We have one every year just for you Pop! ❤️ DQ Dilly Lilly dilly bars! I love and miss you dad!!!

Remembering Uncle Jeff today!! Missing his jokes and laughs and smiles!! He gave us his glove after he got sick!! I catch Makenli Bo with it and I’m thankful for this piece of him! RIP Porkchop!

Missing ya Uncle Jeff! ❤️  Thankful for the great times we shared!

I can't believe it's been 3 years now! Still feels like yesterday we lost you Dad! Life will never be the same! Not a day goes by I don't think about you! Not a night goes by I don't see your face somehow! Maybe I'll see your face again someday and forever! I love and miss you so much it hurts! But I'll always and forever cherish the good times we had! Fishing, shopping, road trips, ball games, funny stories and holidays! I hope you're out there somewhere feeding my baby boy Ace a ton of junk food, giving him all the jeep rides you can and cuddling with him! I miss you both so very much, life has just not been the same! Love ya Pop! Pork chop-Bones
"The rhythm of my heart is beating like a drum with the words I love you rolling off my tongue " "and when I finally fly away I'll be hoping that I served ya well" 

I don’t  even know where to start! I’ve had so many great memories with uncle Jeff and aunt Tammy! As a child I remember staying all night with them walking all around town playing with my cousins! As I got older I went to my first concert with uncle Jeff and aunt Tammy and grandma Betty, AC/DC Of course! I remember not being able to wait to go with grandma to visit them in Indianapolis and stay a few nights! I went to my first Indianapolis 500 with them! My girls absolutely love Uncle Jeffy! He would bring a cooler full of treats to the ballfield for the team, and some busch light for himself of course! He had such a great love for children and such a generous kind heart! At Christmas when he was so sick he sent my oldest daughter a $20 bill for her first tank of gas because he knew he wasn’t going to be around to see her drive! So loving, kind and generous! His sense of style was unlike no other! Sweats with ball shorts over the top, stripped tube socks, muscle shirts, shades and a ball cap! I remember him being at our house, never eating, just a plate to go!! Always a plate to go! I’m going to miss him, I already do! Always made me laugh and smile! I’m thankful for the phone calls we’ve shared over this last year and a half! I’ll treasure my answering machine messages singing to us! He was such a hard worker and would help anyone out! Although we are apart you’ll always be in my heart!!! Till we meet again Uncle Jeff! No more pain! Love you!!!!

Always in my heart..
 I'll always be ur "sister-in-law" lol daughter-in-law. I loved being a part of ur guys family & u always made me as I was. Love u for that. I'll always remember all the good times we had so many I don't even know were to begin.  In so happy me and ur son Jeffery were able to give u ur one and only granddaughter Harmony Lynn. She loves u so much.  Ur were a awesome grandpa. When u were diagnosed with Cancer u started to come over and see us and her ever single day sometimes twice a day. She loved when u came over to get her off the 🚌 bus. U would go down there without even telling us we would come down and u would be standing there doing something silly with a pocket full of goodies  waiting for her. Everyday she would be like"pawpaw coming over or we going to pawpaw today. U'll always be a part of who she is and a part of her ❤. We all loved coming over and simming at ur place. I'll always remember u calling Jeffery and saying"is ur old lady cooking tonight Or meet me over at the park we'll grilled out some porkchops and got some pork and beans tell her to bring the forks and plates". U always had the jokes. U were a good dad to, I know u wish and told them u wish u were a better or should have done things different with there mom and as a father. But u were u and we all have are flaws and are who we are. I think u gave it one good dam try in life. Love u so much. All I'll have to do is look at chastidy, Jeffery, or Charity & i see u. Everyone of them are and have a part of u. Always imprinted in are heart's.. Hope ur up there rockin out in peace. See u up there one day... Love always ur daughter-in-law, Ashley❤

Jeff was a wonderful husband and had a great sense of humor that I loved.  I will love you forever and will see you in my dreams.  
Love, Linda "Honey Buns"

Jeff,
 This is your crazy Terri. RIP my friend. 
I can imagine you are up in heaven catching some big fish.
 I will miss that smile, and yes all of the goodies that you brought to your BB.
  We will miss you and that smile.

