Ann Walker McKenzie-Gray

Ann Walker McKenzie-Gray, Vero Beach, FL, passed away on Sunday, March 27, 2022, after a long, fierce battle with cancer. She was surrounded by an enormous amount of love, as she had given so much love throughout her beautiful life. Ann was born in Rosyth, Fife, Scotland, right outside of Edinburgh on November 28, 1944. She was the middle of three children and was the daughter of the late John McKenzie and Catherine Campbell of Rosyth, Scotland. Her interest in traveling and seeing the world started early, and she moved to London when she was 18; and not long after moved to Quebec, Canada. Feeling homesick for her homeland, she moved back to Scotland where she met and married an American Marine, the late Robert L. Gray; they moved to Massachusetts and raised three children together. The move from Scotland to the States was a culture shock for her; being in an inter-racial marriage and raising biracial children, she had to deal with racism and prejudice, something she never encountered before. Being the strong Scot she was, she handled all the trials and tribulations with grace and fortitude. She was the rock of the family, the one that held everything and everyone together when things seemed to be falling apart, more often than not putting her own needs to the side to ensure her family and friends had what they needed.

Ann was a very hard worker, at one point working three jobs to help make ends meet, and she also just liked to stay busy. One of the first companies she worked for in the States was Mass Mutual, but she ultimately finished her career at American International College in Springfield, MA, where she retired. She was a member of the British Wives Club, a place where she could connect to her roots. When she became a Grandmother, she was overjoyed. She was as much a devoted Grandmother as she was a Mother. She eventually became known as “Nana”, not only to her grandchildren but to all the kids! Everyone knew and loved Nana because she was so actively engaged in all of the kids’ activities, cheering them on and giving lots of hugs and kisses.

After retirement, she moved to Florida to be closer to her daughter Angela Gray. She enjoyed her retirement years to the fullest, traveling with her daughter and close friends, gardening, baking, and reading. She enjoyed gardening, baking and enjoyed watching her favorite cooking shows so she could try new exciting creations. She likely got this from her Mum, as she was also a great baker. She often baked little treats and passed them out to her neighbors. When she learned of anyone having any type of life event, she would run out to get supplies to make them a gift basket. Ann loved staying engaged in life; she was definitely a “people person”, and although she was retired, she still wanted to remain active, so she started to work part-time at Palm Beach State College. She also served as a volunteer for Cleveland Clinic Hospital – Indian River. One of her favorite shows was “Call The Midwife”, she wouldn’t miss it; she said it reminded her of back home. She loved animals and had quite a few pets throughout the years; more recently, becoming Nana to her daughter’s two dogs, Rocco and Sammi – they gave her so much joy and comfort. Ann also loved music, specifically the Motown Sound – The Temptations, The Four Tops, The Spinners, and many more.

She was an inspiring soul, always there for all who came to her with their troubles. She was the most loving, humble, compassionate, courageous, fearless, loyal human being; one of the most beautiful souls you could ever meet. The world has lost a beautiful soul, but heaven has gained an angel.

Mom – my heart shattered when you left; a part of me died with you. I will never be the same. You held me as a baby, nurturing me, protecting me. You sacrificed so very much for all of your children. You were faced with so many challenges, but you never gave up. You were always there for me through thick and thin. You put your own needs aside for your family. I remember you driving back and forth to my dorm room at college to check on me. Before you moved to Florida with me, you would visit me all the time. We went on so many Mother-Daughter trips together, and I’m so glad I have those memories. I would not be the person I am if it weren’t for you. All of my strength, I get from you. I don’t have to think too hard when asked who my hero is – it’s you. You are my Hero. The type of person you were, your character, I wish there were more people with it; the world would be a much kinder place. As I grew older, I then became your protector. It was my turn to take care of and protect you. Everyone knew, “don’t mess with my Mom”. We were glued to the hip you and I. You were more than just my Mother, you were my best friend, my life partner, my confidant, my world. I really don’t know how I go on in this world without you. My heart aches every waking moment; every day is a struggle to get through without you. I tried my best to “fix” this illness in you, but I could not. You were taken from me too soon. We should have had many more years together. I still can’t believe you are gone; the pain is unbearable. I wish I could just talk to you right now, to look into your beautiful face, to do the things we once did together. Or to just sit together in the house, doing nothing. Just to know you were there was absolutely everything. I am so lucky to have had you as my Mother. I love you and miss you so very much, Love Angela.

Ann leaves behind so many friends and family, who will miss her dearly. She is predeceased by her son Robert Christopher Gray and now rejoins him, they are together again.

Celebration of Life Services are being handled by Aycock Funeral Home in Port St Lucie, FL, and for details about the service please contact her daughter Angela Gray.

Remember Me

Remember me with smiles and not tears,

For all the joy, through all the years.

Recall a closeness that was ours,

A love as sweet as fragrant flowers.

Don’t dwell on thoughts that cause you pain,

We’ll see each other once again.

I am at peace…. Try to believe,

It was my time… I had to leave.

But “what a view” I have from here,

I see your face, I feel you near.

I follow you throughout the day,

You’re not alone along the way.

And when God calls you, you will be,

Right by my side, right here with me.

Till then, I’ll wait by heaven’s door,

We’ll be united…. Evermore!

By Genie Graveline