Barbara Jay

It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Barbara Wirth Jay, fondly known as Miss Barbara, who left us on April 17, 2025, at the age of 85. Born on August 13, 1939, in New Orleans, Louisiana, she was the beloved daughter of Julius H. and Ada Wingrave Bosch. Barbara spent most of her life in Grove Hill, Alabama, where she became a beloved figure in the community.

In her life, Barbara shared a deep love with her husband, Mitchell B. Jay, together welcoming two sons, Paul and David Jay, we want to mention with great love her honorary son, Rodger Nichols. Miss Barbara was cherished not only by her family but also by friends, and the community, who appreciated her warm spirit. For 21 years, she dedicated herself to driving a school bus, becoming a familiar and beloved face to countless children in Grove Hill.

As the wife of a serviceman, Barbara held the VFW close to her heart and became a steadfast member. Her faith was central to her life; she was a devoted Christian and an active member of Grace Baptist Church in Grove Hill. In the last year, she moved to Hot Springs, Arkansas, where she attended Westminster Presbyterian Church and quickly formed many new friendships.

Barbara was predeceased by her parents, her husband, and her siblings. She is survived by her two sons, Paul B. Jay (JoAnne) and David Jay, along with her beloved grandchildren: Zachery Jay (Karissa) with her great-grandson Kai, William, Sierra, and Emily Jay of Kernersville, NC. Additionally, she leaves behind numerous nieces and nephews, including Kathy, Connie, Richard and James Townley, Lynnwood Bosch, Julie Friedman Bosch, Alvin and Milton Bosch who will carry her memory forward.

A woman of many interests, Miss Barbara found joy in gardening, completing puzzles, and enjoying her favorite television show, Gunsmoke. She had an undeniable love for ice cream and celebrated her faith in the Lord openly, sharing her joy of salvation with all those around her. Known to speak her mind, but she always did it with kindness. Those who knew her always knew where they stood with Miss Barbara. Her vibrant smile and infectious laughter will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege to know her.

Services for Miss Barbara Jay will be held Friday, April 25th at Monroe Chapel in Frisco City, AL at 11 am with a graveside to follow.