Beloved wife of 57 years of the late Herman C. Erbacher. Loving daughter of the late Harry and Blanche Sarver; dear sister of Michael (Kay) Sarver and the late Harold (Shirley) Sarver. Dearest mother of Lodema J. Erbacher, Herman H. (Michele) Erbacher, Charles T. (Pamela) Erbacher, Jeannette L. (Tad) Ferguson, Joseph A. Erbacher, Susan M. (Phillip) Galbo and Harold B. (Christine) Erbacher. Proud grandmother to 19 and great-grandmother to 14. Lodema was born and raised in Middletown, OH where she was homecoming queen her senior year of high school before relocating to the Buffalo area in the 1960’s with her family. She was an active volunteer with the Girl Scouts of America, St. Ann’s Sodality, a member of the Alabama Hunt Club, and a generous donor to many Native American causes and charities. Lodema enjoyed a lifetime of boating as well as her membership in Beta Sigma Phi sorority. The family will receive friends on Sunday January 26 from 2-4 & 6-8PM at Beach-Tuyn Funeral Home, 1671 Maple Road. Friends are invited to attend a Mass of Christian Burial in S.S. Peter and Paul Church 5480 Main Street Williamsville NY on Monday January 27 at 10AM. Please assemble at the church. Memorial contributions may be made to Soaring Eagle, a care facility for Northern Cheyenne elders, at https://soaringeagle.org/new-donation/.
