June 8, 2025
To my dearest Mom in Heaven, 
I am missing you today, but I know that you will always be with me in my heart. I love you

The best gifts in life will never be found under a Christmas tree.  Those gifts are Friends, Family, Children, and the Ones You Love.

Merry Christmas in Heaven. I miss you, mom.

Christmas is a time of giving.  Often we think of the Christmas season in terms of gifts that come in many different shapes, sizes, and packages.  In reality, the most important gifts aren't wrapped, aren't in a box or package, and won't be found under the tree.

The best gifts are the ones that come from the heart; they don't break or wear out with age but last a lifetime.

One of those gifts from the heart is family.  Families have their ups and downs, as we all know, but at the end of the day, they still have each other.  Sometimes, truly appreciating a gift helps to be reminded of those who have never been so blessed.  Some never get to experience the gift of a family.

Merry Christmas in Heaven.  I miss you, dad.

This is our family on Thanksgiving Day many years ago.  You and Dad hosted it at your home.  Thanksgiving is not quite the same without you!  Love, Cheryl

Mom, The world is changing from year to year.  Sometimes it feels like it is getting more difficult.  I fear for the future of my grandchildren.  I fear our democracy might be lost.  As I get older, I value the simpler days that have passed.  Our lives will never be the same as when you left this world.  While some things keep changing in my life from day to day, the love and the memory of you both shall never pass away.   I love you both very much.  I miss you.

This picture was taken when I took Mom to Olive Garden in May 2013 for lunch.

This picture was taken when I took Mom to Original Joe's for lunch in May 2012.

Happy Birthday to you
Happy Birthday to you
Happy Birthday dear Mom
Happy Birthday to you!

I found this prayer, The Lord is my Shepherd.  It made me think of you.  I remembered how much you were fond of this prayer.

It's been three years since you passed. 
In loving memory of my Mom, 
Always on my mind, 
Forever in my heart.

Time goes by way too fast, but memories last forever.  I love you.
Love Always, your daughter Cheryl

6-8-2022
Mom, it has been two years since you passed.  I'll never forget the pain you went through.  I am sad that you are gone but relieved that you are no longer in such pain.

Love, Cheryl

6-8-2022
In loving memory of my mom.
Love, your Daughter Cheryl

Betty was my neighbor up the street.  She always had a kind word and showed a genuine interest in others.  And when possible, she was always ready to share her apricots, tangerines, and plums ;) During the three years my wife, Barbara, battled cancer, Betty was always supportive and caring, sending cards with words of love, sympathy, and hope.  After Barbara passed away, Betty again was
there with her kindness and support.  Betty was such a good person and will be missed by her family and friends.  My sincere condolences to Colleen and Cheryl and the rest of Betty's family.

The most important memory to me of Betty was the following memory: 
When T. R. and I were going together we went to visit Betty and Gene and told them if my parents wouldn't permit us to marry we were going to run away and marry. Your parents immediately said if my parents said no they would take us to Reno and stand up for us.
I was 15 and T. R. was 19. Having this leverage my parents signed the papers of permission and we got married on my 16th birthday in Methodist in Campbell with our Moms and siblings as witnesses.


Although no longer being "in the family",  for almost 50 years, Bill and Betty always treated me as if I was. We stayed close all  these years, and after Bill passed, Betty and I continued our closeness. While still living in San Jose, I would stop by and we would have long talks. After moving away 9 years ago, We continued to call each other every few months. When I would call, I always made sure I had at least an hour of time, and normally that wasn't enough!!. She will be missed by everyone who knew her, however, we should take joy in that she is where she always wanted to be, with Bill. Love you Mom.

When I was a kid, I loved spending time with Betty. I could tell her things and she always had a way of making me feel special. Betty was my mom's friend and a big part of our lives in San Jose. There were lots of game nights and parties, coffee visits and birthdays. Over the years I got to see Betty now and then at mom's house, and for the last time at a treasured lunch in San Jose more than 10 years ago now. She was just the same. I could tell her anything. I loved her very much. My deep sorrow goes out to Colleen and Cheryl and their families. 

OBITUARIO

Betty Ann Shelton

8 mayo, 1932 – 8 junio, 2020

Oak Hill Funeral Home & Memorial Park

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