Jay grew up in Webster Groves, MO where he graduated from Webster Groves High School. He attended Pikes Peak Community College and served in the U.S. Army from 1966 -1969. He met Barbara Bonney in the business office and they were married July 7, 1984.
Jay had a lifelong dedication to mechanical and technical work. He owned his own mechanical shop and spent 20 years with CenturyLink (formerly Qwest) as an E911/FAA maintenance employee before retiring in 2009.
Jay was a man of many passions and quiet strength. He found joy in cooking, gardening, fishing, and mechanics. He was a devoted fan of the Denver Broncos, the Cardinals, and college basketball. His calm, loving nature made him a deeply involved father, a patient and wise grandfather who found joy in inspiring his sons and grandchildren. As a husband, he will be remembered for his kindness, humor, and steady presence. Whether cheering on his teams or spending a peaceful day on the beach—his favorite place—he brought warmth and heart to everything he did.
Jay is survived by his spouse, Barbara Bonney-Webb; his son Christopher Webb (Amber); his son Mario Vigil (Ruby); his son Bryan Webb; and his son Adam Vigil; his mother-in-law Josephine McMillan, and mother-in-law Lisa Bonney; his granddaughter Brooke Webb, his grandson Shawn Webb, his grandson Aiden Webb, his granddaughter Destiny Alverado, his granddaughter Mia Vigil and his cousin Craig McColloch.
Jay was preceded in death by his mother Mildred Fahnestock; his father Jacob Webb; his father-in-law Charles Bonney and his father-in-law Floyd McMillian.
A funeral mass for Jay will be held Tuesday, September 16, 2025 at 11:00 AM at Ave Maria Catholic Church, 9056 E. Parker Road, Parker, Colorado 80138. Following the funeral mass will be a celebration reception from 12:15 PM to 2:15 PM at The Webb's Home, 16181 Hollyridge Dr., Parker, Colorado 80134.
