To have a good friend is
one of the highest
delights of life;
to be a good friend is
one of the noblest and
most difficult undertakings.

I just found out today that you passed away. I'm still in shock. God bless you always and your daughters. May you live in paradise.

Mom , There's Not A Day That Goes By That I Don't Think Of You. I Miss You So Much And I Never Thought I Would Lose You . There Were Still Things You Needed To See , Like My Prom And My Graduation And Your Grandchildren . But I Know Tht Your Watching Down On Me In Heaven . I Wish You Were Here So I Could Hold You And Never Let You Go. I Wish I Could've Said Goodbye To You And Told You How Much I Love You And Always Will . These Past Months Have Been So Very Hard Without You But Im Trying My Best To Hold It Together For You. Words Can't Describe How Much I Miss You . But I Know Your In A Better Place Now And That Your Happy . I Love You So Much Mommy And When Its My Time To Go I Hope Youll Be There Waiting For Me <3 Rest In Peace Mom.

I pick up the phone to try to call you I remember you're gone I miss you every day my dear friend

Tobi I miss you everyday.. I sit outside and remember all are talks and I see your beautiful daughters .. and I tell them the how special they were to you and how you loved them all so much .. I love you and will never forget you my dear friend ..RIP and fly away no more pain and suferring ..

Jim and I are deeply saddened by your loss.  Please know that you are forever in our hearts and minds.  May our Precious Lord give you both comfort in this unimaginable time.

I just learned of Tobi's passing and am shocked and saddened.  This is so heartbreaking.  Tobi was so kind and full of life.  Some of my fondest childhood memories have her in them.  You will be missed Tobi.  George and Christy, you and Tobi's precious girls are in my thoughts and prayers.

Amber Lawrence (Johnson)

I just learned of Tobi's passing and am deeply saddened for her entire family. When I last spoke with Tobi about 6 years ago, I remember PURE JOY in her voice as she told me about her girls. The love she expressed through the phone for the girls was amazing. 

Whenever I think of Tobi, the first image I have is the big, beautiful, bright smile she had! 

George and Christy - You and the girls are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful, precious girl.

Gentle is the night
We tread this world by day
Holding fast to mother earth
Resting sleep in soft moonlight

Mother fusses guiding slow
With blankets, teddies, books in tow
To go to fly little sparrow

Above the crowds she knows your voice
To fly from home was not her choice

To Father's arms to cradle tight
To smile sweet
To shine the light

Beyond this pain 
Your footfalls dance
To give in love
A second chance

Mommy rest now
I've found my trail
I'm big & strong here
Wind in sail 

You catch me in the quiet night
To hear your love 
Delight delight
Heaven's gates
By day by night

The sparrow song 
To soothe the soul
This little child
All aglow

May God give you all the strength to get through this very sad time in your lives, Pat and I are thinking about your family, and praying for you, please take care.  Pat and Melanie Crowell and family.

Mom just handed me your Fathers day card you left for me.  I wish you were still here so you could have given it to me yourself.  I love you so much Tobi and I will always be thinking of you as long as I live.  Remember you will always be Daddys pretty baby.

Tobi we had many laughs in high school my condolences go out to your family

Tobi was a angel and she loved her family so much she'll allways be in my heart

My condolences to George and Christy Fernandez and her Children.  May Tobi rest in peace with Our Lord.  


Barbara(Puente)Carpenter.

RIP my friend, we grew up together, played softball together and had some fun times. I will always remember u and miss u my friend.

Gina, My Heart Hurts, the tears are painful, and all the wonderful memories are within; Thank you for being part of our lives', Thank you for my three Beautiful Nieces , Christina, Alaina, and Sabrina who in life will complete your will. 
Rest in Peace

+  Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted;  Matthew 5:4

Tobi's Daughters-
Such a special person
kind and gentle too,
she loved you three so much
SO VERY MUCH IT'S TRUE,
she has a new set of wings
that are fresh and brand new,
because now she's YOUR Angel
watching over YOU !!

Oh my beautiful daughter. I still can't believe your gone.  I will always cherish the memories.  I promise I will be there for the girls when they need me. I will miss you forever. RIP. I love you so much.

TOBI GIRL --- I will always remember you & will pray for your family and your beautiful little girls; we worked at Grossmont Dental together. What a sweet, fun,
loving girl. Rest in peace my little friend.

REST IN PEACE SWEET TOBI. You will be truly missed. My prayers are with your  three girls and family members. FLY FREE WITH YOUR ANGELS !!
Your neighbor of 10 yrs. and FRIEND, I LOVE YOU TOO TOBI !!
Susan, Justin & Joshua

I heard of Tobi's passing on Facebook and would like to send my condolences to her family.  I am so sorry for your loss!
We went to high school together, and one thing I remember about her is her hair.  Oh how I LOVED her beautiful hair. 
May she rest in peace.

I am so very sorry for your loss.  Tobi was a beautiful girl and an amazing woman.  Though I don't have any words that can comfort you please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you now.

Walter, Margaret and Shelby Shields

I had the pleasure of meeting Tobi in high school. We had a few classes together. 9th grade P.E. in particular, I have a picture of her in our swim class. I also have a picture she gave me when her daughter, Christina (6m), was baptized. I remember walking home from school with her a few times and hanging out. I've thought of her many times over the years. Last time I saw her was maybe 12~15 years ago in College Grove, I ran into her & her girls over by the old Mervyn's now Kohl's. She still had the high hair. I wish we would have exchanged numbers & kept in touch. I remember thinking she was so beautiful. I always loved Tobi's hair. She had the best hair in high school. Her smile was contagious. Tobi & her family are in my prayers.

I worked with Tobi at Grossmont Dental.
Such a beautiful girl with the biggest smile,  And that georgous big smile.
I wish her peace with OUR LORD,JESUS CHRIST. I will pray for those beautiful children.
I wish you strength to her parents.  I remember how close she was (and still is) to you.  God give you strength.

In fond memory; Sharon Fowler

I was shocked and sad to hear about Tobi. I do remember Tobi and the big smile that she had. My thoughts are with her daughters and her family.

I am SO sorry for her passing! I have SO many fond memories of spending almost all of middle school with Tobi and her family! I can never eat rolled tacos without ketchup because one day while at her house we made some and there was nothing else to eat them with so we used ketchup! They were delicious!! lol She was such a fun loving girl and our friendship got me through those rough middle school years. I will never forget the love and compassion we shared as friends! I will pray for your family Tobi, for I am grateful you are no longer in pain, only well aware their pain is truly just beginning! prayers and hugs!

I am at a loss for words, Tobi and I were like sisters.  Her family was like my family, It breaks my heart that we were not as close as we once were.  Words cannot explain how I feel for her beautiful daughters and her parents whom loved her deeply.  Im so sorry for your loss and I will continue to pray for the girls and your family.  May God Bless you Tobi and my God hold your hand and guide you thru your journey.

This is SO sad for me to even think about writing memories of Tobi. I went to middle and high school with Tobi. I remember laughing with her in PE class. God's blessings to her babies and her family. ..

I remember Tobi from middle school and high school.  We both lived in Miller's Ranch together.  When we were kids I alway thought how beautiful she was.  May happy memories of her ease some of your sorry.  My condolences to her family.

Toby was a very dear friend she will be deeply missed my deepest condolences to her family.   Joe D

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Tobi J. Avila

25 enero, 1974 – 24 junio, 2012

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