The many conversations and eating we share together will always be cherished.

Tempurpedic isn’t as light as it looks. It’s always a team effort to get my bed together.

We had our first blessing party for you. Coincidence, my father is in the picture. Great memories.

So proud of you. You contact and retain your own attorney all by yourself.

Ryu never miss sending me flowers and chocolates for Valentine and Mother’s Day’s. Something so little goes a long way. I’m truly grateful for the love he’s given me.

I’m so happy to spend and enjoy so many memories with you. 2023 Mother’s Day has been one of my favorite trip.

Ryu loved music and joined Cesar Chavez Hogh School band. This was a competition out at Santa Cruz Beach Boardwalk.

Ryu played on the Freshman Football team for Chavez High School.

Ryu loves cars and this is the highlight of Fast and Furious car!

Ryu enjoyed family time. Universal Studios is one of our family favorite place to visit.

Ryu loves to dance and was part of Lao Family Empowerment Dance Club. He enjoyed performing Hmong dance at community events.

Your beloved Bella giving a farewell goodbye! She miss you dearly!

You shared with us on November 3, 2023 that you were going to go back to school. I knew you were always willing to help others. You were the type who would sacrifice to help others. For that I know the heavens has gain an awesome Angel and left us with the memories.

Your buddy Kobe saying goodbye to you! You will be dearly miss by him.

I’m so proud of you. You purchased your own bed yourself. Not only paid but the decision you made on your own.

SEAGAMES tournament. The love you had for football. It was such a a hot day but you all pulled through.

The joy of watching you and Ryan played football on the same team and having each other back.

The late nights you spent with your dad fixing cars!

2018 was our first family cruise trip together. It was filled will great memories as you won your very first dance competition.

Pipi Campground will always mark a special place for us. Built so much memories there that we will never forget.

You started young and loved that racing life!

The many trips we went to Concord for a day well spent in the water.

You loved water and brave soul always out there challenging the waves.

2023 Mother’s Day! My last Mother’s Day trip with Ryu.

Carrying you to your resting place. Forever in our hearts.

Thinking of you all the time. I know you’re in a better place.

On December 15, 2023 we held a candle light vigil in remembrance where your life was cut short. We will always love you.

My picture of you right before I picked you up and carried you around.

I don’t remember why you were all dressed up but you were just the cutest.

I love how you can challenge your dad out of his comfort zone.

Universal Studios will always be our family favorite place. The memories we shared will alway be there.

I’m so proud that you had the opportunity to play on the same team and field with your brothers.

You are the reason why I am brave and strong. You always push me to my limits. I learned to love your dogs.

I have a few regrets in life and now one of them is that I didn't get to know the person you grew into.  I had this picture of you, it was this tiny little sticker photo of you  swaddled in your looney tunes blanket with your little baby beenie and pacifier, maybe a month old.  Right after I took that picture, I took you out of your moms arms and carried you around.  You were so calm.
I remember you never said much when I watched you but you always followed me close, glued to my hip and watching and analyzing everything I was doing, not saying a single thing.
We have in common that love of music and dance.  I wish I had known that about you.  
I had been attending alot of "Music Festivals" these past few years.  I saw that you had started attending them too.  A few years ago I ran into John.  I told my husband (Uncle Seng) that John was one of my much younger cousins and I felt embarrassed to be at the music festival because we were so old (chuckles).  Uncle Seng said it was ok and that age was only a number.  I told him there that I would keep on going but the day I run into someone like....  RYU, I would have to quit because I used to babysit you and I was already an adult when you were born.  One of my friends said, maybe you will be the cool Auntie.  I replied, no one wants to see their old azz Auntie at a music festival.
I guess I should have kept my mouth shut because this year, I ran into you at SunKist.  I was so embarrassed.  But you didn't hesitate, you saw me through the crowd.  There were so many people, everyone was elbow to elbow.  But you still made your way through the crowd towards me and Uncle.  You greeted me with your signature smile and gave me a huge hug and said, Hi Auntie.  I heard your friends asking you who I was, and you didn't even hesitate to tell them.
Now when I dance under that electric sky, I will look for your face, but know you won't ever be in that crowd.  I will miss you.

When I took you guys to the park because you were on break and bored at home.

Hey Ryu. I’m for sure you know me. I’m Bk. Your auntie Melina friend. Disbelief that you’re really gone. I was shock when melina told us that it was you. You were a cool kid. I have known you when you probably was 8 or 9 years old, when melina will ask us come watch you play football. Rest easy. Everyone here will miss you and never forgotten. RIP Ryu. 🙏

Ryu you finally visited me in my dreams. I always made fun of you for being so skinny and scrawny so is that why you came me to a lot more bigger and buff. You looked so handsome so I’ll take that as sign that you’re doing good up there. Please visit me again so I can give you a big hug. Love and miss you forever Ryu.

I will always remember this night when we went to sf. Always a good time with you. Miss you so much.

This is how I’ll always remember him. A big brother to these little ones. In this photo, he rode with Chloe so she could ride again. Thank you, Ryu! We love you and We loved these random trips. My kids looked forward to summer every year. We’re so blessed to have each other.

Thank you for always being a big brother to Dom.

Last minute late night roaming downtown Reno Ca while the momma’s are asleep. We all have a great time. Memories made to last forever.

Aunty Jasmine’s wedding in Portland Or. Brothers forever!!

Uncle Ki and I are going to miss your random visits. Know that we’re thinking you always, especially during the season. Keep our seats warm. RIP RKH

No words can express the pain that you are going through.  Our prayer is that God will give you the strength to face the coming days ahead. May the memories of Ryu’s love be your strength during this dark time. Ryu was an amazing young man who was loved by all and brought warmth and joy to everyone who knew him. He will always be remembered.

OBITUARIO

Ryu Kai Her

28 junio, 2000 – 26 noviembre, 2023

DeYoung Memorial Chapel

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