When I see a pair of colored tub socks I will think of you!! Jeff was not just an awesome uncle, but a crazy neighbor. lol If I didn't already no who this guy was nx door I would of been a little worried.lol II look out side one day to see a grown man sitting in a baby pool jamming out to AC/DC.  Wearing tank top, cut of shorts,and knee high socks!! Oh you know the ones that had a colored stripe across the top.😂love you uncle Jeff and a awesome neighbor.

Dear Linda & family,    So very sad that Jeff lost his fight, but really he's won. He is free from his pain & in a much brighter place.  I became a part of this crazy family in 1988, when I married Jeff's brother, Donnie. (Who we just lost on December 11, 2018. )  You guys will never know what it meant for my two boys & myself, to have Jeff & Linda, Sarah & husband, come to his funeral. I divorced Donnie in 1996, but still had connections with this family. Jeff was a super happy guy. Loved my kids & grandkids. He loved his birth family as well as his extended family. I will always remember the times they came to Indpls. to visit, go to Colts games, etc. Hold on to the good memories. Keep Jeff & family in your prayers as they try to get through this very sad time in their lives. Until we meet again, baby brother. I love you!

I've known Jeff since we were young kids going to Baker grade school.  We reconnected while I was working at Dollar Tree.  He was so encouraging to me & on days I was down, he would randomly show up & put a smile & laughter in my heart.  One day he brought me in a piece of lemon cake he had made.  Wow, it was DELICIOUS!!! I never let him walk out the door without a hug & telling him I was continually keeping him in my prayers.  My heart goes out to Linda & his family.  God be with you all during this difficult time.  Sincerely, Rhonda DeMoss

Although this does not seem real or even right, I want to share this memory because it will be one I will never forget! The day we found out you had stage 4 cancer, the very first thing you asked me to do was take you fishing! This was one spot we went. I still think today, what was going through your mind or how you were feeling! I wanted to dig into your brain (lol). You were at a peace at this moment I dont think any of us know about! You were calm, relaxed, not scared, I seen a different side of you in this moment! And I thank you for that Pop! It was something you and I both needed! Although I know you still want to kick my a** for breaking your line, we all know you caught the biggest fish haha I know you enjoyed yourself and so did we! Ill always love ya Pop, Chop, Candyman, Bones!  -forever your Babygirl 

Hey Jeff,
You will always be with us and a part of you will always remain with my handsome nephew & grandchild, and my beautiful nieces I have been so blessed with. Thanks so much for the blessing of having them as part of my life!  I love them dearly!   
I will always remember you as being "King of The Sweets!"   You loved sweets and you loved sharing them with everyone around you!
I still remember the grin on your face when you would come by mom's house peek around the corner and yell,  " I got some goodies !"    You brought sweet treats to mom's house and always gave her big hugs.  and when I was in town I got to share those sweets and hugs.  Thank you for always being so good to momma!  
Heavenly Hugs, Vickie W.


It's your ex-wife Tammy...the mother of of our 3 beautiful children.  I will always remember the good times, not the bad. I chose to remember times like our first date. You came to pick me up with an earring in your ear. My mama made you go home, and take it out, and return to our home a gentleman, and you did exactly that !!! I will never  forget the fishing trips, the times we went to the Indy 500, and the brickyard. Us playing pool and cards at K&B with your Mom, and David. We had 18 years of Love, and a friendship that never ended. I will and have always loved you, because you gave me 3 beautiful 
children, and memories no one else has. Thank you for being my friend to the end. 
 
Love Always,
 Tammy (Hot Dog)

For seven years you treated me like your own family. I enjoyed trying all the "new" snacks you always seemed to have plenty of. I still talk about of trip to the Hall of Fame and the fun times we had.  Lighting off fireworks for no apparent reason, and talking about guns. I enjoyed making you laugh about "eyewax" and other inside jokes. I hope your catching a big one and having a few beers bud. We will miss you more than you know, it's just not the same without you!!! See you on the other side buddy!!

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Jeffery Mayes

21 décembre 1960 – 28 janvier 2019

Alexander Funeral Home-East Chapel

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