I'm a a fellow UD grad and friend of Gary's from college days who just came across Gary's notice in our alumni publication.  I'm feeling shocked at this moment but also full of fond memories of what a great guy he was.  I'm so sorry to hear of his passing.  I got to know Gary through a circle of mutual friends at Delaware.  We spent many hours listening to our favorite Dead and Dylan tunes and many laughs and fun gatherings along the way.  I remember Gary as a generous, friendly soul with an extremely sharp mind and sense of humor.  My sympathies to his family.

Fare you well, fare you well
I love you more than words can tell
Listen to the river sing sweet songs
to rock my soul

Our sincere condolences go out to the Feder family. His legacy will live on through his beautiful children. Our Love and Prayers are with you.
The Licata Family

Our sincere condolences to the Feder families.
  Gary N. Feder and Nancy Tobin, 
   Miami, FL

Gary lived literally around the corner when we were growing up.  Although we drifted apart after we graduated high school, my memories of him are of a kind, fun, and loyal friend and person. My mom remembers him exactly the same way and asked me to add her heartfelt condolences to my own, which I sadly offer to all of his family.

I grew up with the Feder family in wayne NJ, and I  am so sad to hear of the passing Gary. Our deepest condolences to your entire family. 
The Pittel Family

Sending Love and Strenght to the Feder Family and giving thanks to them for all the love they gave Gary. He takes with him that love as well as leaving love to all those he touched.
Uncle Arthur Bergman, Leonia, NJ

My dear friend Beth spoke about her brother with great love and admiration. May his memory be a blessing to all who loved him. May G-d comfort you all during this most devastating time.

My very sincere condolences, to Melinda and family. I could count the people that I actually liked in law school on less than two hands, and Gary and you were among them; the two of you were polite, kind, down to earth, and possessed a champagne sparkle that brightened up every place that you both went. I was truly sorry to hear of Gary's passing. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.

My deepest condolences. Gary was a kind friend and a giving soul. I share your sadness, Feder family. I hope you find comfort in the knowledge that Gary touched many, many people in his time here.

So very sorry for your loss.  Sincere condolences from the Grillo family to the Feder family.

We are so saddened by your loss. Our deepest sympathy to all of you. Please know we are here for you. Prayers coming your way.

Dearest Feder family,  our deepest condolences and love  to you all.  You are all in our prayers.

Offering sincere condolences on Gary's untimely passing. We have an expression which we say to the bereaved family:
May you be comforted among the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem. 

And may Gary's memory be for a blessing...

On behalf of the Duke Pediatric Blood and Marrow Transplant Family Support Program, we are so incredibly saddened to hear of Gary's passing.  His generosity towards our program and for the communal mission of West Raleigh Baseball was inspiring.  Our thoughts and prayers are with the Feder family during this difficult time.  -Scott Mofield

I'm so sorry for your loss. Prayers go out to your entire family

Our family is keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers.

Melinda, Jake, Shelby, Louis and Judy. I am deeply sorry for your loss.  My thoughts, prayers and love go out to all of you.

Melinda, Jake and Shelby- I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

My condolences to the entire Feder family.  You are all in my prayers.

Struggling to put into words our feelings of sympathy on Gary's passing.  May the memories of him sustain you through tough times and be with you forever.  Please accept our most sincere condolences and know there is love and prayer coming to you from across the world.  While we can't be there physically please know we are thinking of you all.  May he rest in peace.

Melinda, Shelby and Jake,
We are so sorry for your loss!  We hope that all of the wonderful memories you have had together will bring you some peace.  Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers!

Lou, Judy, Melinda, Jake and Shelby, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Please be strong for each other, God will definitely surround you all with his love.

Oh my god,Feder family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.  You guys were like a second family to me.  Rest in Peace Gary.

Melinda, Jake and Shelby, we are so sorry for your loss.  Gary was a great friend who leaves us with only fond memories.  You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Melinda, Jake and Shelby 
We are so sorry for your loss.  Gary was loved by so many and will be missed.  Keep the great memories you have of him close to your heart.

Melinda, Jake, and Shelby,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss.  You will be in our thoughts and prayers.  Praying that God will surround you with His love and peace and that happy memories will sustain you.  Please do not hesitate to ask your CDP family for anything you need.  Hugs and prayers,
Leigh Anne and Mady Brann

I am so sorry for your loss.  Thinking of you and know that the incredible amount of love in your family will bring the comfort you need through this time. All the love in the world to you.

My sincere condolences to family. I am praying for all. May Gary rest in peace.

Sending my condolences to you and your family full of love and prayers for strength at your time  of mourning.  Please let me know if there's anything I can do.

Melinda, Jake and Shelby

We are very saddened by your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all in this difficult time.

Gary was the kindest employer I ever had the privilege of working for.  You will be missed.  Melinda, Jake and Shelby, you will be in my prayers.   I am so sorry for your loss.  Gary rest in peace.

I had the privilege to serve Gary in a business capacity during his time at Lulu. I am deeply sadden by his passing and would like to extend my deepest condolences to the family.

Our condolences to the Feder Family during this very difficult time.  May God bless you and be with you so that you may have peace.  May Gary rest in Peace with the Lord forever.

Sincerely,
The McSoley Family

Gary's generosity and kindness were instant and genuine. From the beginning of our relationship, I felt close to him as both a friend and mentor. I am grateful for the time we had together.

My thoughts go out to his family, who I know he was so very proud of.

Melinda, Jake, and Shelby,
Our prayers are with you doing this difficult time.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
Sally & Sammy Chapman

Gary, 
Although we hadn't seen each other in a few years, I am feeling the loss of your great spirit here in NJ, and I'm so sorry for your Family. I will recall some great times spent together and always remember the down to earth, high quality person you are.  Rest in Peace, My Brother...

