Lillian was one of the best sisters anyone could have besides being a best friend.  My seven years living in Middletown was a time of treasured memories. She will be dearly missed.

Ginny Iliffe

Lillian was a wonderful neighbor at Black Point Road. She had a long, lovely life. My condolences to her children. Cherish the memories.

Lillian was a kind and gentle person and a dear friend of my mother's. My mom always spoke about what a good person Lillian was. My mom loved having her in Circle at the Rumson Presbyterian Church and enjoyed talking to her over the years. 
I'm so sorry. I wish you comfort and peace.
With love and in sympathy,
Beverly

I taught Sunday school with Nancy in Rumson, and I have many fond memories of Lillian and her whole family. I'll always remember Lillian as a sweet person. We send our love to the family. 
Love,
Betty

Lillian was one of my closest friends. After she moved to Williamsburg, we would speak on the phone once a week or so. I've known her and her children since we moved to Rumson in 1962. We all send our love and sympathy. 
Love,
Frances Harris

So special and so loyal a friend Lillian was and she will be truly missed. She was a giver and a  treasure.  When she moved to Williamsburg she never failed to keep in touch with her NJ friends.  How much she meant to us and the disabled vets whom she supported financially and emotionally, one of her many "ministries".  So glad she had her family reunion  at the lake every yeaar.  That was sheer joy for her.  Closing we send our love to her family.

Lillian has kept in touch with Frances Harris almost every week and I talk to Frances every Sunday. Frances was kind enough to relate how Lillian was doing and keeping me up to date these past months. I would like to express my sympathy to you all on your Mother's passing.  I know she loved her church in Rumson as long as she could.  Bless you all,  Mary Ellen Wilson

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Lillian Irma McCoy

March 16, 1925 – September 20, 2015

Nelsen Williamsburg

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