There isn't a day that goes by with out me thinking of you. I will forever miss you Son.

Brother I can’t begin to understand life without you here . It’s been so hard , home doesn’t feel like home anymore since you been gone . There isn’t a day where I don’t think about you , I truly believe the lord sent me your niece to help me pull through your loss ! She’s been the only thing that’s kept me going strong , I promise I’ll always be here for mom & the family ! There’s no words to express how much we miss you . I love you so much & miss you dearly 🥺 watch over us and give the strength to continue on

Son the is no words to express you not being here with me. My life will never be the same with out you .  I kow that you're in a better and that's home with the Lord. Until we meet again my mi amor. 

I love you & miss you  you so much ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

My little brother J.J today marks two years and it feels like it was yesterday that you been gone I miss you  so damn much you don’t understand how hard it is to wake up  everyday to know I will never hear your dorky  laugh your voice or say Sis you’re gonna be all right keep ur head 
 I miss you so much now you’re my guardian angel 
  Love ur sis Tina

Cousin I Still can't believe your gone. I can still remember one of the last times that I saw you was at the walmart parking lot I couldn't believe it was you because you looked so different. But once you smiled I knew it was you  you were always very respectful and always gave me a hug and said hi  cousin no matter how long it had been since we last seen each other.  You will forever be in my heart  love you cousin

My Dear Son Jay, there is not one second of my life that goes by and I don't think of you son. I miss you so much son.  😔😔😔 The Lord called you home mijo. I have so much to be thankful for.. God gave me a beautiful gift., and that was to be able to give you back to him, with peace & joy.   All the glory & praise to our precious King our Lord & SaviorJesus Christ. You are up in paradise with the Lord & all the angels 😇  until we meet again mijo. I ♥️ you to infinity & beyond my baby boy my mamaz boy ♥️♥️♥️♥️

I will forever miss you son, Love 

Mom

No hay un dia que no te recordemos Jay Jay Siempre fuistes pura sonrisa extraño escucar cuando llegavas a Casa y Molestabas a Andrew diciendole Mi Mor Como Olvidar ese Dia que llego la Social Worker ala casa por que Andrew le dijo a su Maestra que su hermano Jay Jay le decia Mi Mor y que no le gustaba jijiji fuistes alegria en nuestro Mundo y en tu partida te llevas un pedaso de mi Corazon pero solo puedo estar agradecido con dios por que estos 15 Años que pasamos juntos, vivimos muchas Cosas buenas y malas pero tu siempre fuistes un chico Rudo pero por dentro eras una persona Amable, Cortes y que siempre le davas la mano a quien lo nececitara We miss you every day. Este no es un adios si no un hasta pronto See you soon Jay jay.


IN THIS PIX
TIA AMANDA (me)
VINCE (the birthday boy)
ADRIAN (my nephew)
JUNIOR (jay jay)
SAMANTHA (my daughter)

JUNIOR I WILL ALWAYS MISS YOU AND CHERISH YOU DEARLY U WERE MY CONSENTIDO AND I WILL NEVER FORGET YOU IM ALWAYS GOING TO BE AROUND YOUR MOM AND BROTHERS THAT I PROMISE YOU REST IN PEACE MY FAVORITE NEPHEW YOULL ALWAYS BE TIAS JUNIOR I LOVE YOU

Mijo I’ll always remember you , you will never be forgotten. Jose and I loved you more than you know . Thank you for being a brother to Giant (lil Jose) I know you two were inseparable always into something, I know giant loved you and will have a hard time not being able to pick up his phone to communicate with you but I do know you will always be there by his side to take care of him for me always and  for that I thank you . My girls to will always remember you and loved you just as much .  I know they will never forget you and you will always be known to them as their  brother . You were a good man Mijo, from all the shared stories today Mijo you touched a lot of lives, you sure will be missed to a lot of of people. Mijo I love you 😘 may you Rest In Peace and come visit me in my dreams from time to time ok . 

