Douglas Alfred Stratton

Douglas Alfred Stratton, 81, of Hillsdale, New Jersey, passed away on March 20, 2025. Born on March 31, 1943, in Tenafly, New Jersey, Douglas lived a full and vibrant life marked by professional achievement, deep family bonds, and a profound appreciation for both the extraordinary and the everyday.

A proud graduate of Rutgers University’s College of Engineering, Douglas earned his degree in Chemical Engineering. His career began at Procter & Gamble before he transitioned into management with Western Electric, leading to a move across the country to Phoenix, Arizona, with his wife and three young children. Returning to his home state of New Jersey over a decade later, he continued his professional journey with NYNEX and its successor organizations following the breakup of the Bell System. Though he briefly retired, Douglas was encouraged by his wife to return to work—an opportunity he embraced wholeheartedly. He re-entered the workforce as an independent contractor in the pharmaceutical industry with positions at Bayer. In addition to his corporate roles, he was a detailed recordkeeper and supported his wife's shop in Blauvelt, New York, with bookkeeping, inventory, and related tasks. His adaptability, continuous professional development, and dedication were hallmarks of a career that spanned decades and industries.

Douglas shared 59 years of marriage with his beloved wife, Ellen. Together, they built a life filled with love, laughter, and shared adventures. He is lovingly remembered by his children: Karen Guy (David) of Winston-Salem, NC; Janet Castrillon (John) of Mahwah, NJ; and David Stratton of West Nyack, NY. His grandchildren, Thomas and Emma brought him immense joy throughout his later years.

He was predeceased by his parents, Walter and Florence Stratton; grandson Cole; brother Walter; and brothers-in-law Bruce, Peter, and Wolfgang.

Douglas had a wide array of interests that reflected his curious mind and zest for life. He was an avid golfer who enjoyed time on the green as much as he did reading murder mysteries and spy thrillers. A lover of travel and nature, he found beauty in every season and cherished new experiences around the world. Photography allowed him to capture those moments while afghan blanket modeling—done with good humor for his creative crocheting wife—showcased his playful side. Known affectionately as the “laundry butler,” Douglas took pride in even the smallest acts of care for those he loved. A bit of a foodie at heart, he especially delighted in his wife's cooking.

His faith played a central role in his life. Douglas was active in volunteer leadership at Hillsdale United Methodist Church, where he found not only spiritual fulfillment but also lasting friendships within a community that deeply valued his service. His volunteerism and philanthropy are remembered and cherished by his children. He believed that faith requires us to act in service and that strength meant putting the needs of others we love ahead of our own.

Douglas lived with gratitude—for family dinners filled with conversation and warmth; for quiet mornings spent reading; for long walks through changing leaves or blooming spring gardens; for every moment shared with those he held dear.

May his memory bring comfort to all who knew him and serve as a reminder of a life well-lived—rich in love, purpose, humor, and grace.