Allen Joseph Valdez

It is the dash in between that tells the true story of his life — a life defined by resilience, love, passion, and a relentless pursuit of happiness. The Creedon family, who have been a close part of our lives, introduced us to the powerful poem "The Dash" by Linda Ellis, which speaks to how we live the moments between birth and death. Like that poem, it is in the dash where the heart of his story resides.

Growing up during a time when discrimination was a reality, Joey fought through adversity to carve out a path of success and fulfillment. His strength and determination in the face of challenges inspired those around him, and he proved that thriving is not just about overcoming obstacles, but about embracing life with an open heart and spirit.

He took pride in his work at the Hotel Jerome and T-Lazy 7 in Aspen, Colorado, where his energy, drive, and creativity left a lasting impact. He was also known as Captain Clean, helping to establish Aspen’s recycling program—a testament to his commitment to both his community and the environment.

A man of many talents, Joey had a passion for music, particularly percussion. He was a member of multiple bands, bringing rhythm and life to every performance. Though he stopped playing in the years leading up to his passing, music remained a core part of who he was. His zest for life was undeniable, and he had a great love for fun, creativity, and adventure. His fond memories include impromptu dances with his wife in their kitchen, spontaneous public displays of affection, and a deep, shared connection with family and friends.

On September 7, 1985, Joey and Mary were wed and together, they became a powerhouse of love, support, and commitment. Their union was one of great significance, and their devotion to each other was evident in every aspect of their lives. Their miracle child, Gina, was born on June 16, 1992, and he poured his heart into raising her, showing up for her every step of the way. From volunteering at school events to helping build a tiny house in their backyard, he was always there for Gina — with a kind word, a helping hand, or an adventure to share. He gave so much of himself and showed Gina just how much he loved her in every way imaginable.

In the face of his health battles, Joey exhibited the strength of a warrior. He spent a lifetime in and out of hospitals, enduring multiple surgeries and illnesses. Through it all, his beloved wife, Mary, stood by him as both his partner and caregiver. Her devotion was constant, as she supported him through each difficult recovery and made him as comfortable as possible in his final days. Their love was beautiful, enduring, and filled with moments of joy.

Joey loved being involved in his Krewe, organizing the music and speakers for parades. He believed in the power of bringing people together through music and shared experiences. His legacy lives on in all the lives he touched and in the countless moments of happiness, he helped create. He knew how to embrace life fully, enjoying good times with an unapologetic zest. Whether celebrating with friends or simply relaxing with his dogs, he was never afraid to live in the moment, having the freedoms that came with it.

Joey fought hard to live, and though his time with us feels like it was far too short, the impact of his life will last forever. One of his greatest dreams was to see his daughter, Gina, marry Eddie on February 16, 2025. While he won’t be there in person, we know that he will be with her in spirit, watching over her without the pain that burdened him in his final years. He loved Eddie like his own, welcoming him into the family with open arms and a heart full of love. His love will be present in every step she takes on that special day. He loved his family and his puppies deeply, and his love for his wife and daughter will remain in their hearts always. He was not only a husband, father, and friend, but a man who understood the value of life.

Though we say goodbye to him in body, his spirit lives on in each of us, in the memories we shared, and in the many ways he shaped our lives. Rest in peace, Dad. You will forever be loved and missed.

In honor of Joey's wishes, there will be no formal funeral. Instead, we will be celebrating his life with a big party — just as he would have wanted. He wants a band, drinks, and all the laughter and music that filled his life. We’ll be waiting a little while to ensure we plan for him the proper joyous send-off he truly deserves, surrounded by the people who loved him.