Te quiero MUNCHO mi Rodolfillo 
De parte de tu Tío Carlos Mendoza

Querido Sobrino y Primo,
Rodo cuando llegaste a nuestras vidas fuisteis una gran bendición que dios los mando y alegría para toda la familia. Porque eras un Mendoza más que se hizo parte de nuestra familia y también eras el siguiente de la nueva generación que tomo el nombre de Rodolfo Mendoza, como tu padre y tu abuelito. Nunca imaginamos que tú te los fueras de este mundo como te fuisteis. Estabas muy joven mijo te faltaba mucho por vivir. Aunque tu ya no estés aquí el la tierra nunca te olvidaremos. Siempre estarás en los corazones té tus primos y de tu tía te queremos mucho. Descansa en Paz mijo se que ya estás en el cielo con tu abuelita Carolina que tanto te ama. En nuestros corazones y recuerdos 

Feels like just yesterday we were taking shots for your 21st birthday! Now you get to celebrate with all of the other angels in heaven❤️

Cousin,
No words can describe this emptiness/pain we feel inside for your passing we all know it’s a part of life, we’re never really prepared for it! Sometimes we become selfish and ask why? Only god knows . Thank you for the memories you left us with growing up and for Blessing our lives with a handsome baby boy who is just like you! Who may not fully understand what’s going on yet. We will definitely take care of him and love him! May your soul rest in eternal peace, and we will meet again. Love you❤️

JJ te recordaremos como el muchacho alegre ,educado ,buena persona como tu mamá te enseño los queremos mucho , Estamos  seguros q estas alado del señor 
Descansa en paz ❤️❤️

Departe De Familia Villalobos Ibanez 

JJ
I didn't just think of you as my nephew, I always saw you as a brother. I will forever remember when you were a little guy and would get upset because you were shorter then others your age and thought you wouldn't grow any taller. I would tell you "Watch Jay you will grow and be big and tall and your tall tees will actually fit". Lol You wouldn't believe me but I knew you would. Not long after that you didn't just grow big and tall but also into wonderful young man and I take so much pride that I had a small hand in that. You will forever be in my heart and my memories Mijo. I love you. 

Dear Jay, From the moment you came into our lives, we knew you were something special. Your loving and kind hearted personality drew so many people to love you beyond measures. We saw you grow into a smart, brilliant and strong young man that we were all proud of. There are no words to explain how much we will miss you moving forward. We hold you near and dear in our hearts forever and always. For now, we will continue remembering the beautiful memories we shared together. Until we meet again. We love you my son! 

Always and Forever, Tia Donna, Tio Jorge, Jorgie, Jayden and Jaxon

You will forever be missed JJ ! I remember when we all went fishing and always doing things with you my daughter and my grandson! I love you! -Roy

God saw you getting tired, and a cure was not to be. So he put is arms around you and whispered,  “come with me” with tearful eyes we watched you slowly fade away. Although we loved you dearly, we would not make you stay. A golden heart stopped beating, your hard-working hands put to rest, God broke our hearts to prove to us He only takes the best. 
- I love you dad, Bid Daddy. 

Those special memories of you will always bring a smile. If only i could have you back, just for a little while. Then we could could sit and talk again, just like we used to do. You always meant so very much and will always too. The fact that you're no longer here will cause me pain, but you're forever in my heart until we meet again. 

MY JAY JAY MY SISTER IN CHRIST & OUR SON ADRIAN!!!!

Papi no te digo a dios si no asta pronto hoy dios te reciba con los brazos abiertos siempre te recordaré como eras un niño muy bueno siempre me llevaré tu recuerdo te quiere tu tía Miriam RIP jj 

THE CASTANEDA FAMILY THAT LOVES YOU JAY JAY! 
RIP WITH THE ANGELS OUR BELOVED  JAY JAY........

