Paul, my brother, you will never be forgotten.  Always in our prayers 
Greg and family

Paul always had a smile on his face. He was such a wonderful man, amazing father & fabulous husband. I remember how great your wedding was & just how happy he always made Allison. He will be deeply missed. Gone way to soon, xoxo 

I met Paul (and Allison) working at WAMU in Lake Success, NY. It was my first full time job out of College and was overwhelming at times. Paul was always so helpful. He was wiling to take the time to actually teach me about the loans we were working on, instead of just signing his name on them and passing them off. He was always welcoming when anyone had questions and never made them feel like he was too busy for them. He made me feel at ease and he was always someone I could go to for help. Allison I'm so sorry for your loss and my heart aches for you and your girls. Hugs!

My Godfather, your smile smile  could light up a room. You have brought me so many years of love and laughter. I’ll never forget your Mickey Mouse house...every time we came over it was like going to Disney all over again. Thank you for everything. I miss you and love you dearly. I am so sorry your life was cut short but I know you will be watching over my daddy for ever and I am forever greatful!!!!

When I first met Paul it was in high school in a hockey class and from that day forward we became best of friends.  Paul and I never had a fight or real argument except about his love for the Yankees lol.  Even though Paul and I wasn't blood related, he was my brother in every sense of the word.  I still remember the day he asked Allison to marry him and they came to my place to tell me and my aunt Sylvia and to ask me to be the best man. Paul was a great man with a great heart. Paul and Allsion did a great job raising their kids. I'm proud to call them my family. Paul I miss you and we will meet again and we will play hockey just don't whack my ankles lol.  I love you Paul. 
Your friend always 
Bud

My brother Paul and I shared a special bond.   We were buddy's.  We had fun playing together as children,  going to camp together, traveling to school together, sharing a locker throughout high school. We were each other's confidant and support system our entire lives.  The attention he showed my children, the generosity, the love, was incredible.  The way he and my husband Gary were like brothers, teasing each other like kids all these years, was so sweet.  
Paul gave me so much.  He understood me, and always expressed his love and appreciation of me!  He was the sweetest Father,  giving much attention to his children. A loving, husband that worked hard to provide and create a good life for his family.  
 I am so very grateful that I could be there when he needed me the most.  It was my honor to be holding his hand when he left. I felt at that moment, it brought both of us comfort and made it a little easier.   I will be praying to him for the rest of my life,  until I get to see him again. 

I meet Paul when Allison did, we shared many days, nights, birthdays, holidays  and celebrations together laughing  and I hold those memories close to my heart. I  was blessed  to have witnessed Paul and Allison's love story from the beginning and was honored to be one of the bride maids at their wedding . I seen  first hand the loving husband, father, son, brother , uncle and friend that was Paul.  Paul will be greatly missed and will live on in our hearts. 
My Mom Madeline wanted to make sure to  add her memory   "He was truly  one of the good guys " 

Paul was the youngest of my first cousins on my Mom's side of the family.  I remember Paul always smiling and laughing and being full of fun as a small child.  He grew up to be an exemplary man that had a great sense of humor, that same wonderful smile, and a down-to-earth unpretentious way about him. When I met his outstanding wife, Allison, she "had me at hello."  In my worst nightmare, I never dreamed that Paul would be stricken with glioblastoma. I could not accept it, I prayed constantly that he would be healed. There were times that it seemed like he would be, and during those times I doubled down on my praying, pleading that his life be spared. How could Paul be taken from his family. In addition to his wife Allison, he had three beautiful, growing daughters, Mackenzie, Madison, and Taylor. He had Aunt Ella his brilliant and lovely Mother, and his remarkable siblings Mark, Gregory and his wife Karen, Mary and her husband Gary, and nieces and nephews-he meant the world to all of them. Paul had a heart for family. I will never forget the way he assisted my Mother during a sudden, unexpected, very difficult and sad time. Paul didn't leave my Mother's side, he shared his extremely helpful and practical knowledge. He didn't make a big deal about it. But it was a big deal. During his illness and passing, it seemed to me that Paul and all his family members exhibited extraordinary, amazing bravery. Bravery that was fueled by love for one another. I will never forget my cousin Paul, I thought he would always be there, especially since I am the oldest cousin in the group. He is here with me forever now, as a bright light in my heart, mind, and memory.  His exceptional wife Allison, and their very special daughters Taylor, Madison, and Mackenzie will remain in my thoughts and prayers here on earth, a part of the everlasting sunlight Paul will always be.

Paul was a dedicated and loving father. His love for my cousin Allison and the girls was always apparent. He will be missed by all.

