PHILIP C. ELIA, SR., age 84, of Chesterland. Beloved father of Denise Elia, Philip, Jr., Dina Elia, and the late Debra Spaner; devoted father-in-law of William Spaner; loving grandfather of Josie, Nikki (Silas), Charlie, Ben, and Julia; cherished great-grandfather of Liam and Lucy; and dear friend of Rusty Ruckel.
He truly earned the title of Papa. He always put his grandchildren first, and he attended every important moment of his 5 grandchildren, and 2 great grandchildren’s lives. Papa was at his Grandson Charlie’s marine boot camp graduation, and the high school graduations of grandchildren Benny and Julia. Papa was immediately there from the moment they were born, to the minute his daughter, Debbie took her last breath. Phil would make weekly drives to the national institute of health with Mama when Debbie was receiving treatments that gave the family hope. Phil was right beside Mama when she took her last breath, and you could see that he dearly loved her. Phil later met Sheri, who knew that he was a free spirit, and they were happy together until Sherri’s death. He was a living example of humility, and how life can change with sobriety. Phil sponsored many alcoholics, and addicts, and even talked a guy down from jumping to his death when he was despondent from relapsing. Denise was the oldest of his four children, and she worked beside Papa for many years in his Salon, Village Hairdressers, until Papa became a full time Fireman for Chester Fire. He loved being a fireman, and he would proudly wear his FF shirts and hats. Denise was a wonderful caregiver, who surely extended Papa’s life. Phil understood what it meant to be generous, and if he had something that someone else needed, Phil happily gave it to them with a smile, and a hug. Phil spent most of his life giving. He also gave of himself, often working right beside Phil Jr as they created beautiful woodwork and kitchens. Phil Sr was the only person who could sand the doors perfectly, and to Phil Jr’s specifications. Papa would take his Granddaughter Nikki on backpacking hikes, and Papa was there to celebrate when she graduated with her masters, and when she married Silas. Papa showered his great grandchildren Liam and Lucy with love and admiration. They always knew Papa’s home was a free for all, and they enjoyed his youthful, unending love. Papa’s home became the fun place. In a testament of Phil’s love and humility, his youngest daughter, Dina came full circle, embracing Papa’s love and acceptance of all his children. June, BillyBoo, and Kathy were loved as his own. Whenever needed, Papa would drop everything and drive to Wisconsin with BillyBoo to see his granddaughter Josie. Papa created many long friendships including Billy D, Jimmy, and Cousin Johnny, but one of his truest friends Rusty was right beside Phil, always taking him to his Wednesday Doctor appointments. Rest in peace Papa Phil, we will miss you forever. Your service is complete.
Friends may call at GATTOZZI AND SON FUNERAL HOME, 12524 CHILLICOTHE RD. (RT. 306, N. OF MAYFIELD RD.) CHESTERLAND ON WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 12, 2020, 4 – 7 PM. Private Graveside Service and Interment at Western Reserve Memorial Gardens.
In lieu of flowers donations to Chester Fire Department, and your local AA group is appreciated.
