Deborah Lynn Harp

Welling, OK- Funeral services for Deborah Lynn Harp will be held on Friday, September 6th, 2013 at 10:00 AM at the Reed-Culver Chapel with Brother George Hubbard officiating. Visitation will be held on Thursday, September 5th, 2013 from 10:00 AM until 8:00 PM at Reed-Culver Chapel.

Pallbearers for Deborah include her grandsons, David Cobb, Lynn Birthmark, Chad Cobb, Kaleb Cobb, Joshua Birthmark, and William Murch.

Deborah Lynn Harp was born on April 10th, 1954 in Tahlequah, OK the daughter of Hiawatha Wauhillau and Eula Mae (Townsend) Conrad. She attended school and then married Larry Jess Martin. They were blessed with three daughters, Melinda, Laura, and Jessica. Deborah was a Certified Nurses Aide. She loved her job and went the extra mile to care for the clients entrusted to her. She was the first one to brighten your day with that famous smile. Whenever she had some free time, there was always some way to spent time with her children, grandchildren, nieces and nephews. She enjoyed a good garage sale and searching for a bargain at the flea market. She loved to have her nieces over for breakfast and made them her famous homemade waffles. Soon everyone around the table was sharing a cup of coffee and a laugh. Her dinners of homemade goulash and cornbread were enjoyed by plenty of family as well. It was the way she made each and every person in her life feel the special love she had for them. After her first marriage ended, Deborah married Dudley Buhl. She later married David Harp who preceded her in death in 2009. A Christian by faith, Deborah was called home from her labors on August 29th, 2013 in Tahlequah, OK. She was 59 years old. She will be missed for her warmth and her love.

Deborah is preceded in death by her parents, one brother, Larry Eugene Stover, one sister, Janet Mae Martin, second husband Dudley Buhl and third husband David Harp.

Deborahs memory will be cherished by her three daughters, Melinda Gay Birthmark of Ronan, MT, Laura Nicole Cobb and husband David of Welling, OK, and Jessica Ellen Murch and companion Wendell Buckmaster of Coweta, OK. Her seven brothers and sisters include, Ricky Dale Conrad of Moody, OK, George Thomas Conrad of Moody, James Edward Conrad and wife Lisa of Woodall, Randy Lee Conrad and wife Toni of Grandview, OK, William Joseph Conrad and wife Jennifer of Lost City, Margaret Lucille Wilson of Tahlequah, and Tracy Ann Conrad of Duckwater, NV. Her legacy of life and love live on in her eight grandchildren, Miranda Birthmark, Lynn Birthmark, Alyssa Buhl, William Murch, Joshua Buckmaster, David Duane Cobb, Chad Allen Cobb, and Gary Kaleb Reese-Cobb. She leaves three great grandchildren, and one soon to join the family, a very special ,long time friend, Garry Strader, as well as many nieces, nephews, cousins and a host of friends and loved ones.