Timothy Tim Bruce McGill

If anyone ever cared, really cared for someone else it would have to be Timothy Bruce McGill. He was a warm hearted and well liked individual, and these wonderful traits came easily to him because he was such a sociable and amiable person, someone who was always making certain that those around him had whatever they needed. Tim was a talkative person who was tactful at all times but typically said what he meant.

      Tim was born on December 30, 1956 at Scarborough General Hospital in Scarborough, Ontario. He was the son of Bruce and Shyrle. During his childhood he learned to be reliable and respectful. Tim was an obedient child who wanted to win the favor of others. He found it easy to show sympathy and to perform kind acts for others. These admirable qualities would become a part of Tim's personality throughout his life.

      Though Tim was frequently the one to initiate games and activities with his family, he was also quite often the family member who took the role of referee. Tim was a peace-maker with an ability to resolve all sorts of family conflicts. In fact, Tim worked conscientiously to keep those typical family spats at bay. Tim was raised with four siblings, Peter, Stephen, Sherri and Paul. Tim and his siblings had the typical rivalries while growing up, but they cared deeply for one another.

      As someone who reveled in the sheer joy of his experiences, Tim was always enthusiastic about new adventures. Although he had an exacting nature, Tim was always tactful. One thing Tim will certainly be remembered for is that, when he got up in the mornings, he was ready and raring to go. As a young boy, Tim had a number of interests and was an active child. Tim took part in hockey and track & field. In his spare time he liked to go fishing. Timothy's memorable achievements included many tack & field and hockey awards all through elementary school.

      For Tim, the school routines were never a problem although he generally preferred variety to structure. He seemed to be able to start a project and work right through to its completion. And he was able to do it quickly and efficiently. Tim was also adept at details. Tim was very observant and was generally quick at picking up new things. He graduated from Stephen Leacock and Woburn Collegiate in 1974. He enjoyed some courses more than others, having favourite classes and teachers. His favourite class in high school was gym and mathematics. The teacher he enjoyed learning from the most was Ernie Clan. Tim's accomplishments in high school included receiving honor roll.

      There was one thing that all of Tim's friends knew and will still remember, and that is that he was a talker. He could pretty much talk to anybody about anything. This quality is one of the primary reasons that Tim was such a popular person throughout his life. But Tim was also dependable, loyal and trustworthy. Tim was the kind of person who simply radiated good fellowship. While he maintained personal standards and his own personal values, Tim was very accepting of others. When Tim made friends, he made true and lasting friendships. While growing up, his best friends were Dave Evans, Kim White, Andy Gonsalves and Larry Gannon who he remained friends with as an adult.

      Tim was a faithful and loving person. Some would even call his sentimental and a romantic at heart. His kindness and consideration radiated an aura of warmth to those around his. Tim cared for what others thought and carried that into his marriage. On August 16, 1975 Tim married Kim Davies at St. Thomas More Parish in Scarborough, Ontario. Compassionate and devoted, Tim worked hard to make his new life partner happy.

      Harmony was important to Tim and he made every effort to maintain it with his family. Tim was blessed with one son, Michael. Tim was always conscious of the feelings others had. He was reasonable and understanding. As a result, Tim was quick to solve disputes and did so without much fuss. His secret of success in this area was simple: Tim would listen before he would act.

      Taking his work seriously came naturally to Tim, and he expected the same from those around him. Tim was a good team player, someone who was born to cooperate with others. He was what some would call a “people person” and it was demonstrated in his good communication skills. Tim was a steady worker, one who was realistic about schedules. The kind of details that would give family members and work colleagues fits were situations that Tim handled well. He could understand the details without getting lost in the broad “big picture.” His primary occupation was in Sales Management. He was employed for 33 years by Purolator Courier. He brought harmony to his work environment, doing what was necessary in order to get the job done, while always maintaining respect for his colleagues.

      A methodical man, Tim enjoyed spending time working on his various hobbies. His favourite pursuits were fishing, golfing, travelling, billiards and bowling.

      Tim was one of those people who took pride in constantly putting forth his best effort. Nowhere was that more visible than in sports. Tim was always enthusiastic and a great team player. In high school, Timothy played hockey. Recreational sports included golf, bowling and fishing. Tim also liked being a sports fan and enjoyed following his favourite teams whenever he got the opportunity. Tops on his list was hockey (Toronto Maple Leafs), and football (Toronto Argo's, Pittsburgh Steelers and Buffalo Bills).

     His high moral standards and traditional values served Tim well with his faith. Religion and faith were important to him. He was a member of the catholic church. He was well respected because he was such an outgoing individual who sought to help in any manner he could.

      A generous and compassionate man, Tim accomplished much during his lifetime. Though he never set out to gain individual recognition, Tim was recognized and given awards for his many and varied efforts throughout his life. Some of his most prestigious awards included many President's Club awards.

      Not only did Tim enjoy travelling, but he also seemed to enjoy planning all of those trips and vacations. He was a facilitator who could easily make up a near perfect schedule of all of the things to do and see. He rarely tired of going back and revisiting his favourite places. Favourite vacations included Cancun, Portugal, Las Vegas, Washington D.C., Vancouver and Nova Scotia.

      Tim was a lover of animals and cherished his pets. His favorites were the dogs, Sandy and Megan, who were best friends for 16 years each. His family was rounded out by his cat, Black Sabbath.

      Tim passed away on May 31, 2015 at Lakeridge Health in Bowmanville, Ontario. Timothy fought courageously and long against cancer. He is survived by his mom Shyrle, his wife Kim, son Michael and many family and friends. Services were held at Oshawa Funeral Home. Timothy was laid to rest in Pineridge Memorial Gardens in Ajax, Ontario.

      Tim was a fantastic conversationalist who could engage just about anyone in a discussion. And whenever he said something, he meant it. Tim was a down to earth person, outgoing and gregarious. He was without question the type of person who enjoyed experiencing things first hand. He was practical and sensible, but what friends and family will remember him for most is the fact that he was so understanding and kind. Everyone whose life he touched will miss Timothy Bruce McGill.

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McGILL, Timothy Bruce “Tim”

After a year long courageous battle with cancer, Tim passed away with his loving family by his side at Lakeridge Health Bowanville on Sunday, May 31st, 2015, at the age of 58. Loving husband, best friend and soulmate of Kim for 45 years. Loving Dad, best friend and “my personal hero” of Mike. Predeceased by his father Bruce and by brother Peter (Sue). Survived by his devoted mother Shyrle. Tim leaves behind brother Steve (Sylvie-Chantal), Sherri (Eric) and Paul (Paulette), parents-in-law Merle and Paul, brothers-in-law Chris, Paul (Gerda), and sister-in-law Dawn (Pat). Tim will be fondly remembered by many adoring cousins, nieces, nephews, extended family and friends. Tim will be forever remembered for his kind and caring nature and the way he always put others before himself . He will be dearly missed by all who knew him. The McGill family would like to extend their gratitude to the caring and compassionate Palliative Team, and Cancer Team at Lakeridge Health Oshawa, especially Dr. Koneru, Dr. Osborne and Sue and Nancy of St. Elizabeth’s as well as the volunteers at Lakeridge Health Oshawa and CCAC for all the support given to the family. Visitation will be held at OSHAWA FUNERAL HOME, 847 King Street West (905-721-1234) on Friday, June 5th from 2 – 4 and 7 – 9 p.m. Funeral Service will be held in the Chapel on Saturday, June 6th at 11:00 a.m. Memorial donations will be gratefully accepted for St. Elizabeth’s or Lakeridge Health Oshawa – Cancer Care.