work together for a long time, it was obvious from the start that she was a special lady.  Her positive outlook, her even demeanor and her care and concern for her co-workers were evident and will be truly missed.  You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Warm Regards, Lisa Christy

I knew Patty in Portland, Maine when she was learning about inner peace and contentment as taught by Maharaji. I remember her beautiful smile and her fun loving attitude.
I last spoke with Patty some years ago when I met her as I was taking a  walk in South Portland. She was home for a visit.  I send my sympathy to her family.
Rita Rubin-Long

I have some wonderful memories of Patty during our years at Hall School and Lincoln Junior.  She was a joy to call a friend and was so goal oriented; I knew she would be successful no matter what profession she chose. Her intelligence and compassion drove her to become a voice in a path that few women chose to follow. Her loving family has endured heartache twice now and my sincere condolences and prayers go out to all of them at this difficult time.  The world has lost a gem too soon. Thinking of All of You, Chris D'Alfonso Murray

I write this with much sympathy to the entire Monterio family; Myrna, Frank, Joe, Cheri and Mary Lee, Uncles Bill and Bob and to her husband Joe Whalen
Patty and I shared some good times together. We skied, backed packed (a couple of those trips would have made a Marine weep) and canoed.
Patty helped me through a difficult period in my life for which I am forever grateful. All we can do now is appreciate our time with this very special person and know that she is in a better place.

To Jim and Patty's Family,
We knew Patty only briefly during her time at R. M. Davis in Portland.  She was lovely, engaging and bright; a joy to be around. We lost touch with her, and when we read her name in the paper this morning we almost could not believe our eyes.  Our sincere condolences to her whole family and her many friends in Maine and the west on the premature loss of a wonderful friend and a great person.

Years ago I had the pleasure of knowing Patty. When I think of Patty I always remember a person gifted with the smile of friendship, a person with a passion for life, an exciting and wonderful individual who could always be counted on for support.  Our world is surly smaller without her.

Sorry to hear of the loss of a very fine person. Love Don & Sharon Langella

Dear Patty,
It was such a pleasure working with you and skiing with you! I will always remember your energy and drive in all you did and how you approached life. I am so saddened that we will not be with us on our ski outings! It will not be the same. 
Your time here on this earth was much, much too short. It seems so unfair. You brought so much in all you did, and we all know you had so much more to give. Thank you (and Jim) for sharing yourself - we all had lots of fun sharing glorious Colorado with you!
I hope that you were comfortable in your last days here and know you put up a valiant fight! Bless you and peace, my friend.
From ""your skiing buddy""
Karen Jacobsen

I will always remember Patty as my favorite manager and mentor.  She is the reason I still have a job at Agilent despite the five layoffs we went through.  She was a great umbrella manager, protecting her people from all of the garbage that was going on at the time during the outsourcing of many of our functions.  She really cared about her people and I know it hurt her to have to lay people off.
I was blessed with the opportunity to take her to a Chemo treatment, I was amazed at her positive upbeat attitude.  She was a pleasure to be around and we shared a few hours together which I will always cherish.

Myrna I want to extend my deepest sympath to you and your family.
When we worked together you would talk of your family and I had the pleasure of meeting Patty. I still remember her after 25 years she was a nice person someone that you don't forget.

Patty was my parent`s first grandchild and my father`s great favorite. He gave her time,attention and some treasure. She overcame more than a few obstacles to become a star in our family. Her death in the prime of her life is a devastating blow for all of us. As time helps to assuage our grief, we will remember Patty`s achievements and her steely determination to live a beautiful life. She aimed for the stars and her drive, energy and optimism were wonderful lessons for all of us. 
May she rest in peace.
Uncle Bobby
With deepest sympathy to Jim, Myrna, Frankie, Joey, Mary Lee, and Cheri.
Bob and Carol

Mary Lee - 
Although I did not know your sister, I was very sorry to read of her passing.  My deepest sympathy and prayers go out to you, her husband and the rest of your family.

I am deeply saddened to hear of Patty's passing.  She was my very first love.  It's been many years, but i can still remember 2 middle schoolers walking hand in hand in the gently falling snow,  and how beautiful she looked at our yearly formal.  My condolences to her husband, brother Joey, and her family and friends.  A piece of Patty will live forever in my heart.

I was a friend of Patty's in Maine, and I lost track of her a few years ago.   It is very odd that just this week I was thinking of her and how we were both struggling in our careers here in the early 90's.    We used to meet at the Victory Deli in the middle of the afternoon just to talk and have coffee.  We played tennis together and sailed together.  I always loved her sense of humor and the way she trusted people.   I just saw her obituary in the paper this morning and I am just crushed.  Patty was beautiful, inside and out.  My condolences to Jim and the whole family.

Dear Jim,
Our deepest sympathy in the loss of your Dear Patty. Sherri has spoken often about how very special she was. I'm sure many hearts are broken at this sad time, but her loving memory, in time, will give peace to all who loved her.  Love and Prayers, Norma and Jim

Jim and Patty's Family,
My deepest sympathy for your loss.
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sadness.

We didn't get to spend much time with Patty, but it was always quality time.   We always looked forward to seeing her when she and Jim were out east, and loved having them in our home.  I feel blessed that her lovely, soulful being was in our lives, and within the walls of our house -- even for a short time.  Our love goes out to Jim, and his and Patty's families.  Please know that our thoughts are with you at the memorial service.  I am sure it will be filled with love.
Dave and Jen

My thoughts and prayers are with her.I am sorry to be out ofthe country and not be ableto attend her funeral.
Kamran

Patty was a genuinely kind and caring person. We will miss her beautiful smile, her soft spoken and gentle manner. We feel very lucky to have been able to share some happy times with her and will cherish those memories.
To Jim and Patty's family, we are truly saddened by this tragic loss and send our love and positive thoughts to you.

Patty was so special that I can not find the right words to express how I feel about her.  She was the most wonderful friend and mentor. She touched my life and so many others in many ways and I will always remember her as the vibrant, sincere, caring and beautiful person that she was.  I will miss her so much and will always love her. I am thankful that I had an opportunity to know her and have her in my life. Patty, you will always be remembered!!  Love Rochelle, Steve and Sydney

Patty will always be remembered for her great spirit and love of life.  She has been a very special person to Gracie, who will carry her memories of ""Aunt"" Patty with her forever.  Gracie took a bubble bath (Patty's favorite) in honor of Aunt Patty last night to remember her and say goodbye.  Peace be with you. 
Janice and Gracie Baker

To Jim and all of Patty's family,
  My deepest sympathies and condolences on your loss.  Patty was a unique and dynamic person who touched the lives of all of us who were fortunate to know her.  May she rest in peace and have endless powder days!

Patty was a true inspiration to me!  The energy she put forth, in everything she did, amazed me.  She definitely lived life to the fullest.  Patty never complained about what life had handed her?. from the moment she learned that she had cancer and her life was going to take a different path -- to the very end.
My husband, Ed, reflects playing golf with Patty and enjoyed her company on the course and at HP/Agilent.  We will both miss you Patty!
We pray that all the loving memories of Patty will help Jim and their family get through the days ahead. May God bless all of you!
Our deepest sympathies to all, 
Kathy & Ed Bruce

Jim & Family,
I work with Jim at HP and did not know Patty personally, but as I read other entries in this guestbook I see the indelible impact she left on the lives of so many poeple. It makes me wish I had the honor of knowing her myself. My family's thoughts and prayers are with you and yours at this time of loss.

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Patricia May Monterio

11 noviembre, 1958 – 29 octubre, 2004

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