Dear Weisenfels family,
I have wanted to write this letter for a long time, and finally felt like I have the words to do so. You all do not know me, but I knew Sean and miss him dearly, especially during this time of year. My older sibling was close with Sean in high school. I was a few years younger than Sean, and always looked up to him and would be so excited when he would say hi to me in the halls or sit with me at lunch. Even after they were not in the same friend group, Sean would come over to go on walks or hangout with our family every thanksgiving. I truly loved nothing more than hearing his crazing stories every holiday season, and it is something I dearly miss. The last thanksgiving I spent with Sean he taught my family new fencing skills he learned and showed us his new tattoo. He helped me make a cheese board and talked to me about who I wanted to ask to my next school dance. While it may seem small, it meant a lot to me and I really looked up to Sean. I’ll never forget the way his face lit up when he spoke about his passions. I miss Sean so much during this time of the year. I am so thankful for the time I was able to share with Sean and hope this letter can remind you all how loved he was by so so so many.

A letter to Sean - From Sebass 
Sean,
  Sean was an amazing person and friend. I know my words will never do him justice in regards to the person he was. I could always count on him, regardless of the situation. He made me feel comfortable about sharing my feelings and I hope I was able to reciprocate that environment. I, we lost a wonderful part of our lives and I will never forget Sean.

  I can still hear your laughter, Sean. Your smile filled up the room and my heart. You were one of the few people I could truly nerd out with, be it books, TV shows, video games, Nordic Mythology; we always had something exciting to talk about. I miss our aimless walks through Loose Park where we would talk about our feelings, our problems, or just shoot the breeze.

  You came to me in my dreams and told me everything would be ok and I was able to hug you one last time. I want to believe that your spirit and soul are at peace and that it was really you visiting me in my dreams. I will forever carry your memory on. Ashes to Ashes. Dust to Dust. I will not forget who you were in this world.

  I remember the last time I saw you as I was dropping you off at home. Your final words to me were "I love you, drive safe" and I knew you meant it. I love you too man. I won't stop loving you and I cherish every moment we were able to share together.

  You give me the strength to be a better person and to be there for my friends, just like you were for me and all of your friends. We love and miss you.

  I will see you again someday and I can't wait to hug you again, even if it's decades down the road. You changed my life and I can never thank you enough.

Rest easy buddy. I miss you.

Love, 
Sebastian S.P.

I was so sorry to learn of Sean's death. For several years I taught part time at St. Paul's Episcopal Day School, and I was lucky to twice have Sean in my Creative Reading class (a mash-up of creative writing and book club). I remember him from his middle school days as smart, curious and friendly, with an eclectic range of interests. From these condolences it's clear he was always a reader and a writer.

I found this photo, with Sean at right, on my old class blog. This was near the end of the 2014 spring semester, when students were recording podcasts based on the book we were reading.

May Sean's memory be a blessing to those who knew and loved him, and may he rest in peace.

I just heard about your son's passing and words cannot describe the sadness of this tragedy. My prayers are with you Nip and your family. May God Bless you all.  Nip?  Never forget that you have been an inspiration to so many of us throughout your life... My best to you and your family always!

   Sean and I had been friends since the beginning. We grew up together, and we considered ourselves brothers. We could talk to each other about anything, and both of us would have some sort of wisdom. 
   We would talk about the good times of life. We would talk about the bad times. We would talk about our struggles, and our triumphs. We would talk about why we loved sports, especially playing sports, and all that was going on in life.
   If there were two things that will remind me of Sean, they would be his books, and his friendship
   He could talk to me for hours about his favorite books, their authors, the plots and characters, or it be the comic book side, and that was a whole other topic. We would go into who our favorite super heroes were, and why they would defeat each other, and then talk about what powers we would have, and why they were better than each other’s.
	 Sean’s value of friendship was built on 4 pillars. Loyalty, Love, Respect and Charity. Sean’s loyalty to his family and to his friends was something that never needed to be questioned. The love he showed these people was unconditional. He never held a grudge, and was always quick to forgive, then let go and move on. He respected everyone, whether it be his elders, family, friends or even little kids. He would always tell me it’s amazing what you can learn from little kids. His charity towards me was something I will never forget. He would always offer to pay, give me money and more. His charity knew no bounds.
     Sean was a guy that, just by talking to him, would brighten up your day. He had a great sense of humor, he was witty, he was kind and gentle, but most importantly, he was loving. Didn’t matter who you were, he would always ask how that person was doing and why their day was good or bad. He genuinely cared about others before himself. I’m so sorry for your loss Mr. and Mrs. Weisenfels.

