My best bud & partner in crime, Ruth Nesbitt Killian grew up in Charlotte, NC. You went on to become what you wanted, a typist! Being married for several years did not define you. Being the mother of a child, you raised on your own is what made you proud. Every opportunity you had, you would speak highly of the daughter you raised, loved & was always worried about. You knew some day you would have to leave this world and were concerned I would be alone. When I married you felt good and thought I would be ok. Everywhere we went, I made sure you got the opportunity to see it too. But then Will died of lung cancer. You thought it was hard losing your mother, but your son in-law Will broke us both and you began to worry again. Eventually we both found peace. It took a while for you to warm up to Marlowe, but you realized he loved me and made him promise to take care of me. Even when you were admitted into the hospital for complications related to pancreatic cancer you kept turning around to ask me if I was ok. You didn’t want your death to hurt me, like Will’s did. I’m not going to lie. It hurts like hell! But I’m grateful for every moment we had thru the years. And the final moment that I got to tell you that you were a pretty darn good mom & how much I loved you. Chey & Marlowe continue to look for you every morning. Even though none of us understand why you had to leave, I keep saying it’s ok. You loved them. I pray that you found Granny (Minnie N. McCall), Will (Wilfried Guenther), Sasha & Pokie. Love you!l
You are missed by a ton of family and friends.
Ruth N. Killian, 73, passed away Monday morning, November 11, 2019.
Born October 29, 1946 in Charlotte, NC, she is the daughter of the late Horace Nesbitt & Minnie Gossett McCall. Survivors include her daughter, Shearee Guenther and three sisters, Rose Fewell, Emma Graves & Francis Mims.
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