I am Bryan’s cousin Eric, Bryan was an amazing man, a son, a brother, a cousin, a friend that we are blessed to know.
He was a man’s man
He could do anything, build anything, he was extremely skilled with his hands
•	Fixing motors
•	Wielding
•	Fabricating 
•	Building with Wood
•	Plumbing 
•	Generators
•	Motorcycles

He could do it all, 
He was extremely gifted 
So as some of you in our immediate family know, I am the least mechanically gifted male in my family, it is not a secret.  
Growing up, if something broke or needed to be build or replaced we fixed it as a family, plumbing electrical, roofing, construction, cars, the men in our family do it all.  Uncle Floyd, Floyd Jr., Bryan would show up and my grandfather and my brothers Kirk and Rick would attack it.  And one consistent story was with every project, my uncle Floyd at our house would direct it, extremely patient as always, but it would be “ Hey Brian show Eric how to do this or that…LOL…every project, he was amazing, and he was a good teacher too, he got that from his Dad.”
Anything with a motor Bryan was into, Man he could Ride a motor cycle, I remember one time I came over to the Bryan and Floyds house and Bryan was flying around the north 40 of their property on a circle 8 track that he had built.  I was blown away on how good he was on that track.  
I will never forget when Uncle Floyd and Bryan took me Fishing.  It was an amazing day on the lake, Great conversations as we sat in that little fishing boat on the lake.  
The funniest part was when we docked and we went to “clean the fish”.  Bryan proceeds to take out this huge crocodile dunde knife and cut the fish right down the belle.  He then cuts of the head off the fish and proceeds to use his hands to scrape out the guts of the fish.  I remember thinking at that moment h heck no, I am not as manly as I thought I was.  And of course he looks and me throws me a fish and says ok now your turn.  😊
Bryan, I cant wait to see you in heaven again brother


My Beloved Bryan, has always been so close to my heart.  I always looked forward to asking him about the projects he was working on and he gladly shared with great detail.  It was amazing how he could fix, create, or invent projects to work on. I have many gifts that he made for me which I will always cherish.  Recently he was planning to make a hand railing for me for my front porch steps.  He was so anxious to start working on the project.  He loved sharing his talents to help others.  I am thankful for the times we shared.

I Love You Bryan,
Aunt Pat  

Those who were fortunate to know Bryan had the privilege to learn to look past stereotypes to see the amazing power of the human spirit. Bryan fought through both physical and mental challenges that would cause most people to give up, but not him. He idolized and looked up to his older brother and wanted to do everything he did from having a girlfriend, having a job, to having better tools than him.  Christmas gifts were always a sight because the two of them would try to make the simplest gift, the hardest to open. Floyd Sr. and Sharon wanted to provide Bryan with opportunities to experience a life of independence but still within their safety. Bryan had a kind heart and always thought of others. He was shy but always made sure to ask how someone was doing because he truly cared.  Bryan’s lasting gift to those that knew him were, to never give up and to look past our own judgements. God had a purpose for Bryan to be in our lives and we are all forever changed because of it.

Remember this shirt that Bryan made for me in 2003?  The back of the shirt had a Snake on it.    

Larry


Bryan was a very smart, kind and special young man.  We always enjoyed our visits to the "Dudley Farm" and catching up on all Bryan's new projects he  had made and ones he was in the process of doing.   He especially held a very special place in Larry's heart and I believe in Bryan's as well.  He will be deeply missed.  Floyd, Sharon, Floyd Jr. and Family you all are in our thoughts and prayers.   Love, Larry, Sherry, Jenna and Colton Russell 

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Bryan Dale Dudley

8 juillet 1976 – 18 avril 2019

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