Jay Noble Grieser

Jay Noble Grieser, “Papa Jay” was born In Benton Harbor, Michigan on April 1, 1948. He was the youngest of three children and is survived by his two sisters, Lynn Eldridge and Jean Murphy (married to John).

Jay proudly served his country after being drafted into the United States Army, where he achieved the rank of Sergeant and fought in the Vietnam War from 1968–1969. He served as a mortar man, working closely in a three-man team with Daryl Seegert and Bill Gratzer. Jay’s family is profoundly grateful for these men — they protected one another in combat and remained brothers throughout their lives, a bond that meant everything to Jay.

In 1970, Jay married Marilynn Forbes. Together they raised two sons and shared over 20 years of marriage. In 1980, Jay moved his family from Michigan to Arizona, beginning a new chapter that would shape the rest of his life.

Jay graduated from the Eastern Michigan and put his education to work when he found his niche as a sales leader at Waste Management. An entrepreneur at heart, Jay later became co-owner of Desert Waste and Recycling, building a successful independent waste and recycling operation. He retired in 2008 after a rewarding career — famously gifted at “talking trash and kicking ass.”

Before retiring, Jay met Patty Kesterson, and they were married in the fall of 2008. Through Patty, Jay became a devoted stepfather to Rebecca and Megan, and a proud grandfather to Liam and Ethan. Patty cared for Jay for his remaining time here on earth. She is an active supporter of veterans, and his family is incredibly thankful for her.

Jay’s legacy lives on through his sons and their families.

His son Jayson married Hannah, and together they have five boys — Jonah (married to Greta), Jude, Paul, Asaph, and Liam — along with one granddaughter.

His son Brandon married Karen, and together they raised four children – Sydney (married to Taylor), Branson (married to Bailee Lynn), Chloe, and Ayla, along with seven grandchildren.

Jay leaves behind a flourishing family who loved and respected him deeply. He was a devoted father, grandfather, husband, brother, and friend — a man of grit, loyalty, humor, and heart. His service, work ethic, and unwavering commitment to family will continue to guide those who loved him.

Jay lived out the truth of Ecclesiastes 4:9–10, which reminds us that “two are better than one… for if either of them falls, one can help the other up.”This was evident in every part of his life — from the brotherhood he shared in Vietnam to the lifelong relationships he cherished.

His greatest pride was his family, beautifully reflected in Proverbs 17:6: “Children’s children are a crown to the aged, and parents are the pride of their children.” Jay was deeply proud of his sons, grandchildren, and the legacy of love and strength he helped build.

As we remember Jay today, we hold close the words of 2 Timothy 4:7: “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.”

Jay Noble Grieser fought bravely, loved fiercely, worked hard, and lived fully. His life leaves an enduring impact on all who were blessed to know him.

A memorial service will be held at Phoenix Memorial Park and Mortuary, located at 200 West Beardsley Road, Phoenix, Arizona, 85027. The service is scheduled for February 13, 2026, from 11:00 am to 12:00 pm.