LAPHAM, Alan R. on September 4, 2020 of Coram, New York. Beloved son of Salley Henderson (Peter). Loving brother of Jennifer Lapham, Danielle Henderson and Dawn Henderson. Dear boyfriend of Antonella Sclafani. Also survived by many loving aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. Reposing at O.B. Davis Funeral Homes, 1001 Route 25A, Miller Place, New York Visitation Friday, September 11, 2020 from 2-9 pm. Services Friday, 7:30 pm. Funeral Saturday, September 12, 2020, 10 am. Cremation 11 am Washington Memorial Park, Coram, New York.