Happy birthday, Bogie!! I went to bed last night thinking about your birthday 💙. Today I woke up and opened up my Spotify app to listen to some music, and look what popped up (see attached).  I miss you, but I know you're always with us. I'll be listening to Springsteen all day for you!! Love, Thuy Anh

I have been waiting for the right words and the right memories to share about Matt. But when I think about Bogie, I just *feel* his warmth and laughter. I spent most of my mid-20s with Matt at Goldman Sachs, first in NY and then in London. I lacked the maturity to understand how special he was to me. I was moody, he was moody :). It was better for me when I was moody b/c it was impossible to be grumpy around him; Matt took it as a personal challenge to turn my frown around. He was my big brother, and when my own little sister rang me at the office, he'd talk to HER like a big brother and question her life choices :D. And he loved the banana bread my mom would mail to the office from California and ask her to send more! When he left London, Matt distributed his stuff and said to me, "I could only leave this with you." It was a paper shredder, and I loved it dearly <3. So many of my friends remembered his warmth when he came to my wedding in California...I spent a few days reaching out to people to let them know about Matt's passing. Even in death, Matt managed to bring us together, make us laugh and bring us joy...as he always did. Living as an expat, in a stressful industry, we often lived as family and they were (mostly ;D) joyous times. We are forever linked, me and you, Bogs. I love you, brother.  My heart goes out to everyone who loved Matt, especially his parents, brothers, his sister-in-love, and his niece and nephew. 

Adam and the entire Bogomol family, I am just learning of Matt's passing.  I was incredibly sad to hear this.  
I was Adam's girlfriend in high school and have very fond memories of goofy Matt always trying to come in as our third wheel.  He always made me laugh and brought great energy and levity.  He got such a kick out of pressing Adam's buttons.  
I am so sorry for your loss.  May his memory be a blessing.
Cindy


Matt was my client and dear friend. I trained him at the gym sometimes 5x a week. Reading through all these memories I am remembering all stories he shared about all of you. Matt - was all love. I always enjoyed hearing about his family, the love he had for his parents- visiting them in Florida, fishing trips with his brothers, and date nights with Elena, and of course Bruce Springsteen. He loved you all and I loved hearing how happy he was. 
Most days Matt came into to workout 30
Minutes early singing at the top of his lungs. When he wasn’t at the gym people would always ask me “where is that strong short guy?” Matt made a mark wherever he went. One day Bruce was even at the gym in the same room as us. I got to see Matt truly fan boy over him and he made me take a sneaky picture. 
My heart is broken knowing I won’t see Matt again, I will never ever forget him. He made me want to work harder and be better. My prayers to his beautiful family and friends. We are so blessed to have had the chance to know him. 
Paige 

Matt was our beloved neighbor.  In our limited time together we knew him to be everything so poignantly described in these memorial posts.  Kind, caring, considerate, funny, charming, genuine, witty, and personable.  Matt brought our daughter birthday presents, treats on Valentine’s Day and Halloween.  Her face would light up.  Matt would generously buy way too many Girl Scout cookies from us....and he hated cookies.  We would commiserate over construction noise.  Now we think about him fondly every time we open our front door and see his.  We are so deeply saddened by his untimely passing. The world has lost one of the truly good ones.  

To Matt’s parents and brothers:  He talked about you often and we could tell how much he loved you.  Our deepest and most heartfelt condolences.  Words can’t describe the sorrow we feel for your loss.  You raised a true gem who  clearly left a lasting impression on so many. 

Yasmine, Rob & Anabel

Matthew was my best friend and love. 
He was genuine, kind and loving.  He touched my life and I will forever cherish our time together. Words can’t describe the loss I feel, but I find comfort reading all the tributes to him knowing he made such a positive impact in your lives too. His smile lit up my world. Until we meet again. Love always,  Elena 

Bogey - always smiling a crafty, cheeky grin, always enjoying life and finding "an edge" - especially those times in Tokyo, always trying to perfect a London cockney accent with me but never quite getting there. Lots of wonderful memories. Cheers Buddy.

I worked with Matt/Bogey at GS in London.  I will keep very fond memories of his wit,  personality and love for life.  He will be truly missed. 

