Jay: I cried last night in bed when I heard. You are such a wonderful person. We had so many superb times together; so many times with you and Ellen and the boys in Virginia at your home. I remember our times at the Smithsonian – so many years.  I remember our trips to South America in the 1990s. I remember our Manhan days in the 1980s. I pray that more people in this world are like you.  You and your family will always be in my prayers. Javier

I thank God for the opportunity to have known Jay.  Heartfelt condolences from the McKelvey Family.

It was a pleasure and a privilege to know Jay. We had nice visits here on Glebe Road, Irvington though not often enough.
We send deepest sympathy to Ellen, Hoitt and Ned. 
 Bob and Olga ,  Irvington VA

Sending my deepest sympathy.  Jay you were a great friend and you will be missed as a Trustee to Save Historic Arlington House in Arlington National Cemetery.

Jay:  Thankyou for your friendship and your contributions toward the restoration efforts of Arlington House, The Robert E Lee Memorial.

Sending my deepest sympathy.  Jay was a memorable man and will be missed and thought of often.

Great husband, father and friend, a truly special man who will be dearly missed by all who know Jay. Your decency, generosity, sense of humour and kindness touched all and made whatever corner of the world we happened to be in better. Thanks for simply being you.

So blessed to have known and worked with Jaye at USETI.  He will be missed.  My thoughts and prayers are with Ellen, the boys and the entire family.

Jay, you were a tremendous friend and a truly decent and generous human being. In all the years and places we spent time in, this held true. The world is poorer for your absence. I shall miss you, and the pleasure of your company, wherever and whenever.

It has been a priveledge to get to know you and your family these past few years through the Marvelwood School. You are truly one of the good souls, and you will be dearly missed by all who knew you. Rest in peace.

Truly one of the nicest men I have ever known.  He went too soon.

Bless you Jay and all those who loved you so much.
xoxox

Callimachus about his beloved friend Heraclitus:

"They told me, Heraclitus; they told me you were dead.
They brought me bitter news to hear, and bitter tears to shed.
I wept when I remembered how often you and I
Had tired the moon with talking, and sent him down the sky."

One of the truly good ones has been called home. Will be missed very much.

Jay, you are one of the best men I know. We have many memories and the best is you and Ellen hooking up at my farewell party to Singapore. I will surely miss you but never forget you!

Rest in Peace my friend.  You are in our hearts and we are blessed to have you, Ellen and the boys in our lives the past 21 years.  We will feel your warmth through the sun and your wisdom through the stars.  Sleep well dear friend.

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Donald H. McAllister Jr.

16 mai 1955 – 4 mai 2013

Murphy Funeral Homes

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