Born blond and beautiful on June 30, 1932, in Gastonia, North Carolina, Jerry greeted the world with a ready smile and bright hazel eyes. She was a curious and adventurous youngster. As a tiny six-year old, she often walked blocks alone to read at Charlotte’s downtown library. Little did she know then that books would become lifelong buddies. The eldest of five girls born to Odell and Myrtle Long, Jerry faced challenges growing up, yet early demonstrated the resilience and fortitude that would sustain her all of her life. She met her future husband, Ray Loflin, on a blind date during her first year of college. Upon learning that her mystery date would be the handsome and athletic Ray, Jerry uncharacteristically broke her evening plans with another suitor. And that was that. The lively and satin-clad bride married in 1952; daughters Leslie, Lynda and Lauren soon followed.
Though a dedicated mother, Jerry’s generous spirit extended far beyond her family to support neighbors and the broader community. She volunteered at church and baked goodies for neighbors; she shared cookies with the postal worker at Christmas and her famous buttermilk biscuit recipe with the cardiologist. Jerry also dedicated twelve years of her life as a hospice volunteer, and countless hours supporting family and friends. As an energetic member of the Matthews Glen Welcoming Committee, many remember Jerry as central in their acclimation to the community. If you needed help, Jerry was there.
Jerry lived her life with purpose and perseverance, energy and curiosity. As she sometimes said, “I have tried to do my best.” She certainly did. When learning the joys and pitfalls of golf, she gave herself fully to the game, with lessons and lots of practice, and, as was true with every pursuit, she made new friends. Jerry’s persistence also served her well when, at an early age, she learned to knit. Typical of Jerry’s no-nonsense approach to challenge, she knitted, occasionally made mistakes, ripped out rows of yarn, and started again. Jerry was not a quitter. A lifelong reader, it was rare – impossible? – to find her without a book. She read voraciously, with wonder and appreciation, and was always eager to discuss a new one. Jerry’s curiosity also spilled over into her participation in book groups, philosophy classes, and Sunday school gatherings. She was unfailingly open to listening and learning.
Jerry is survived by sister Judy McDaniel and husband, Richard; daughters Leslie Solomon and husband Michael; and Lauren Buxton and husband Brian; grandchildren Michael and wife Abby, Matthew, Mitchell, Rachel, Anna, Justin and husband Daniel, and Brendan and wife Ali; and great-grandchildren Griffin and Jude. Preceded in death are her husband, Ray; daughter Lynda O’Brien and her husband Pat; and grandson Kyle.
A celebration of life will be held on Saturday, June 1st, 2024 at 1 p.m., at the Matthews Glen's chapel, 733 Pavilion View Drive, Matthews. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to Acts Legacy Foundation’s Goods to Go.
Online condolences may be shared at www.mcewenpinevillechapel.com.
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