Dearest Cousin/Brother, 

Here’s a pic of us when we were kids, (15/16 years old). I just want to thank you so much for being a big part of my life, thank you for always having my back and always checking in on me and always asking about my babies. You will forever be in my heart. These past few years we had gotten so close and I am so glad my children got to meet you. My heart hurts but I know you are now resting and watching over us. We have soo many great memories together and wished we could have had more, just like we had planned for this summer. I will truely miss getting mad at you for blowing my phone up and waking me up around 2am on the weekends telling me to “pull up” or when you would say “I’m on my way to your house, be ready cause we ganna be wildin’ forsure.” I will miss going with you to after hours, matrix, & bars/clubs! I’m going to miss it all! Your the realest I’ve ever met , my day 1. I know that in my heart, no one could ever replace you Jay. I will forever cherish everything you have done for me and all the great times we had together. I love you and will miss you so much. Fly high and may you Rest in Peace Primo!! ♥️🙏🏼🕊

THE NINER GANG EXCEPT FOR RAYMOND!!!
LOL🙄

NINO MAKING TACOS OF COURSE WITH MY NINER APRON.......
RIP MY BELOVED GODSON.......

My Dearest Brother , 
Around this time the photo was taken I had just turned 16 yrs old & my dad had kicked me out on the street & I had no where to go . I had just starting becoming close with Sam & later she introduced me to the family & mom . Mom (Liz) instantly took me in & raised me from that day on with you guys. This picture was a regular night at home waiting for you to get there after a night out . Sure enough you’d come home & as usual you’d crack a few jokes & say “Aye foo I’m hungry” .. Sam or I would have to make you some food & your dang sweet tea before you finally went to bed . We’d stay up asking you about your night & drink a few beers together . When the food was ready I’d take my ass up them stairs & yell out “here you go princess” !! You were so spoiled & no matter how tired we were or how long you had been out we always waited up around for you to get home . Thank you for taking care of me since the first day I stepped into your home that later on became mine . I’m probably the little sister you never wanted but I became just that , I will forever cherish all the moments we had . My heart is hurting jay & I don’t know how to recover from this loss we all have taken but know you are truly missed & loved dearly . Thank you for leaving behind the biggest piece of you my baby nephew that gives us the strength to keep us all going . You are now flying high with my baby your (niece/nephew) . I know you are now at rest & at peace . Thank you for being my big brother . I’ll always be my brothers keeper . 

Love always , your little sister ❤️ 

ALWAYS WITH MY BOYS
JUNIOR, CARLOS, AND VINCE

My momery about Jay 
Jay so Amazing with families for fun trip field at cancan beach. I saw he so sweet person and friendly and Nice smile. He always smile of me me make smile of him. He always hug with me me hug him too. He always care his family together. I know he are growing than little kid. He so Amazing look good dress for my sister and sister in law wedding this momery.  I will miss him. I love him cousin..🙏😢 he will watch them we can see sky sun there heaven. Beautiful sky heaven.

THE DAY YOU CAME INTO NINA & NINO’S LIFE YOU WERE ONLY THREE MONTHS OLD AND WE WERE SO BLESSED BE YOUR NINO’S!  WE WATCHED YOU GROW INTO THIS HANDSOME AND CARING YOUNG MAN THAT HAD LOTS OF RESPECT FOR US.
AND NOW THAT YOU ARE GONE YOU HAVE LEFT BEHIND YOUR SON THAT NOT ONLY DOES HE ACT LIKE YOU DID WHEN YOU WERE HIS AGE BUT LOOKS EXACTLY LIKE YOU....  WHEN WE SEE YOUR SON WE SEE YOU AND AT LEAST WE STILL HAVE THAT PIECE OF YOU HERE!!
MY BABY JAY JAY MAY YOU REST WITH THE ANGELS!!
WE LOVE YOU,
NINA & NINO........


To my dearest cousin ,
When we where little kids there where many memories we shared. One specific memory I have of us was when we where all squished in one car  and you would ALWAYS call me and Daisy guts and hairy . I never understood your hard , tough love till one day I came to you Really upset about something and  you right away had open arms and open ears and wanted to make me feel better . You where honestly pain in the butt . As I’m writing this I know we created a treasure book of beautiful memories  that I can turn to at night whenever i need to feel your Punk presence because for some reason that’s something I’m truly going to miss . As we put you to rest I hope you are happy in heaven with Raul. I love you cousin . 



               Nino with Jay & Vincent.....

                       The Niner Fam Bam.....