The Stephens family is very sad to hear about Gary's passing.  Gary tirelessly served the West Raleigh Baseball Association of which I am a recipient of his willingness to help on numerous occasions lastly of which was less than a month ago.  Though I did not know Gary that well, I appreciated him and he will be missed and his family prayed for.

Our thoughts and Prayers are with your family.  May God give you the Peace and Strength you need now and in the days, months and years to come.  Glad to have know Gary through our years with West Raleigh Baseball.
Keith, Kim, and Cory Wood

Melinda, Jake & Shelby,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.  Gary was a kind, generous and caring man who gave willingly of himself to improve West Raleigh and asked for nothing in return.  His generosity of spirit and his leadership will be sorely missed by all who knew him.

Melinda, Shelby & Jake, 
Your Husband and Dad was one of the greatest men I've ever known. His kindness and generosity alone were always overwhelming. I'm very sorry for your loss. 
-Michael Wayne

Melinda, Shelby, & Jake ,

We are praying for your family that all of your memories of Gary can comfort you in your time of grief You are loved by all in your CDP family. Please let us know if you need anything at all. Sending you love and strength during your time of need.
Gina & Cara McMahon

Melinda, Jake, and Shelby, our thoughts and prayers are with you during this heartbreaking time.  It seems like last week that he was in our backyard telling stories the way only Gary could.  His passion and his generosity will be greatly missed by all.

Melinda, Jake & Shelby,
I am so sorry for your loss.  My prayers will be for you and Gary and I hope you receive some comfort.  Gary was an example of what it means to be a good person and he will be sorely missed.

Melinda, Jake and Shelby, we are so sorry to hear of Gary's passing.  Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.  Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help lessen the load ahead.  With much love, Toynia, Phil, Brenna and Aydan

Melinda, Jake & Shelby,
We were so heartbroken to hear of Gary's passing. What a kind man. He will be so greatly missed.  Our thoughts, prayers and love are with you all.
Luis, Debbie, William and Amy

Melinda, Jake and Shelby, You are in my thoughts and prayers, I love you all.

Pam Clarkin ( Penny Road Elementary)

Melinda, Jake, and Shelby,  we were both shocked and saddened by the news of the loss of Gary.  We pray that you are comforted by the love of God, family, and friends during this most difficult time.

Shelby,
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.  We are so sorry for your loss.  ~ The Eagles Teachers

Melinda, Jake and Shelby,
We are saddened to hear about Gary's passing. Gary was a great man with a generous heart for others.  We appreciate all he gave to the West Raleigh families, especially the kids. He made it a much better place and will be greatly missed. We are praying for you all.

Melinda, Jake and Shelby,
We send our heartfelt condolences and prayers to you during this sorrowful time. Gary was very kind to our family after we moved here from NJ and Alec was playing baseball for the Raiders and then West Raleigh. Gary was dedicated  person and appeared ready to help anyone who asked. May you, his family find comfort , and know that many are here to support you. Eternal rest grant to him O Lord, and May perpetual light shine upon him. Amen.

We were shocked and sad to hear about Gary.  We are neighbors and have enjoyed getting to know you guys over the last couple years.  Gary was always working around the yard and we would see him on our walks.  We will be praying for you all.

Melinda, Jake and Shelby,
Please accept our heartfelt condolences for your loss.  You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.  Allow your memories to comfort you.
Mark, Carla, Kathleen, Rachael and Matthew Everhart

Our prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time. We are so sorry for your loss

Melinda, Jake & Shelby - We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God comfort you and your family during these times of sorrow and fill your hearts with the love and the wonderful memories you shared.

Melinda, Jake, and Shelby...you are in our thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time. The Wielands

Melinda and family..so sorry to hear of your loss.Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers. Catherine McCabe and family.

Melinda, Jake, and Shelby....our thoughts and prayers go out to you.  Gary will be missed by so many. We are so deeply saddened by his loss. 
Don, Cheryl, Trent, Todd and Trey Bobeng

Melinda, Jake and Shelby, we are so saddened to hear of your loss. Gary was always so kind, generous, fun and friendly. We are praying for you and your family. May God Bless.

Melinda and family,

Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.  Gary was a gracious and kind person.  He will be missed by all who were blessed in knowing him.

John, Hope and Fallon Sullivan

Melinda, Shelby and Jake,

Our deepest sympathy goes out to you in this time of need. Please know we are here for you,
Roscoe, Heidi, Jessica and Jasmyn Judd

Melinda, Jake & Shelby...our hearts go out to you and your family. We are deeply saddened by this loss. Gary touched may lives and he will be dearly missed by all. Thoughts and prayers to all of you.

Melinda, Jake & Shelby...our hearts go out to you and your family. We are deeply saddened by this loss. Gary touched many lives and he will be dearly missed by all. Thoughts and prayers to all of you. The Mitten Family

The Clerkin family offers your family our condolences and prayers.

Our deepest condolences to the family. Lisa and Roger Chaves (Sunrise, FL)

Melinda, our family is thinking of you and the kids.  Gary was a wonderful coach to Noah.  He will be missed.

To my college roomate at the University of Delaware. Gary you are an inspiration to everyone who was fortunate to be with you. I am saddened by this loss, as Gary was a dear friend of mine. We shared many wonderful days.  May the Peace of Gods Love be with you and your family! With deepest sympathy, Dr. Jeffrey Borkoski, Savannah, Georgia.

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Nació 7 DICIEMBRE, 1966

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