Wanda Joyce Cornelius

Born on February 4, 1931, to the late Randolph and Belle Dancy, Wanda grew up to become a beloved wife and mother known for her intelligence, artistic flair, and unwavering dedication to her community.

In 1955, she married the love of her life, Jacob Conrad Cornelius Jr. Together, they embarked on a journey that nurtured not only a beautiful family but also left an indelible mark on those around them. Their love story was one of mutual respect and shared values, and their enduring partnership lasted until Jake’s passing.

The legacy of Wanda and Jake’s love shines brightly through their children - Carol (Tim) Cullen, Terri (Eric) Gill, and Debbie (Jeff) Frisby. Wanda was the proud matriarch of a flourishing family that includes 11 grandchildren and 19 great-grandchildren, each of whom brought her immeasurable joy.

She is also survived by her brother, Rick (Jewel) Dancy, along with a host of extended family and cherished friends.

Wanda had a deep love for flowers and coastal living - both passions evident in her art and in the life she built. While raising their family in Charlotte, NC, she and Jake built a beach house on Long Beach, lovingly called “The Family Place.” They later moved to Wilmington and eventually retired to Southport. Each of their homes was filled with beautiful paintings and fresh-cut flowers - expressions of Wanda’s love for beauty and nature.

She saw the world in vibrant colors. Her passion for art and all things pretty was a manifestation of her innate ability to see and create beauty in everyday life. Wanda used this gift to build a career full of creativity and expression.

Professional excellence was a hallmark of Wanda's career. As the Head of Advertising and Graphic Artist at Belk, she combined her creative flair with a keen business mind, helping shape the brand’s image with elegance and impact. She was also a well-known local artist, celebrated for her pastel watercolor paintings of coastal scenes.

Wanda’s identity as an artist extended far beyond her professional life; it was at the core of who she was. Her artwork captured the warmth and beauty she saw in the world, and she shared that vision generously with others. She also contributed significantly to her community bringing creative insight and thoughtful leadership while serving as a coordinator at Franklin Gallery, serving her church, and participating in various committees in Wilmington and Southport.

As we remember Wanda Joyce Cornelius, we celebrate the life of a remarkable woman who touched so many through her creativity, and intellect. Her legacy is one of beauty, and dedication - a testament to a life well-lived.

In her final days, during a visit with family, Wanda reflected with peace and clarity, saying, “My work here is done.” While her body aged, her spirit remained forever young. Wanda will be deeply missed, lovingly remembered, and eternally cherished.