A young Sean would call and ask if he and Brandon could come over and play. The boys would have so much fun: playing video games, laughing, playing. But the lake was their favorite. They’d jump off the dock and swim. When lunch approached we’d grill hot dogs and those boys would eat all the snacks I had. When uncle David got home the ultimate fun would start - tubing! My favorite memory is Sean on the tube doing all his tricks: dancing, spinning, one hand, no hands, whatever he could think of. By the end of the day they’d be scheming for their next visit. We had many wonderful days with Sean and Brandon. Watching them grow in their friendship was priceless. Love, Aunt Christy and Uncle David 



Unfortunately Sheri, Tyler and I didn’t get to visit Kansas City as much as I would have liked but that didn’t stop the bond I shared with Sean. I couldn’t imagine visits with Sean without all of his sarcasm and inquisitive nature. I’m so happy our relationship never shifted regardless of time and space. 

My favorite memory was two years ago when I got to hang with the “guys”. Tyler, Dakota, Sean and I spent the evening talking about life and girls! I’m going to miss attempting to give Sean dating advice with women. I still have no idea why he trusted me in that area lol! Words can’t express how much I will miss him and the smirkish smile he had every time he saw me. I love you Sean, always and forever. 

I’ll never forget the time Sean asked why I was a darker complexion than him he loved me just as much looked up to me just as much but the curiosity in his geniuses brain asked why.. I looked at him and told him I just like tanning beds he was so little I didn’t know what else to say all he did was laugh and smile while looking up at me. I always loved having someone look up to me. I never had a little brother or sister but Sean was the closest to that even though Lindsay, Sheri and I had limited visits I will always remember, love a Cherish my gitty cousin that had to fit 100 words into one sentence. I love you sean. I wish I could of been there more. 

Nip and Tracy! Jamie and I are so saddened by the sudden passing of your son! From the words I read he sounds like an amazing person in all ways and had an incredible love for the military!!  May his memories bring you much joy!! 

Our prayers are with you always!! God bless
Donna and Jamie

Nip, I am so very sorry for you, your wife and family for the heart breaking loss of your son, Sean. Your tribute to him was quite moving and gave those of us who did not know him a glimpse into the life and  character of a young man taken far too early from his loving family.   Jack Isley 

Going through more photos and memories of the holidays. This is an old one but a good one. I loved watching you grow up into a wonderful young man. Everytime I came home you grew another foot!!! 

I only visit home a few times a year for holidays but I always loved coming home and seeing Sean to discuss his college life, love for the military and the gym. He was so excited to ask questions about lifting and my experiences in the military. He made the mistake in asking for a workout routine one time...he never asked me for another routine after that one HA  :-) He truly brought joy into my life. Sean will be dearly missed.  I love you 

The memory that Dallas has of Sean is Christmas Eve and playing bingo! He showed me how to play to Bingo mom! He sat by him at the table and they played together! We will always think of you at Christmas Eve when we play Bingo and it will always be a memory that Dallas and I will have and cherish!  
 We love you! 

Love, 
Dallas and Brittany 

Sean-Bob, I remember the day you were born and the excitement that was in our family! So many memories I can barely put into words all of them.  All the great times we had playing at the lake, playing video games, putting together legos. ( mostly me putting them together while you told me to hurry up and go faster!) I am going to miss your smile and sweet spirit! I love you to pieces! I still won’t forget your serious face when you told me that you were getting to “old” to be called My Sean-Bob! And when I told him he will never be to old for it he just hugged me and smiled! Dallas and I miss you and love you! I have loved watching you grow into that amazing young man! Aunt Tracey and Uncle Nip I love you guys, and wish I could take away the pain! 

I love you! 
Brittany and Dallas

From the first day I met Sean in my early freshman year, I knew we were going to be friends. Having him in ROTC took a lot of stress off of me knowing I had someone I could connect to. We hung out all the time and he connected me to new friends. I wouldn’t change a thing about this amazing man, he always knew what to say and how someone else was feeling. He did everything in this power to make sure everyone was better off then him. Love you, brother. Rest In Peace and my heart goes out to your family.

I will always remember Sean as a brilliant and genuinely kindhearted character. Sean always put other’s comfort before his own and that was a beautiful quality he had. He was my first friend in college, one of those once in a lifetime friends. I will never forget picking each other up and pushing forward time and time again at the peak of exhaustion during ROTC competitions. I’m so thankful for all the memories I have of him. There is so much more I wish I could say, but I cannot  find the words for it. 
Rest easy Sean. 
Nip and Tracey my heart goes out to you.

