Totoro-O'Connor, Frances, 62, of Bethpage passed away March 12, 2023. Beloved wife of the late Gregory. Loving mother and mother-in-law of Gary Luniewski and Alexa and Amie Abbondondolo and Anthony. Cherished grandmother of Gino and baby Sophie on the way. Adored "Cat-Mom" to Tiger. Dear friend to many. Frances was obsessed with Rod Stewart, Lifetime TV shows and her family. She was a huge animal lover and helped many injured animals throughout her lifetime. Frances had an amazing heart, befriending everyone with her loyal, gentile, loving personality. She enjoyed the beach, coloring, puzzles and being creative. Memorial Mass Friday, March 17th, 10 am at St. Martin of Tours RC Church, Bethpage. In lieu of flowers, please make donations in Frances' memory to the American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals "ASPCA"; ASPCA.org.