I dreamt of you, Papa, twice. I still long to see you more in my dreams.
The first time, I tried to remember what we shared, but I couldn’t. The second time, I made sure to hold onto it—and it has stayed in my mind and in my heart.
I hope to see you again in my dreams.
I miss you so much, 
I love you always Papa

Dearest Papa,
         I hide my tears when i think of you. The pain in heart still the same. Missing you so much Papa. I wish you still here to tell me everything is gonna be alright. I love you very much papa.

First of all, I want to thank my brother-in-law, Raul Orinion. He has been by our side since the beginning, helping with all the arrangements for Papa and giving strength to my sister, Chielo. I am grateful for their love and support, especially during this difficult time.

Losing Papa has left me brokenhearted. But I am thankful that Atsi Chielo was able to come home before he passed away. It comforts me to know that Papa was not alone on his last day.

The last time I was with Papa was Thursday, September 11. I came to care for him and change his dressing. While I was with him, I massaged his legs, put lotion on them, and even tickled his foot. He laughed and said, “You and your sister Atsi Chielo are crazy, always teasing me.” We only wanted to make him smile. I will always remember sitting beside him, watching TV together. Through him, I learned to enjoy simple things—like charity vloggers, fishing shows, and stories of farmers living simple lives. He reminded us that happiness can be found in small, ordinary moments.

When I left that day, I said, “See you on Monday, Dad.” I never imagined it would be the last time. His soft reply, just a little sound, is now something I will treasure forever.

Papa, now that you are in Heaven with our almighty God and with the rest of our family, please watch over us. Please guide your grandchildren, especially my daughters Ashley and Amira. When Amira cried, I told her that Papa is now our angel, watching over us with love.

Losing a parent is one of the hardest things—it feels like half of me is gone. But I know your love remains with us, Papa.

You were a father who taught us strength, laughter, and love. You will always be in our hearts. Until we meet again, Papa.

I love you so much.
Beverly Rufo-Gutierrez

Romeo Bulatao Rufo’s life journey began on June 25, 1948 in San Carlos City Pangasinan, Philippines. He was raised in a large family by Julio Mondero Rufo and Eugenia Aquino Bulatao alongside his eight siblings Rogelio, Rodolfo, Remedios, Rosario, Roberto, Ricardo, Rosalia, and Rebecca. 
Romeo got married to Nora DeVera Quintas on March 5, 1972. He was surrounded by love from his five children Rowena married to Rolando Morales Jr., Chielo married to Raul Orinion, Beverly married to Ryan Gutierrez, Rommel married to Jenet Manuel, and Romeo Jr. married to Abigail Aquino. He had 15 amazing and hilarious grandchildren Ashley,  Jenelle, Rochelle, Rowelyn, Rommela, Joshua, Roi, Rei, Rea, Hayden, Jerome, Reiden, Ace, Rysabel, and Amira, who never failed to make him laugh; and one handsome great grandchild, Isaac.
Throughout his career, Romeo worked as a production associate for eight years. He also worked at Emmanuel Convalescent Hospital of Alameda for three years (2003-2006) as a certified nursing assistant. Following his move to Elk Grove in 2006, he worked at Applewood Care Center in Sacramento, a skilled nursing facility for nine years (2006-2015) before his retirement in 2015.
In his free time, Romeo enjoyed taking long strolls in nature, playing card games with his family members, keeping up with current events, and enjoyed video games that challenged his mind and refined his critical thinking skills.
Romeo’s amiable nature and sense of humor made him respected, and earned him affection and admiration, which made him develop a warm and outgoing personality that captured the heart of his wife, his children and their spouses, grandchildren, extended family, and colleagues. 
He will be remembered for his kindness, humor, dedication, and love for his family. Romeo’s legacy will live on in the hearts of those who knew him best.

My Dad is the Best of the Best Dad and Papa in the whole world. He’s kind, generous, and loving . 

He taught me how to cook , do laundry, and clean the house when I was young. Even when we had a maid in the house, he told me that I needed to learn how to do the house chores and clean the house. He always told me that “early birds get the worm.” He once told us a story from when my dad was young, that him and all the siblings got up early in the morning and started working to help Tatay and Nanay.. My Dad sold Pandesal in the morning before going to school while  my other Uncles helped Tatay in the rice mill and my Aunties helped Nanay do the house chores and help them in their small business. He always told me that if you wake up/work early and finish all the chores, you won’t be rushing nor forgetting what needs to be done. At the end of the day you will be able to relax and feel that you have accomplished something. 

In my heart, I feel that my Dad was very happy and was not suffering during his last days with us. I know that he still here, and will always be here, not physically but in our hearts . I keep telling my siblings that I’m not the favorite, that we are all equal. It’s just that Dad saw that I’m the strongest in the family and he wanted me to guide , support and protect his loved ones. He may not be the best of others, but I know in my heart  that my dad was the best of the best.

I Love you so Much Papa and us I promise that we, your children, will take care of Mom and one another. 

Thank you so much for the love and support when I needed you, your kindness, and generosity toward us.

Rest now and watch us papa. 

I love you so much..I will see you soon.


Forever Love
Chielo Rufo Orinion

From Ace 
September 14 2025 at 10:42 am 

Roses are red ,violets are blue  at any point  of time death can come for you. In the sky or dawn below death can come a any time.No  matter how low. It can happen in the day or night and afternoon . And I just wanted to say I am sad. Death can happen to you as far as space or as deep as the ocean floor.

OBITUARIO

Romeo Bulatao Rufo

25 junio, 1948 – 14 septiembre, 2025

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