Curtis Dean Abernathy

Curtis Dean Abernathy, affectionately called “Sturgis” by his father, was born in Lenoir, N.C. on March 27, 1960, to the late Robert and Juristine Abernathy. His family moved to Brooklyn, New York when he was a toddler. He graduated from John Dewey High School as a star student. After school he met and married his neighborhood sweetheart, Daisy (Peggy) Abernathy. From that union he had two beautiful children, Shania Abernathy and Curtis Abernathy Jr., whom he adored.

Curtis was employed with NYC DOT in New York City. His co-workers cherished his friendship, and everyone enjoyed his witty humor.

Curtis’s strong Christian upbringing created a man of strong moral values and convictions. He enjoyed attending to the needs of others, especially, the elderly. He made time to entertain them with sweet snacks. Cinnamon candy and wafer cookies were his favorites to give. He loved his family. He enjoyed vacationing with his children and grandson. He kept us all laughing with his silly jokes and sarcasm.

Curtis loved his church. He attended Deacon Life of God Christian Outreach. He was a faithful, devoted, well-dressed member. He took pride in wearing a different suit every Sunday. He said that’s what grandaddy wore to church. He served as a deacon and served in various roles in the church.

In addition to his parents, Curtis was preceded in death by his wife, Daisy (Peggy) Abernathy, his son, Curtis Abernathy Jr., sister, Kelley, brother, Robert (Bobby), niece, Tiffany and great-nephew Braylon.

Those left to celebrate his memories include his daughter, Shania Abernathy, grandson, Curtis Abernathy III, Stepson, Dwayne, Sister, Melissa Taylor, 3 nieces, 4 nephews, Two aunts, “Aunt Jerl” and Marietta Lipford and a host of cousins and friends.

A Homegoing Celebration will be held for Curtis Abernathy on Saturday, June 21, 2025, at 2:00 PM in his church, Life of God Christian Outreach, located at 2310 Morganton Blvd, Lenoir, NC 28645.