The world lost a bright light on October 20th when Barbara Jean Heckenliable passed away in Antioch, CA. She was released from a body that couldn’t keep up with her spark, wit, zest for life, and love for others.
Barbara was born in on November 27, 1927 in New Jersey. As a girl, Barb made friends easily, had a sassy side, and loved animals. These attributes remained unchanged throughout her 92 years.
By the age of 9, Barb had aspirations of earning her Nurses’ cap and raising a family. Achieving her dreams brought these both together. Barbara met John Heckenliable when she was his RN in the hospital. They married and moved to California’s Castro Valley, where they raised their children, Joan and Doug. At the time, it was unusual for Mothers to work outside the home but Barb was ever the modern woman, continuing her beloved Nursing career and juggling the many demands of raising a family. Both were joys for her and she excelled. Her love of family was her greatest essense. Her marriage to John spanned 55+ years and included world travel, unconditional support, and time with family. John passed away in 2007.
Barbara was known for her kindness and had a special gift for listening and handing out heartfelt advice. She loved to laugh, play games and had a great repitoire of wonderful sayings, including her favorite, “that’s the way the pickle squirts!”. She lived a life without regrets and loved her family and friends intensely. She may have been John Wayne’s greatest fan.
Barb will be reunited with her husband John and laid to rest by his side in the Chapel of the Hills cemetary. No services are currently planned due to the pandemic.
Barbara is survived by her sister Eleanor Johnston, daughter Joan Silva (John), son Doug Heckenliable (Dana), grandchildren Lisa Williams (Danny), JD Heckenliable, Tara Heckenliable, and great-grandchildren Travis Heckenliable, and Everest Williams.
All are welcome to add your memories to Chapel of the Hills Auburn Memorial Page. If you would like to send a remembrance, please add to Barbara’s legacy of love for and support of animals to the Best Friends Animal Society at bestfriends.org.
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