Betty Suk Man Lam

Betty Lam passed away peacefully on the morning of May 10, 2025 (Saturday), at Mount Saint Joseph Hospital, surrounded by her loving family, after a courageous battle with aggressive stage 4 cancer. She was taken from us too soon, but her spirit, warmth, and joy will be remembered always.

Betty was born in Guangzhou, China, to Peter and Jenny Lam. She was the middle child between her older sister Pamela and younger brother Michael. Her father was a respected university professor, and her mother worked as a technical drawer.

In 1980, Betty and her family immigrated to Canada in pursuit of a better life, impacted by the Cultural Revolution and drawn by the opportunity to reunite with extended family in Vancouver. At just 15 years old, Betty embraced her new life with optimism. She attended Killarney Secondary School, where she formed lifelong friendships.

Betty had an infectious energy and was the life of every party. She loved spending time with friends and family, and her passions included shopping, karaoke, gardening, dancing, cooking, playing mahjong, and socializing. In the 1980s, you could find her going to discos, roller skating, and bowling with friends and just enjoying life.

Betty later met her future husband, Tinnie. The two married in 1989 and built a family together in East Vancouver, raising two sons: Wesley (born 1991) and Lawrence (born 1992).

Throughout her life, Betty held a variety of different jobs, a testament to her adaptability, work ethic, and outgoing nature. She worked in a variety of roles—from flower shops and retail to medical clinic reception. One of her most cherished jobs was as a server at the acclaimed Tojo’s Japanese restaurant, where she spent 10 memorable years serving guests and meeting celebrities.

Betty had a natural gift for connecting with people. She especially loved roles that allowed her to interact with others, reflecting her deep appreciation for community and connection.

A passionate traveler, Betty explored the world—visiting Australia, Southeast and East Asia, Western Europe, and many parts of the United States. She passed her love of life and travel on to her sons, and together, they shared family vacations and dinners, building strong family traditions.

Betty's vibrant light may be gone from this world, but her legacy endures in the love she gave, the memories she created, and the family she nurtured. She will be deeply missed and forever remembered by her family, friends, and all who had the pleasure of knowing her.