Betty Jo Hammock Miller

Betty Jo Miller, nee Hammock, beloved wife of the late Harry "Bud" Franklin Miller; devoted mother of Bud (Nicole) Miller, Sharri (Darrin) Hane and Ron (Megan) Miller; cherished grandmother of Joshua, Ava, Zachary, Gabe, Keira, Peter, Giana & Kayla; dear sister, aunt and friend of many. Memorial Visitation Sunday, December 9, 2012 from 2:00 pm until time of Memorial Service at 4:00 pm at Blake-Lamb Funeral Home, 5015 Lincoln Ave., Lisle (on Rt. 53, ½ mile south of Ogden Ave. / Rt. 34). For additional information, call the funeral home at 630-964-9392.

If anyone ever cared, really cared for someone else it would have to be Betty Jo Miller. She was a warm hearted and well liked individual, and these wonderful traits came easily to her because she was such a sociable and amiable person, someone who was always making certain that those around her had whatever they needed. Betty was a talkative person who was tactful at all times but typically said what she meant.

She was the daughter of Pierce and Cora Hammock. Betty was born in East Bernstadt and raised in Kentucky. During her childhood she learned to be reliable and respectful. Betty was an obedient child who wanted to win the favor of others. She found it easy to show sympathy and to perform kind acts for others. These admirable qualities would become a part of Betty's personality throughout her life.

Though Betty was frequently the one to initiate games and activities with her family, she was also quite often the family member who took the role of referee. Betty was a peace-maker with an ability to resolve all sorts of family conflicts. In fact, Betty worked conscientiously to keep those typical family spats at bay. Betty was raised with 6 siblings. Betty and her siblings had the typical rivalries while growing up, but they cared deeply for one another.

Betty was a faithful and loving person. Some would even call her sentimental and a romantic at heart. Her kindness and consideration radiated an aura of warmth to those around her. Betty cared for what others thought and carried that into her marriage. Betty found true love and married Harry Franklin "Bud" Miller on May 7, 1972. Compassionate and devoted, Betty worked hard to make her new life partner happy.

Harmony was important to Betty and she made every effort to maintain it with her family. Betty was blessed with three children, one daughter Sharri, and two sons, Ron and Bud. Betty Jo was also blessed with eight grandchildren: Joshua, Ava, Zachary, Gabe, Keira, Peter, Giana, and Kayla. Betty was always conscious of the feelings others had. She was reasonable and understanding. As a result, Betty was quick to solve disputes and did so without much fuss. Her secret of success in this area was simple: Betty Jo would listen before she would act.

Taking her work seriously came naturally to Betty, and she expected the same from those around her. Betty was a good team player, someone who was born to cooperate with others. She was what some would call a “people person” and it was demonstrated in her good communication skills. Betty was a steady worker, one who was realistic about schedules. The kind of details that would give family members and work colleagues fits were situations that Betty handled well. She could understand the details without getting lost in the broad “big picture.” Betty Jo became well known at Granny's Restaurant in Lisle, Illinois, serving there for many years. She brought harmony to her work environment, doing what was necessary in order to get the job done, while always maintaining respect for her colleagues.

Betty passed away on December 4, 2012 at Edward Hospital in Naperville, Illinois, after fighting a brave battle against cancer. She is survived by her children and grandchildren. Betty Jo was a fantastic conversationalist who could engage just about anyone in a discussion. And whenever she said something, she meant it. Betty was a down to earth person, outgoing and gregarious. She was without question the type of person who enjoyed experiencing things first hand. She was practical and sensible, but what friends and family will remember her for most is the fact that she was so understanding and kind. Everyone whose life she touched will miss Betty Jo Miller.