My heartfelt condolences to his family.  
FNA 

My sincere condolences to Adam and the whole beautiful family  , for those great Parents Judith and Charles.... really I do not find the words to express my broken heart after knowing this sad news.   Matthew was an extraordinary person, a great and friendly boss than I always will remember!   I will pray for his eternal rest in peace!  
Maria Zuluaga

I am heartbroken by the news of Matt’s passing.  Having interviewed him, I had the pleasure of knowing Matt from his earliest days at Goldman Sachs.   When we convinced Matt to move to Japan, he became the life of the desk.  His sharp wit and clever banter kept stress levels low and long hours on the desk fun.  Clients and colleagues alike loved him.  It was that time in Tokyo where Matt and I became genuine friends.  Thinking back to those days and more recently reconnecting and reminiscing with former colleagues confirms that Matt was a big part of some of the best times we spent at Goldman.  

Matt and I shared a love of fly fishing.  He once sent me a picture of his first fish on a fly rod; it was a snapper approximately 4 inches in length.  Fortunately for Matt, his skills (and luck) improved with time.  Eventually he found his place not on the ocean but on rivers and streams quickly becoming a good trout fly fisher.  He was not shy about sending me pictures to prove it.  He always had the biggest smile on his face when holding up his prized trout.

Whenever I visited New York, Matt was at the top of my list of people to see.  We often had dinner together.  He introduced me to Sarge’s, which remains one of my favorite delis.  On July 21, 2019, Matt and I shared our last meal together.  We had steaks at Quality Meats on West 57th.  As always, Matt was a bundle of energy and laughs.  So much fun to be around.  

I will always miss Matt.  His time on this earth was cut far too short.  But his dynamic personality and kind heart make him unforgettable.  I will always cherish his memory.  

To Matt’s family, I have no words.  My deepest and most sincere condolences go out to you.  I cannot comprehend your loss but promise to do my part to carry Matt’s memory with me always.

Fred Towfigh

Matthew- you were a very kind soul and helped me learn so much about myself.  Your spirit will always shine bright when i think about your smile and good heart. may you rest in peace. 
Pam Z

I worked at Goldman with Matt for many years, ahead of his moving overseas and for the time when he returned to our New York office. He was my dear friend. He called me, Buddy and Big Nat. He knew the art of banter and always made me laugh. 

Matt was never just an on the surface friend. We had a friendship where we actually shared feelings, talked about good times and tough times. It always felt good to talk to Matt. He was so present. He cared and he was genuinely kind, and always thoughtful. His kindness and care are what I sit with now and what I will always love and miss about him. Matt’s big heart and wonderful traits will inspire me to keep his name, his generosity and true goodness alive. 

Matt sent customized name books for both my sons when they were born. I’m sure many of you also received these books. He was proud to tell me what a big hit they were with his other friends’ children. Inside each book he wrote, Welcome to the World! With Love from your friend, Matthew Bogomol. My boys love these books and still ask to read them at bedtime several years later.

When my kids were babies and Matt and I were both out at the end of Long Island for the summer, Matt would drive to Jack’s and bring me a big cup of coffee knowing full well that I desperately needed the (best) caffeine and a friend to talk to (also the best).  Each summer we connected either with a visit or a call and eventually just texts, but he always answered. He was always there. 

I will miss my friend dearly. To Matt’s mother and father, thank you for raising such a fine, fine son. And to all of Matt’s family and friends, I share in your immense grief at his loss and send my love and sympathies and deepest condolences. 

We started out as colleagues, became friends and even at one point we were neighbours, but I will always remember Matt as family.  This was how he treated people like his own family. 

Matt had the biggest heart and the only way he knew how to love was with all of it. I loved his passion, kindness and generosity with everything he did and with everyone that had the privilege of meeting him. 

I am heartbroken and will forever miss my Bogey but I will always remember the great times like singing  Bruce and Billy at karaoke, comparing vintage t-shirts and barbecues on the terrace of our apartments in Tokyo.

My prayers and condolences to Judy, Charles, Adam, Peter and the Bogomol family.

Matt (Bogey) Bogomol. A wonderful thoughtful guy who was a pleasure to work with. Matt took me under his wing when I visited New York when we both worked at Bear Stearns and repeated this in Tokyo during his Goldman days . Some GREAT times had!!!! 
He will be sadly missed and by all the memories shared on here leave a gap in many peoples lives. 

