Marie Agnes Harvey-McKean

     If anyone ever cared, really cared for someone else it would have to be Marie Agnes Harvey-McKean. She was a warm hearted and well liked individual, and these wonderful traits came easily to her because she was such a sociable and amiable person, someone who was always making certain that those around her had whatever they needed. Marie was a talkative person who enjoyed meeting people from all walks of life, and would never hesitate to offer her help at any time.

She was the daughter of Iona and Gordon Whan. Marie was raised in Duncan, British Columbia. During her childhood she learned to be reliable and respectful, and found it easy to show sympathy and to perform kind acts for others. These admirable qualities would become a part of Marie's personality throughout her life, along with her playful (and at times mischievous) side.

Marie was raised and has been survived by her older sister Elaine. She had the typical sibling rivalries while growing up, usually involving clothes and using the family car, but never did those issues come between them for long. Their enduring bond of sisterhood remained entrenched as they cared deeply for one another, and will continue to into time.

As someone who reveled in the sheer joy of her experiences, Marie was always enthusiastic about new adventures and meeting new people. One thing Marie will certainly be remembered for is that, when she got up in the mornings, she was ready and raring to go. As a young girl, Marie had a number of interests and was an active child. Marie took part in basketball, dance and piano lessons, and enjoyed spending time with her friends in her spare time.

For Marie, the school routines were never a problem although she generally preferred variety to structure. She seemed to be able to start a project and work right through to its completion, but often with the guidance or assistance from her sister Elaine. Marie was very observant and was generally quick at picking up new things. She graduated from high school in 1957, and was married a few years later in 1961.

There was one thing that all of Marie's friends knew and will still remember, and that is that she would do anything for you. She was a dear friend to many, and would always be there for support or comfort in times of need. As a sociable and outgoing individual, she acted as confidant and advisor, and could pretty well talk to anybody about anything. This quality is one of the primary reasons that Marie was such a popular person throughout her life. But Marie was also a dependable, loyal and trustworthy friend, sister, mother and grandmother. Marie was the kind of person who simply radiated good fellowship. While she maintained personal standards and her own personal values, Marie was very accepting of others. When Marie made friends, she made true and lasting friendships.

Marie was a faithful and loving person. Some would even call her sentimental and a romantic at heart. Her kindness and consideration radiated an aura of warmth to those around her. Marie cared for what others thought and carried that into her marriage. Compassionate and devoted, Marie worked hard to make her new life partner and family happy.

Harmony was important to Marie and she made every effort to maintain it with her family. Marie was blessed with two boys, Glenn and Gordon. They were also blessed with five grandchildren, Bronte, Taylor, MacKenzie, Mitchell and Reid. Her grandchildren were her pride and joy, and a constant source of pride. May her love of life, respect for others, pride and sense of family live on in their memories.

Taking her work seriously came naturally to Marie, and she expected the same from those around her. Marie was a good team player, someone who was born to cooperate with others. She was what some would call a “people person” and it was demonstrated in her good communication skills. She was employed with Atlantic Packaging for many years, where she created lasting friendships. She brought harmony to her work environment, doing what was necessary in order to get the job done, while always maintaining respect for her colleagues.

Marie enjoyed spending time working on her various hobbies. Marie was one of those people who took pride in constantly putting forth her best effort. Her favorite pursuits were golfing, hiking, enjoying the outdoors, clogging and watching the grandchildren’s activities. Marie was always enthusiastic and enjoyed following the PGA tournaments, and was excited to attend a few Canadian Opens over the last few years.

Since it was easy for Marie to meet and get to know new people, she quickly made friends, even in retirement. Once she met those new friends, she loved sharing stories and being active. In retirement, she found new pleasure in golfing, spending time with her grandchildren and friends. Even in retirement, Marie stayed in touch with her old friends and made plenty of new acquaintances. She was active in the community and felt fulfilled with the opportunities that retirement offered her.

Marie passed away on October 4, 2008 at Scarborough Centenary Hospital. She is survived by her sons Glenn and Gordon, her daughter-in-laws Lori and Sarah, as well as her 5 grandchildren and older sister Elaine. Services were held at Eglinton-St. George's United Church. Marie was cremated at Forest Lawn Crematorium.

Marie was a fantastic conversationalist who could engage just about anyone in a discussion. And whenever she said something, she meant it. Marie was a down to earth person, outgoing and compassionate. She was without question the type of person who enjoyed experiencing things first hand. She was practical and sensible, but what friends and family will remember her for most is the fact that she was so understanding and kind. Everyone whose life she touched will miss her, Marie Agnes Harvey-McKean.