Best grandma in the whole world 
I love you 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😚😚😚😘😘😚☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️💐💐💐💐💐🌸🌸🌸🌺🌺🌺🌻🌹🌈🌈🌈

I miss you so much. I still think about you and remember all the things we used to do. Today I was watching flea market flip and remembered how you used to love watching that show over and over. I sometimes listen to Patsy Cline and remember we used to listen to it in your car all the time.  I love you always and forever 
-Cosita Mosa 💜

3 years💔. I never thought I’d make it through the first days without you . Learning to live without you is what it has become. Some days harder then others . But the pain of your absence is what remains the same.  I love and miss you mommy and your grandkids love and miss you too. Memories and stories told of you between us  is what keeps you alive , we cherish those and hold on tight to them . Remembering what a wonderful mother and grandma you were is something I’ll always be thankful for. 
I love you always!  Love Michelle 

One year ago today we laid you to rest. 
Still hard to believe some days. 
I think of you daily 
I miss you always 
I’ll love you forever . ♥️



I miss you the most on family celebrations.
Today we celebrate Geebee ♥️
Your sisters are here. I hope you’re smiling in heaven.  
You are always in my thoughts and live in my heart forever. 
I love you mommy! 

So we celebrated the last of my babies birthday yesterday.  Never thought I would have to do these birthdays with out you.  I’m grateful for the birthdays we did have with you.  We surely missed your physical presence but I know you were there in spirit❤️ 👼. Grandpa did his very best gift givings at each birthday and I know you’re proud of that.  
We miss you  and we will continue to cherish your love and our memories of you .   You are never far from my thoughts and In my heart you’ll Always be  until we meet again♥️
I love you !

My Annelise had a tummy ache , she went to sleep whining because it hurt, and she woke up the next morning still with that pain. All I could remember is the time Gabby (your cosita mosa) spent the night at your house and she had that same stomach pain and you urged me to take Gabby to the doctor. She ended up having appendicitis, no one believed it. But You Did. You saved my baby that day. So with this experience you taught me I knew I had to take my little Annelise to the doctor, I could hear you in my mind telling me to take  Annelise to the doctor, if you were here you’d tell me to go just to be safe. So I did, I spent all day running to different doctors offices and it turned out , this little baby had appendicitis too. As she was to be wheeled in to surgery, I asked God to watch over my baby , I also asked you Mommy to watch over my baby. Surgery went well but I’m sure you know that , I know you were there protecting my baby. Our Guardian Angel 👼. I miss you very much and it’s still so difficult without you, I love you and I’ll forever keep you in my heart ♥️ .

I think about you everyday and I Miss You  so much.  I love you Mommy ❤️

I miss hearing you call me cosita mosa and you texting me good night. I love you grandma 

The El Toreo menu in my car so we knew which day the buffets were at which places...
Empty coffee cups..,
Throwing out the Sweet N Low I kept here just for you....
Miss you 💔

 1- Josie, Our daughters became friends.  So I guess it was destiny we’d become friends too.  My Jenn attached to your Michelle and was just like her lil sis.  You would let her stay there a lot and when you made dinner she’d have to eat whatever you gave her.  One time you told me she ate meat and I was shocked you got her to do that. You loved that!  Lol!  She came home an hour later still chewing that meat!  Sometimes when you had left over products you would do Jenns hair.  Sometimes she came home with a perm, bangs cut, etc...I never knew!  You know Jenn thought of you like another mother.She learned so much about hair and make up from you and Michelle. Thank goodness because I thought I was doing well giving Jenn that “pebbles flinstone” look.  Haha!  And with Jenn having a curly haired blonde daughter, she loves doing her hair.   We’d talk a lot on the phone and bitch about our husbands and brag about our kids and talk about our hopes and dreams.  You had grandkids come along about that same time at 39 I had a surprise baby.  You had my baby shower for me.  You would bring me meals after work just for me to feed my preggo belly and I loved that! You gave Alyson her first scrambled eggs.  Whenever we went past your house to get the mail she’d alwsys pull me towards your house. I have lost so much of my life history without you.  I miss not being able to talk to you.  One day I found out you got a lil dog, Buster.  I was in shock!! You didn’t like dogs.  You hated mine.  You’d come in and curse them in Spanish!  Lol!  My dog Holly fell in love with just the scent of Buster.  The last year you redid your home and worked so hard on it.  You came to the front of my home with Buster.  My Dog kept trying to get him.  Before long Buster was swinging around on the leash like a Disney ride.  We’d always laugh at that memory.  Hard!  You taught me some meals and I made abondiga soup in your memory.  But the bottom of the rice burned!  Was that you? Soup was good.  😇💐

2. I couldn’t wait to show you new pictures.  Things I’d bought for my home.  Very often you’d switch things around to the way you liked it. Josie, not too long ago I told you I’d seen you go through many things over 32 years but only saw you cry twice. You said when you got cancer? And it was true.  I realized then how much you cared for me.  You were not mushy or gushy but I decided last year I would tell you I loved you. At first you just said okay.  But by the end you said it back to me.  You hated when the days got short and the night long.  I find myself really missing you during these long nights.  It has been so hard to lose you.  You were so strong.  You were supposed to outlive me!  You are the first close friend I’ve lost. It’s hard letting you go. Josie, your family did a beautiful job on your funeral as I knew they would.I think you would of loved it all. Heinz made sure all your wishes were fulfilled but I knew he would. He’s always been so loving and kind to you and so have the kids. Angels on your coffin. You would love them.  Hardest part was seeing and feeling the pain on your loved ones faces.  That was hard to take. I wished there was something I could do.  I hope they know i’ll Always be there for any of them if needed...as I close this with a lyric...I love you Josie!  See you when I get there and we shall share many things...💖 I’ve seen fire & I’ve seen rain.  I’ve seen sunny days that I thought would never end.  I’ve seen lonely times when I could not find a friend.  But I always thought that I’d see you again.  God bless you in heaven and watch down over us.

