Cindy "DiDi" Ann Boccher

Cindy Boccher, 65 of Wharton New Jersey passed away peacefully on the evening of December 30, 2025. She was a devoted wife, a loving sister, a proud aunt, a loyal friend, and most importantly, a genuinely kind soul.

Cindy was born in Jersey City, New Jersey, to Rose (nee) Laurenzano and George Graham . Cindy married the love of her life, Mark, in 2004 they always found joy in the simple moments they shared.

Above all, Cindy was incredibly proud to be an aunt to her sister Chary’s children, Victoria and Alexander. She loved them as if they were her own, offering unconditional support, laughter, and care throughout their lives.

Cindy had a deep love for music, especially The Jackson 5, Bon Jovi, & the Osmond’s. And while the feeling was not always mutual, she also had an unwavering devotion to the Dallas Cowboys. Her care for others showed up in unforgettable ways. She somehow managed to moonlight as a weather forecaster, an air traffic controller, and the unofficial general manager of the Cowboys. She would call ahead to warn you about an incoming snowstorm, text you mid flight to let you know your plane was about to land, or send an enthusiastic “GO COWBOYS!” text every Sunday. These moments were never about the weather, the flight, or the game, they were her way of staying connected and reminding you that you were loved.

Cindy is reunited in heaven with her mother, her father, and her cousin Patty.

She is survived by her beloved husband, Mark, her sister Chary Adamo, her brother in law Attilio Adamo, and her cherished niece and nephew, Victoria and Alexander Adamo. Cindy’s sister and brother in laws, Karen Warren & Jim Savastano, Norellen & Tom Bolella, Michael & Yvonne Boccher, Heather & Jack McGee, Elaine & Tom Schiavone & her nieces and nephews and great niece and nephews who she cherished

Service Details

A visitation will be held at Becker Funeral Home, located at 219 Kinderkamack Road, Westwood, NJ 07675, on January 4, 2026, from 2:00 pm to 6:00 pm.

The Mass of Christian Burial will take place at Our Lady of Mercy Roman Catholic Church, 2 Fremont Ave, Park Ridge, NJ 07656, on January 5, 2026, starting at 12:00 pm.

Mausoleum entombment will follow at Maryrest Cemetery & Mausoleum, 770 Darlington Ave, Mahwah, NJ 07430, on January 5, 2026, at 1:15 pm.

A celebration of Cindy’s life will be held following the ceremony.