Jay I just don't know where to begin.  You were such a huge part of my life always. Even though we weren't together all that often physically there is a comfort just knowing your family is only a few miles away.  I'm feeling the void you left even from a distance. Although I'm the older one you were the "cool dude" that I always looked up to.  It makes me smile to think of all the good times we had back in the day, and recently as well.  I am so very glad you and Janette had a great long run together although I wish it could have gone on further.  Congratulations  and Thanks on having been such a great husband to my sister, father to my nieces, grandfather to my grand niece and grand nephews, brother in law to me, and son in law to Gramo.  Love you to the moon and back.  

 Jay was one of the toughest competitors that I had to deal with on a daily basis while in the heavy equipment business. He was always very professional and understood what needed to be done. Jay is one of those guys that every heavy equipment company would love to have on their sales staff. God rest his soul 

I met Jay about 30 years ago.  He was the best coworker anyone could ask for. Always ready to listen, coach and inspire. We shared many good times both at work and on the golf course. More than anything I remember him as a good friend. I will miss his wit and his laughs. God Bless you and your family Jay. 

This is my favorite picture of my Dad and I. We were in the middle of our father/daughter dance. We both had tears in our eyes. I chose the song “Wind Beneath my Wings” because it fit so perfectly. I hope he knew he was my hero and everything I would like to be. He was by my side during happiest moments and hugging me during my most challenging times. I feel so blessed he was my Daddy and my children’s Papa. I’ve ALWAYS known exactly how loved I am and I will forever feel grateful for the time we had together.  I love you and I miss you terribly Daddy!

I've known Jay for over 40 years, over half that time working with him starting at Tampa Tractor, then Neff Machinery, then Nortrax, Briggs Equipment and back to Nortrax. Jay has been a lot of things to me over the years. First he was an inspiration to me, then a mentor, then a boss. But most of all he was a good friend. We had a lot of fun over the years and I'll surely miss Jay. Rest in peace my friend.

Uncle Jay will always hold a special place in our hearts! We are so thankful that we got to see him in January. As he talked about his family his face just lit up, he was so proud of his family! He always had that infectious smile that made everyone feel like they were important to him. He will be greatly missed!

Jay and I worked together at 3 different companies, but mostly at Tampa Tractor.  I am not sure if his family and friends know how really good, and skilled, he was in the machinery sales game.  He was relentless, high energy, and was the best in the company, and full of talent.  What I remember most was how he handled adversity.  Instead of blaming other people, or departments, if he was in a slump, or in trouble with a major account, he always took it on himself to fix it.  And he did.  No one out worked him, and most competitors fell off the pace in a big deal, but not Jay....he was always thinking of a better way, or how to get it done.  The owner of Tampa Tractor actually told me once that he didn’t know what he would do if Jay ever left....that is horsepower.  I just hope his kids get that drive, and attitude from their dad.  Man o man, he really had it!  Rest In Peace old friend.

How can I choose just one when we had so many wonderful memories together? I remember as a child he would chase me around the house or in the pool and I would get so scared that instead of running away from him I would run right to him. I knew he was my safety. As I got older he always supported me and gave me advice full of wisdom, although if things ever got too serious he was always ready with a well timed wise crack! We laughed so much together! At my wedding I danced with my dad to “Because You Loved Me”. I knew and still know that I am who I am today because dad loved me, mom and Andi so much. He was so full of life, which is why it is so difficult to believe he is gone. I believe I’ll see my dad again someday but until then I will miss him deeply.

In My Fondest  Loving Memory Of  My Brother ! Jay Stafford ! I remember as a child he was taking wonderful care of our Mother Doris Stafford ! He was truly Amazing ! So much Love He gave all his life ! Jay I Love You !!! I remember your sweet sweet smile you had for everyone  ! Your words of encouragement ! ! Most of all Love you gave ! You are so missed ! Jay Rest In Peace ! All My Love Your sister , Reatha 🙏🏻♥️

My Uncle was one of a kind. A caretaker of his mother and family at a very young age. He was loving, kind, honest, hardworking and LOVED his family!  He always had what I would describe  as an angelic spirit. I was and will always be very proud of him; and the beautiful family and life he built despite the lack of a role model. In his life.  Very special indeed. Rest In Peace!  I love you always. Laura Deal Bentley

I remember meeting Jay when I first started at Tampa Tractor in 1985, he was full of energy and passion, and one of the ones that made this industry fun. I have always loved working with Jay and l know that he will definitely be missed in this industry, but what a legacy he left for those of us to obtain to. Miss you Jay.

I met Jay while working at Flagler. We became friends quickly. I respected Jay and the knowledge and experience he shared.   We had many great talks, which I miss very much.   I think of Jay often, always with a smile.   Rest well my good friend. 

Jay and I met in History class at Hillsborough High School during our Junior year.   We dated over the summer and were High School Sweethearts during our Senior year.  We were both from poor families, so he joined the Marine Corp right after graduation and enlisted for 2 years, just long enough to receive the GI bill to further his education.  He completed two years at Hillsborough Community College while also working full time at Sears.  Later he went to work for Tampa Tractor Co and became a salesman of John Deere construction equipment.  He went on to work for several different companies, representing several different brands but always in the construction equipment business.  We have two lovely, wonderful daughters:  Andrea Laurie Blomeley and Brandy Allison Hancock and four grandchildren, Timothy and Micaela Blomeley and Bryce and Tate Hancock.  He is also survived by loving sister, Pat Meitzler and two half sisters, Doris Shedd and Reatha Baughman and their sons and daughters.  Jay was my best friend as well as the love of my life.  He was loving, generous, supportive and kind and was always my daily dose of laughter.  I will miss him forever!

OBITUARIO

Eldred "Jay" C Stafford

9 octubre, 1951 – 1 abril, 2020

Blount & Curry Funeral Home-Carrollwood

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