Wilfrid Sheridan Hughes

Wilfrid Sheridan Hughes was born in Toronto on May 7, 1942, the fourth of eight children to Welsh and Irish parents. He grew up on the city’s east side, running the streets with his seven siblings and spending summers at the lake in Buckhorn. He later built his life and career in Peterborough, touching many as an educator, friend, uncle, brother, father and husband.

He leaves behind his beloved wife, Gail Hughes (Milton), and the family they built together: Danielle Hughes (David Lotan); Suki Hughes (Neil Mohammed); Lisa Hughes (Mike Bubyn).

To his grandchildren - Molly, Cameron, Liam and Alex - he was simply Bumpa. And being Bumpa may have been his most cherished title of all.

It was love at first sight when he first saw Gail crossing the street at Yonge and Eglinton. He proposed to her on their very first date, and although it took three years for her to say yes, he remained devoted to her throughout their 58 years of marriage. She was the love of his life and central to every decision he made.

In 1975, they moved to Peterborough, raising their daughters and building their life as a family. He flourished as a father, learning to be kind and soft while instilling a toughness that would carry his girls through life. He was deeply loved by all three, each sharing a unique and special bond with him.

Family was his anchor. He was a brother who showed up when needed, and an uncle to many nieces and nephews, always remembering birthdays and special moments.

A natural leader, Wilf built a successful career as a secondary school teacher and principal. Though he didn’t shine as a student, he was a brilliant educator - quick to recognize when kids were struggling and determined to help them find their path. A steadfast champion of the underdog, he believed deeply that with the right opportunity, everyone could succeed. His distinctive “ready, fire, aim” approach empowered teachers to take initiative, creating a ripple effect that inspired and engaged students.

He was dedicated to the Peterborough community, serving for many years as a volunteer board member with the Peterborough Petes hockey club. He was also a long time member of the Peterborough Golf and Country Club, where the friendships he formed became some of the most meaningful of his life, enriching his retirement years beyond measure. His commitment to the club extended beyond the course, having served as both a board member and President.

Wilf will be remembered for his quick wit and deep empathy. He always found a way to make people laugh, right up until his final moments. He lit up every room he entered, yet still made time to be genuinely curious about everyone around him. He had a remarkable gift for making people feel seen and important.

We know how fortunate we were to have him for as long as we did, and still, we will miss him deeply each and every day. In his honour, we will carry forward the lessons he taught us: to love fully, to be resilient, to laugh often, and to show up for the people in our lives.

We would like to thank Dr. Neville for over 30 years of care and Dr Morelli for her kindness and support through our final stages. If inclined, please consider a donation to Teachers for Kids: www.teachersforkidsfound.wixsite.com or Peterborough Regional Health Centre: www.prhcfoundation.ca

Please join us in celebrating Wilf’s life at the Peterborough Golf and Country Club Sunday, March 29th 1pm-4pm.