She is survived by her children Ber Xiong (Merced, Ca) and Chue Xiong (Laos), 15 grandchildren and 26 great grandchildren.
Xay is preceded in death by her son and daughter.
Xay enjoyed raising chickens and gardening. She loved to take daily walks. Her favorite food were donuts, pork belly, pizza and sausage McMuffins with egg.