Sean was one of the hardest working people I’ve ever met. I think what really made him a great person and friend was his willingness to help someone. It never mattered how busy he was or the time of day. He would never turn someone down that he could help in any way. Sean definitely left an impact on my life by being a great role model and friend to everyone he met.

Sean was one of the most caring people I have ever met. Never once did he miss a chance to help someone that needed it. Sean helped me through tough times and made the good times better. The world lost a special person and he will be missed.

Sean and I were like partners in crime at school. We shared countless meaningful talks, memories, and fun times. Sean's generosity was unlike anyone I've met. He would sit down to talk to anyone for as long as it took until that person came away better then before. He had a certain characteristic about him that would make me joyful every time I was with him. He was a true friend. 

Whenever I would hang out with Sean some way, some how, I would end up wearing one of his cowboy hats. This happened so often that on my 19th birthday Sean gifted me the hat that I always wore. This was unlike any gift that I have ever received, in that, there was so much thought put into it. We hung out the rest of the day and night, and yet again, the cowboy hat found its way back to me. 

This was the best memory I have with Sean, and every time I wear the hat I will remember all the good times I shared with him.  I will miss you Sean, but I will always know you will be right here with me!

Nip and Tracey:

I wanted you to know that I have you and your family in my thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time.

Sean was such a memorable member of my advisory group for four years at Pembroke Hill.  As you know better than anyone, there was nothing quite like watching Sean light up when he was excited about a topic, or telling a story about things that he loved.  His hunting stories, in particular, were particularly animated and memorable.  He loved being part of the PHS football and wrestling teams and it was a joy to witness and hear about those experiences, too.

All of us at PHS who knew and loved Sean are sad beyond words at his passing and only hope that these stories and memories will ease your pain ever so slightly over time.

David Burke

Tracey & Nip, 
Oh my gosh! I am so sorry to hear this.  I don’t even know what to say. Tracey, if you ever need to talk, please call me. 


Nip and Tracey, 

We are devastated and at a loss for words upon hearing the news of Sean's passing. Our hearts are broken for you both and your family. 

Sean spent many nights at and countless hours at our house with Brandon and Brandon at your house with Sean. We enjoyed having Sean over and loved him like a son. Janet and I will always remember all the laughter coming from Brandon's room when the two of them were together!

Sean  had a brilliant mind and could hold a conversation with anyone in the room. He was always so polite and respectful  and we enjoyed conversing with him. Sean was so good with Brandon's nieces and nephew and they looked forward to seeing him if they were here when Sean came over. Brandon's brother and sister always enjoyed seeing Sean and are missing him as well.

We are grateful for the close friendship Brandon had with Sean and we are also so grateful for the memories given to us by your son. Sean was a very loyal friend. Though to short, we will always cherish the time we had with Sean.

With our love and deepest sympathy,

David, Janet and Brandon Talbert 



Nip and Tracey, 
It was devastating to hear news of Sean's passing. He had been a part of our lives since he and Brandon were introduced as infants through Brittany and Tiffany's friendship. Little did we know at that time they would have a friendship that would last for 20 years! We have so many memories of the two of them. Play dates, birthday parties,  sleepovers,  lake fun at Aunt Christie's, and many outings. Then came the time when they didn't need a chauffeur anymore but could drive themselves to get together. It never mattered how much time went by, they just picked up where they left off and had the best time.  
We will miss Sean greatly! He was a great friend to Brandon and an extended party of our family. Brandon's siblings always enjoyed seeing him and catching up. 
We love you guys and will continue to pray for you both and your family.
Janet Talbert

I’ll remember Sean as an extremely kind and genuine person. When I managed the football team, he would always run over and grab the water coolers from me when I struggled to carry them. Sean never failed to make me smile, even after our team lost, with a well-timed joke or a compliment about how the video footage looked. I got to know him better in theatre classes, during which he was never afraid to take risks and be vulnerable in order to get a laugh—it was rare and magical. Sean was a fantastic friend and a gentle soul, and I will miss him dearly.

Melinda (Shinn) Yearry

Tracey, I’m so thankful that our Shinn family has known you and your (Wallace) family since growing up together in what was then the new Gladstone neighborhood of Northhaven back in the 1960’s. I treasure so many happy memories with your whole band of sisters and that other crazy neighbor of ours, Valerre, and I’m so grateful that we still get together (after 50+ years) every year for our crazy Girls Weekend to laugh (at and with) and refresh each other. I only met Sean a couple of times but remember that you and your sisters would always talk so lovingly and thoughtfully about him whenever we got together.  I remember we were having lunch at your house and Sean taught us how to play his video games. We certainly weren’t as good as he was, but he was still willing to take the time to try and teach us and not laugh too hard at how really uncoordinated we were. I especially remember his smile and laugh and fun-loving manner. 

