Cary David Weiner

Born May 13, 1953, in Homestead, Pennsylvania, Cary David Weiner passed away on January 4, 2025, at MD Anderson Cancer Center in Houston, Texas, after a brief but valiant battle with Mantle Cell Lymphoma. He was 71 years old.

Cary grew up in New York and New Jersey before settling in Houston, where he built a life centered on love, loyalty, and laughter. He is preceded in death by his mother, Shirley Rubenstein; her husband, Joseph Rubenstein, whom Cary proudly called “Dad”; and his biological father, Sholom Weiner. He is survived by his older brother, Martin Weiner; his sister, Diane Weiner and her daughter Allixandra Harrison; his younger brother, Richard Rubenstein, his wife JoAnn Rubenstein, and their children Rachel and Adam; his devoted wife of 41 years, Anne; his adoring daughter, Lauren; and his constant companion, his beloved dog, Lily.

Cary was a man of quiet strength, gentle humor, and an encyclopedic knowledge of music from the 1950s to the 1970s. A grill master and lifelong sports fan, Cary’s favorite pastimes included cheering for Houston’s teams, playing softball with the Harris County senior league, and taking Lily to dock diving lessons. His family and friends will remember his goofy jokes, calming presence, and unwavering optimism—a belief that everything would work out for the best.

Professionally, Cary spent over 26 years at Recruitment Enhancement Services, where his dedication and warmth made him a trusted partner and mentor. His job took him across the United States, enabling his family to explore the country through the benefits of his frequent traveler status. After RES, he continued his career in recruitment at Insperity, where his kindness and encouragement left a lasting impact on both colleagues and clients.

Despite his busy career, Cary was a present and dedicated father, never missing Lauren’s ballet recitals or school events, no matter how far work had taken him earlier in the week. As a husband, he showed his love in quiet, thoughtful ways—bringing Anne coffee every morning and ensuring the pot was ready to brew when he was away. Cary extended this same care to others, volunteering with organizations like Junior Achievement and a local food bank, and grocery shopping weekly for Anne’s parents.

Cary’s warmth and positivity made him a calming force in every room he entered, and his absence leaves an unfillable space in the lives of those who loved him.

In lieu of a memorial service, per his wishes, his family invites donations to Special Pals, where Cary found Lily, or to MD Anderson, whose compassionate care meant so much during his final days. Cary’s legacy of love, humor, and optimism lives on in all who were lucky enough to know him.