Muriel Stoller Goldberg

Muriel Stoller Goldberg, aka Mom, Nana, Great Big Nana, died on July 13, 2022, just shy of her 96th birthday. Muriel was born on August 22, 1926 in New York, New York to Abraham Stoller and Flora (Freedman) Stoller. Being a true Leo, she was a vivacious and compassionate person. Muriel is predeceased by her first love/husband, Dr. Norman Stoller, and her husband, Howard Goldberg. She is survived by her brother, Dr. Julius Stoller, and predeceased by her brother, Montague Stoller.

Although born in New York, Muriel spent her early childhood in Glasgow, Scotland with her family. It was there she developed her charming accent, cheeky wit, and love for strong black tea. In July of 1940, due to WWII and threat to those of Jewish heritage, dual citizen Muriel was sent – by herself – to the Bronx, New York to live with relatives whom she had never met. The adjustment to life in NYC was not easy, coping with frequent telegrams that would arrive after a raid, stating her family was safe. It was not all bad though, because at 15, she met the love of her life, Norman Stoller. Lovebirds Norman and Muriel had the same last name (Stoller) and got each other's mail! Yes – her married and maiden name were the same! After five long years of separation, Muriel’s family chose to have her return home despite the dangers. She sailed back, and although her convoy was torpedoed, she eventually made it back to Giffnock in Glasgow. The family was reunited, but Muriel’s heart longed for the boy across the pond. Love won the battle and the two were married at the age of 20 in Scotland.

Muriel began her married life in NYC, and while her husband was studying to be a surgeon, she worked as an artist before she had her three children. Muriel is survived by her children Jonathan Scott Stoller and Elizabeth Ann (Stoller) Facey, and predeceased by Daniel Ian Stoller. Muriel was widowed at the age of 37. Raising her children was a priority, and Muriel believed in the value of education. She educated her three children, and, in addition, she herself graduated college with a Bachelors of Fine Arts from Kean University in 1976.

Muriel defined herself as an artist who dabbled in all mediums including painting, sewing, and music. Her strong work ethic, love of art and passion for music was passed down to her children and grandchildren in one form or another. Muriel will be dearly missed by her grandchildren Korey and his wife Cristin, Aidan, James, Hannah and her husband Paxton, and her favorite, Jacob. Her legacy continues with her great-grandchildren Marley and “wee” Julius. She leaves many nieces and nephews in Vancouver, London, and New York who contributed so much to the quality of her life and her rich history.

Muriel was a force when she walked into a room. She was beautiful, intelligent, and commanded an audience while engaged in conversations and telling her stories. She was kind, funny, and an atypical woman of her generation. She was a proud feminist and pushed her female friends and family to break down barriers and stand up for what they believe in. Muriel made sure to pass down Jewish cultural traditions to her family, however the tragedies she experienced in life made her understand the importance of finding love regardless of religion, ethnic background, or color. Muriel was optimistic about the future and urged future generations to stay involved and informed.

A graveside service will take place at Sharon Gardens (A part of Kensico Cemetery 273 Lakeview Avenue Valhalla, NY) on July 29, 2022 at 10:30 AM. Please meet at the cemetery office 10:15 AM. A celebration of her life will take place later in the year. Muriel was always one of the first to step up to help her family and friends. Suffering of others, especially children, hit her hard. In lieu of flowers or food, donations can be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital. Alternatively, create something to make the world more beautiful, speak your mind and/or have a strong cup of tea (or two) in honor of our favorite Scotsman.