Dear Primo,

This couple of years of growing up together where full of memory’s that I will cherish forever in my heart. When adilenne and I would sleep over and the things you would do to keep us up with you because we all new how hard it was for you to sleep so what would you do pull our legs and say wake up! I cherish the deep conversations that we would have!Hearing you say DAISY DUKE serve me a plate! I love you and I will carry you in my heart ❤️

Love,
Daisy 


I MET HIS MOM WHEN JUNIOR “jay” WAS ONLY 3mo OLD. WE ARE NOT BLOOD RELATED BY THATS MY SISTER AND HER BOYS ARE MY NEPHEWS. THE BOYS GREW UP WITH MY KIDS AND NEPHEWS WE HAD A HOUSE FULL I WOULD CALL THEM TIAS LIL RUG RATS AND THEY WOULD CALL ME THIER 408 NANNY.  I HAVE SOO MANY MEMORIES OF JAY I WOULD WANT TO SHARE. BUT THE ONE THAT ALWAYS COMES TO MY MIND IS WHEN I WAS PREGNANT FOR MY DAUGHTER JULISSA WHO IS NOW 22yrs OLD HE TELLS ME “ tia is that a balloon in your stomach?” I SAID, NO ITS A BABY. SO WHAT DOES HE DO? HE GETS A THUMB TACK AND POKES MY BELLY TO TRY TO POP MY BALLON... HE WAS ALWAYS UP TO SOMETHING! TIA MISSES YOU DEARLY AND EVERY TIME I SEE UR SON JJ I THINK OF YOU. HE IS OUR GIFT FROM YOU. RIP TIAS LIL RUG RAT. LOVE YOU MIJO

I remember growing up with Jay Jay at 10 years old. We were just little kids running around in the streets. Who would've thought our friendship would last sixteen plus years. He became like a brother to me and his family became my family.  I remember all the times we had together, like going to the casino. He sure did love going to Matrix. Whenever we needed to talk or just go out somewhere we would always listen to eachothers problems and fortunately we both became eachothers drinking partners. I had so many memories with Jay and I wish we could've had more of them. But Jay Jay's resting in a better place now. I will forever miss him but he'll always be in my heart and he'll always be right here next to me. Rest Easy Jay Jay.

My Dearest Brother,

I don’t have all those pictures with us because I always said we looked TOO drunk or too ugly and I always said we would take more. Unfortunately we never got that chance. Here is one of the pictures I took when you dragged me and Ruby outta the house to go watch you play at the casino. I remember just sitting in the room on your bed watching tv and you pulling me from my hair cause you were bored and wanted to fight. I would give anything just to go back to those days and have you here with us once again. I miss you so much and don’t know how I’m supposed to get through this as this is a major loss for EVERYONE who ever came into contact with you. I just hope you know how loved you were and STILL are. I promise to take care of mom, my nephew and his mother, and our brothers. I love you FOREVER “Jojo”. I will always be my brothers keeper. 

Today I am thankful for the memories that brighten the road of grief, they remind me of love shared and provide a small relief. Love You.

Death leaves a heartache no one can fill, love leaves a memory no one can steal. My baby i never thought or imagined you would ever leave us you left us a l great emptiness that is unbearable all i have a memories in a frame. The pain it has caused me is unexplainable and no words will ever justify how much you’ll be missed. Thank you for leaving me the best part of you. A mini you who everyday i will see you through him. I know you’ll be with us although i cant see you or hear you i know for a fact you’ll always be watching.  For all the memories we created i am grateful and today is to celebrate your life the one that was cut short in such short time.  The life we wished you shared with us longer filled with nothing but love and laughter. Thank  you for all the years of unconditional love you brought to our life. We will always love you and forever you’ll be with us. My baby i love you. Love, Sam

Primo, we will never forget all the memories we’ve created together over your lifetime. We are so happy you got to be a groomsmen in our wedding and we will cherish that for the rest of our lives. You will never be forgotten and we know that well all be reunited one day. Words can’t explain how much we love and miss you already.  Love your Prima Mayra & Destiny Santana 

OBITUARIO

Rodolfo "Jay" Mendoza

30 octubre, 1994 – 26 mayo, 2020

Lima Family Erickson Memorial Chapel

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