To Nip, Tracey and the entire Wallace family, I’m so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you all and you will continue to be in our family’s thoughts and prayers. 

I will always remember Sean as an intuitive and determined person who treated everyone with kindness and respect. Conversations with him were always interesting as he could vividly explain things, especially about history and nature, that I had never even heard of. During our football workouts, he always went out of his way to encourage his teammates and made sure everyone was happy and excited. I cherish the time I spent with him at school and on the football field. Sean will be dearly missed, but the positive impact he made on our lives will last forever. 

I've known Sean's mom, Tracey, since we were little girls growing up in Gladstone and I've gone back to Kansas City often since I moved away in 1972, so I got to watch Tracey grow up, marry Nip and then be blessed with Sean.  I remember the times I would go to Tracey's house to spend time with her sisters and childhood friends and Sean would entice us with his Wii and Guitar Hero and other games on his computer.  One time, he was showing me how to do Wii tennis and apparently I was swinging my arms like a banshee and clocked Sean in the head with the control.  After the initial shock and tears, he was still willing to play with me, but we played safer games after that!  

We also had fun playing tag in the pool in their old house and he was always such a delight to be around.  Even when he got to be a teenager and didn't think his mom's friends were "cool" anymore, he was still polite and sweet to all of us.  I feel lucky to have spent the time with him that I did and will always cherish those memories.  To Tracey and Nip, my heart is with you.

My best memory with Sean came when we were roommates during a football camp at University of Saint Mary’s in Leavenworth our senior year of high school. Sean and I were roommates with 2 freshmen because the goal was to pair up 2 seniors with 2 freshmen. That night, Sean, myself and those 2 freshmen stayed up way later than we should have because we had practice early in the morning. All night long we talked to the freshmen about high school and what to expect. They were obviously nervous at first about being freshmen, but I could tell that Sean and my conversations with them eased their minds and even excited them about what was to come. It was clear both Sean and I relished showing the younger guys the ropes. It was a great night and a great weekend.

Mr. and Mrs. Weisenfels,
I was so sorry to hear about Sean today.  I have been thinking about all the great times we had coaching him in wrestling.  I wanted to express my deepest sympathies and am praying for you.
Love,
Coach Todd Harris

When Sean was little, Brandi, Nicole and I would go over to hang out with him, We would play a chase game around the air hockey table in the basement. 
We all would run around the table as Sadie (Rottweiler) would chase us. 
Sean would stop in his tracks, twist his body and hold his arm straight out (stiff). Sadie would run up, mouth wide open, and put his entire mouth around Sean’s forearm.  Sadie was so careful not to make a mark on Sean. It was a game those 2 played all the time.  
His dogs loved him too.
I Love ❤️ and miss you my sweet Sean
Aunt Karla (aka - Tarla to him)

We did not know Sean personally but he was obviously a strong, wonderful son.  I am praying for you both as you work through this terrible time.  Nip you have always been a great friend and I would add your Webster family of high school buddies will share your grief .  Remember the good times with Sean.  God Bless   GREG MARECEK

Tracy and Nip:
Barb and I are sincerely sorry for your loss of Sean.  There are times when we need the support of our friends.  Barb and I are here for you, and you are in our prayers.  God bless you.
Reid & Barb Teaney

Absolutely devastating. What a great and big hearted young man. Life is just so much harder for some of us, no matter our intelligence, good looks or eagerness to please. In fact, sometimes that can make it all the harder. I know how much you all dearly loved each other and that is what really matters.
You have our prayers and deepest of sympathies.


Tracy and Nip,
      The entire Burns family would like to express our most heartfelt sympathy. We recall the excitement the day Sean was born. We cherish the times when  we had the opportunity to visit with Sean. God bless all of you!


I will remember Sean as the kind-hearted, curious, determined, and always-authentic person he was in my classroom. Sean is, was, and will always be special to those who taught him. He  will be so deeply missed. 

My heart goes out to your family.

Kim Banion

Sean is a student I will never forget. The way he talked about his writing, the way he wrote, the way he was completely earnest 100% of the time you were communicating. Please know he will be lovingly remembered by the people who taught him.

Tracy and Nip,  we are deeply saddened by the news of Sean’s passing.  Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with your family.  
Love, Joe, Misty, Masen and Phoebe 

I am so sorry to hear of Sean's passing and I know this news will weigh heavy on many in the Pembroke Hill community.  
Please accept my heartfelt condolences.
Sara Prince

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Sean Macrorie Weisenfels

8 février 2000 – 13 juin 2020

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