James was born “Rex William Cross a.k.a. Buddy” in York, Nebraska to Zenas Oliver Cross and Vivian Mae (Neel) Cross on May 14, 1926. He and his siblings were separated in 1932 after the death of his father and he was later adopted by his loving parents, Frederick Charles LaCalli and Marlos N. (Felker) LaCalli. They changed his name to James Frederic LaCalli.
James “Buddy” was able to locate and reconnect with his Cross family brother and seven sisters in 1991. It was a wonderful reunion for all of them.
In 1944, James joined the U.S. Navy as a Seaman 2nd Class, Carpenter’s Mate. He served during World War II on the USS Birmingham. He was very proud to have served his country.
James was married to the love of his life, Claudia Belle (Casteel) LaCalli for 70 years. She will miss him dearly. In addition to his wife, James is survived by two sons and two daughters and their spouses, 15 grandchildren, 17 great-grandchildren, and two great-great-grandchildren.
Visitation will be held on Tuesday, May 31, 2022 from 5:00 – 8:00 p.m. at American Heritage Funeral Home.
Funeral will be held on Wednesday, June 1st, 2022 at 09:15 a.m. with burial following at Houston National Cemetery.
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