He was born the 23rd of July, 1956 in Charlotte North Carolina to the late Roger Lee Oates, Sr. and Charlene Walker Oates.
Rocky is survived by his two sisters: Cindy Oates Duncan and her husband, John and Kim Marie Oates; one nephew, Christopher John Duncan and his wife, Tracy and a niece, Lori Duncan Still. In addition to his parents he was preceded in death by a niece, Megan Duncan Clark.
Rocky attended Harding High. He worked for American (Merita) Bakeries. One of his greatest accomplishments was being sober for 24 years.
The family will receive friends at 1:00 pm and the service will be at 2:00 pm, Friday, the 20th of February, 2026 at McEwen Funerals & Cremations at Forest Lawn West. Burial to follow in Forest Lawn West Cemetery with Rev Pamela Coopwood leading the service and Rev John Duncan will lead the committal service.
In lieu of flowers donations may be made to Novant Health Hospice or American Diabetes Association.