She was born in El Paso, Texas on December 25, 1961. Tamara graduated from Dell City High School and received a master's degree from Villanova University.
Tamra was preceded in death by her parents Matta and Virginia Elias and sister Linda Loper.
She is survived by her children, Jacob David Lahav Jr., and Nicole Lahav; siblings Lamayda Stephens, JoAnn Harmier, George Elias, William Elias, and Charles Elias.
A private family viewing was held at Martin Funeral Home West, as per Tamara's wishes.