I had the pleasure of working with Paul when I started at Chase in June of 2009. He was one of those people you knew was special from your first meeting.  He was the epitome of the family man. Allison, the girls, his mom and siblings...they were his priority in life. Such a selfless man, even as he battled cancer. Some people have a work husband; I had a work brother. He was there to share happy moments and lend a shoulder for the sad ones.  The day he told me I was an honorary Ingrassia meant the world to me, just as he did. I am so thankful for the time I was able to spend with him and his family the last week.  I pray God allows him to be our Guardian Angel. 
Love ya Pauly!
Snook


Paul. Gone too soon. Always willing to help and did so with a smile on his face. I  remember working with Paul as a junior undewriter at WAMU. He was always willing to offer his guidance and share his experience while maintaining that big grin on his face. You will be sadly missed but your legacy lives on. May your soul Rest In Peace and the Lords Perpetual Light continue to shine upon you!!!.

Paul
We met him in oct 2015 and right off the bat Patrick and I could tell he was a great guy being from Brooklyn and all... (Haha) Paul was very easy to get along with. Patrick loved talking to him about baseball and other guy things. He had a kind  heart which was evident around his family.  He was so good with his children. And I always felt safe when my daughter was in his care playing with Madison and Makenzie. He loved his family so much and in the midst of everything that was happening he was worried about Allison and his girls, not himself.  A brave and wonderful man. A great friend. 
Love you Paulie. I owe you an Old Fashioned Donut.  
We will all miss him very much. 

Love Karen, Patrick, Nicholas and Kristin

Kind, funny and caring.  Those are the three words that come to mind as I think about Paul.  It has been years since we all worked together but I’ll always remember those that make an impression on me in a positive way.  You’ll be missed today and tomorrow but your legacy will bless this world through your children and memories.  May God bless you and keep you, rest easy.

Paul was such an example of what we should all be.  I worked with him for several years.  Paul was such a joy to be around.  Such a sweet, funny, caring person from the inside out.  It's hard to find the words good enough for him.  I loved to hear him talk with his New Yorker accent. It was the total opposite of my strong SC  accent.  His name fit him well. We have already missed him at work and he will continue to be missed by all who knew him. He is in a better place and I understand why God would want him; I just wish he could have waited a while longer.  
Allison, my heart goes out to you and your children. I will keep your family in my prayers.  Rest In Peace, Paul. God bless.

Dear Allison, Taylor, Madison & Mackenzie + Aunt Ella, Mark, Gregory, Mary and all their families,
I wanted to tell all of you that my memories of Paulie are wonderful.  We shared fun times together while visiting our families.  Just thinking of cousin Paulie makes me smile.  He gave us all soooo much to love and admire about  him!  He was funny,  easy going and very caring.  My cousin was truly kind hearted.
I remember watching him play w/Kimberly and thinking to myself, how lucky she is  to have a real life "teddy bear" as her uncle! 
Paulie was a great guy and a very special human being!  So glad to have shared a part of his life.   I will hold his memory close to my heart.
Love you always, cousin Paulie                                                  

I have to echo what Anthony said.  Paul spoke with so much love about his family.  He loved his wife and girls so much!  They were a great joy to his life.

I sat next to him for years.  His kindness was disarming.  

Paul you will be missed, but I know your legacy lives on your girls.

I’m so very sorry for the loss of such a great man.  I had the pleasure of working with Paul and Allison at Washington Mutual.   My heartfelt condolences are with Allison, their three beautiful daughters, and all of Paul’s family and friends.    

We are very saddened by the news of Paul’s passing. Our love, support and deepest sympathy goes out to Allison, Taylor and McKenzie, his Mom, siblings and all who knew and loved this wonderful human being. May God Grant Paul Eternal Rest In Heaven.
Love, 
Aunt Jane, Uncle Bill and family

Worked with Paul at Chase. During that time he was always very helpful and always made my day full of laughs. So very sorry for the loss of a wonderful man, father, son, husband!  May he Rest In Peace!  

There are Fathers and Dads
Husbands, and Companions, 
Sons, Brothers, Friends and True Men.
And then, Our PAUL – The True Epitome of them all!
His example of Fatherhood, Companionship, Brotherhood and 
Friendship – OUTSTANDING! 
But to have known the Heart of this Man, Our Paul-that is the blessing
He was so very kind to share with us.

Thank you Ingrassia Family for giving and sharing your blessing with us. 

Anthony and Veronica Ferguson


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Paul Ingrassia

26 septembre 1967 – 22 juin 2018

Hardage-Giddens Funeral Home

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