R.I.P. Great guy!!!!!

Whenever I hear the name Bogey it makes me smile! I spent many years on the desk at GS with Matt and we always had such a good laugh.  He was a very fun, kind thoughtful friend. Even since his passing we have managed to laugh about how easy it was to wind him up, many a day was spent having fun.

A wonderful man who will be missed by many. Rest in peace my friend you will be sorely missed. x 

Matt and I met over 20 years ago. We started as colleagues but ended up becoming close friends. We shared many great times both personally and professionally and I cherish these memories. Matt was inclusive, respectful and had an unmatched ability to connect with everyone he met. No one could make me laugh like Matt.  He loved and was loved by many and our lives are forever better for knowing him.  He will not be forgotten. 

Our deepest condolences.

Not only was Matthew a friend of mine, he was the older brother I never had. Immensely supportive, calm and insightful, I will miss him tremendously.  Whenever we would text, at some point he would stop and call to converse on the phone instead. In that way, I am forever grateful for his desire to keep our friendship more human. My heart goes out to his family, loved ones and friends. May we all keep him in our hearts forever. ❤️

Matt was my friend. My role model and my inspiration. Even though we never met in person he has had a huge impact on my life, especially when I was depressed and lost. He helped me find my old self. I will miss him dearly. And to his family, please know what a special person he was. He touched many people through the generosity of his spirit and the power of his will. I will miss you Matt. Please Rest In Peace. 

I worked with Matt at Goldman and am just heartbroken.  Matt was truly one of the good guys.  He always made me feel welcomed and like I belonged.  

May his memory be a blessing.  

Nicole Fonsh

Matt and I were coworkers at Goldman for a few years - him based in Asia while I was in New York. I remember him as being very sharp - and also so smiley and just a fun guy to be around. My memories of him of him smiling and making quick witted jokes. He could easily charm the most difficult clients with his intelligence and humor. I’m so sorry for your loss. 

We are so sorry to hear about Matt’s passing - our deepest sympathy to your family 

Elaine and Tony Fioto

Adam,

My heartfelt condolences for you and your family's loss.

Mitch

I was heartbroken to hear of Matt’s passing. Matt and I went to two sleep-away camps together (Olympus and Brookwood) and then were at the University of Maryland together my first year.  His smile could light up a room and we had so many fun times together. He was a great friend that always made me laugh. Although I haven’t seen him in years I always remembered him fondly. The world has lost a gem!! My deepest condolences to his family and friends. 

I am so sorry to hear of Matt’s passing.  Even though we haven’t done business since his years at Bear Stearns and Goldman Sachs, I have some very good memories of Matt and his antics. As sad as this news is, memories of times with him brings a smile!  He will truly be missed.  Jason Gruhot

Our hearts are broken. So many memories growing up from Marlboro to Maryland. Adam, Matt, and I along with all our friends could laugh endlessly.  Matt and I could joke with one another to the point of tears. My tears shed today sadly but I will forever remember his good nature along with the fun and great spirits/personality he would carry in to a room bringing everyone together. May such memories and his legacy provide peace and lasting connection to all that loved him . Our condolences and deepest sympathies to the entire Bogomol Family. xoxo

-The entire Frank Family 


Oh Matty B you will be missed!  You touched so many people and will never be forgotten.  We are all heartbroken and miss you very much-Seth, Deb,  Josh and Rachel Oxenhorn 

Matthew will forever live in my heart and in my memory as a sweet, loving man with an easy smile and a warm glowing spirit. The fond memories playing golf with Adam, Matty and I will forever bring me to smile and think of those days, years ago, when we simply enjoyed being together.  With all my love for the Bogomol Family, Kevin Raskin. 

Our hearts and lives are forever emptier now that Matt has passed.  We are deeply saddened to have lost our dear friend.

Love, Brian and Michelle Hellman

Words cannot express how sorry we are for your loss.  We are all going to miss Matt. May his memory be a blessing. 

Love, Brett, Sheila, Aly, and Paige Solomon

OBITUARIO

Matthew David Bogomol

19 marzo, 1973 – 31 diciembre, 2020

Riverside Memorial Chapel

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