Hello all 
My name is Kevin. 

The first time I met Paul was when my friends and I were cutting class. Our collection of friends are consist of cool geeks- yes cool. We met up and needed a place to go, so we ended up at Paul’s parents house. We all came into Paul’s room through the sliding glass door. I remember walking in and feeling so anxious. Couple minutes in we all got the grand tour of his room and my eyes locked onto a his speaker setup. There was a freaking car battery and car audio amp in his closet! I remember Paul putting on black hawk down, the low hertz from bass from black hawk  shook that entire house -Wooomp wooomp wooomp. Paul is one of the biggest audiophile I’ve ever met. He was so particular about his speakers and taught me a lot about source. I had the pleasure of being one of his roommates at tawney terrace with Paul and Jaime - leaderhousen. Paul introduced me FLAC audio - we really had a great bond geeking out on audio system installs in our cars. I admired Paul for his drive and commitment to what he loved to do. He spent hours upon hours building his system in his Tacoma to the point where he got sick because he worked into the late night cold. Paul had been injured in a dirt bike accident - we dubbed him hobblies Bc he had to hobble around the three stories. Paul loved frozen bertolli pasta, boxed and was a sucker for sour candy! I would come home after work and he would be in his sleigh bed tv/computer setup passed out with sour candy wrappers all over his belly. Classic! Living in tawney - I can honestly say I never consumed so much bacon in life. “This is going to go bad and we have to eat it!” - we had just gone grocery shopping yesterday! It was great! All stories aside the thing I will remember most about Paul is his genuineness  - someone who was never to busy to listen to you. Through it all I am glad we were able to experience each other and admire each other’s drive. Turning up my bass for you Paul! Until we meet again 
KV 

Thank you, Paul. Thank you for making my sweet friend so happy.  Thank you for being an incredible husband to Shandra and an incredible father to your beautiful daughters. Thank you for always being so warm and inviting as us girls took over your house during our visits.  I’ve been thinking a lot about your wedding day and the way you and Shandra beamed at each other.  We were all so fortunate to be a part of that story.

We went on a handful of double dates with Paul and Shandra; from tree hunting, culinary classes, to (my favorite) the nutcracker ballet.  Shandra and I thought it would be a cute and christmassy thing to do. But my lord were Paul and Will ever so bored and miserable. A true testament to love for him to go through with something he hated to make his wife happy.  

I also appreciated his tech savvy ways to bring WiFi and movies on our remote getaway in big sur where there was (supposed to be) no reception. 

We love you Paul!

I have numerous memories of my nephew, Paul. When he was a kid, running around with him on my shoulders while he giggled uncontrollably. Later on in our lives, conversations regarding information technology. He was passionate about computer science, as am I. We both were lucky to have his grandfather (my uncle) who was instrumental in getting the two of us on our career paths in IT. As such the two of us always had plenty to chat about when we'd meet up at family events. He'll be sorely missed. Condolences to Paul's children, his sister and his parents (my cousins.)

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Paul Michael Neves

28 agosto, 1983 – 30 junio, 2019

Willow Glen Funeral Home

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