I miss my grandma. I loved her pancakes they were so yummy in my tummy.  Eating ice with her was so much fun we would sit on the black chair and munch on ice. I remember one time we went to eat and I had so much fun. I love you with all my heart. 
Love Annelise 

“I love my Grandma so much”
“I miss my grandma”
“My grandmas pancakes were yummy”
“My grandma is in heaven”
Love,
GeeBee

Josie I’m sorry it’s taken me this long to write to you, Oh where do I begin. Today we laid you to rest. I’m still trying to process the fact that you are no longer here, deep down I always felt that you could get through anything. I will always hold a special place in my heart for you Josie. 
From the first time I met you in 2001 I knew I was going to have to work extra hard to impress you and get your stamp of approval. As the years went on  I can genuinely say that my respect for you turned into a special love and respect for you . I will never forget the words you said to me on December 13th Josie, I waited 17 years to hear those words and to me that was the ultimate APPROVAL from a special angel. I want you to know that I love you and that I will always be here for your girls so please do not worry, I will not let you down. I will forever remind Genevieve what a special person you were and that you will forever look over her and all your loved ones, you live on through Thea, Michelle, Priscilla, Giselle, Cosita, Annalise, Micheal and Genevieve. I know you will be watching closely from up above. RIP BEAUTIFUL JOSIE! Forever in our hearts! 

Josie, know that you instilled many values in me and always felt in my heart that you cared for me so. You were strong yet gentle with a smile that would warm anyone’s heart. Again, Thank you for being there for me when I knew no better, young and defenseless. I’ll miss you forever.. I’ll see you again. I’ve always treasured this picture because it truly showed the love you also had for my son. Taken December 26, 1984. Xoxo 

Eye spy with my little eye my grandma who loved me so much. My grandma who helped raise me and made me the person I am today. My grandma who gave me my beautiful mother. My grandma who babied and defended me. My grandma who took care of me so my mom could achieve more. My grandma who took me everywhere, and called me all the time. My grandma who was more than a grandma, but now a guardian angel like she talked about. I cannot believe you’ve been taken away from me. I’m so angry. I cannot help but feel like my life is ruined without you. I will never be the same. You went through so much to be with us, and it kills me that you didn’t get what you want. All I can do is take care of my memory of you. Continue everything you taught me and care for cousins, grandpa, aunt, sister, and mommy for you. I will never let you be forgotten.  We will keep your memory alive. Thank you for everything you’ve done for me. I would do anything for you to be here with us still. I miss you so much it hurts. I hope I get to be with you again someday. 

I love you so much. 

Priscilla 

My mom , my beautiful mom,  was an amazing woman . She taught us love, kindness , compassion , and respect in all aspects . She knew our worth and was determined for us to know it too. She always put our Family first.  I wouldn’t be where I am today if it wasn’t for my mom. She sacrificed her time so I can follow my dreams. She was a great mother and a wonderful grandmother. She loved us, but the love she had for her grandchildren was even greater. She was always there, and made up for the times that I couldn’t be there.  She was their real life guardian Angel . 
All my mom ever wanted was to be surrounded by her family. When she got sick it was the only thing that made her feel better, she called her grandchildren her “medicine”.
So strong and so brave, I called my mom “the strongest woman in the world “ she fought all her life and overcame many obstacles . When she got sick her strong will kept her going, she just wanted to live for her family.  Even though she is gone , her love and strength will continue to live within us. 
I love you mommy, thank you for your Love, a beautiful home , a lifetime of memories.  My heart is forever broken,  my fear is that you didn’t know how much I loved you . I hope you can feel how much you are loved and how much you will be missed.  Your presence has been so profound , I see you in my Priscilla and my Genevieve.  I know you will continue to love and protect us. 
My mom , my beautiful mom, our angel,
I love you


I have so many memories of you; I remember coming over as a child and watching you cut and dye the girl's hair. I remember countless holidays you and uncle Heinz hosted and how you always had so many beautiful decorations. You were always there to watch me if my parents worked late. Thank you so much for welcoming Rachel into your home on thanksgiving, I can still remember your smile from that night and how happy you were with your family. You were like a second mother to me growing up and your daughters were my sisters. I will always remember and appreciate everything you’ve done for me. Rest In Peace.

Your nephew 
Robert

My grandma would scratch my back until I fell sleep I loved it so much.  When my grandma used to cut my hair I loved it so much more than just a regular barber plus my hair would look much nicer. I also remember one time when I was going to eat my hamburger  it was too big for my mouth and grandma smashed it down and said here eat it I laughed so hard after she did that. My grandma is the best grandma ever I love her so so much. I miss you a lot. 

I love you my beautiful mother and how I miss you.  How I long for more moments with you . I’ll always remember your strength in everything you did. You were determined to live for us. You fought mommy , until the very end you fought.  I wished for a miracle but it did not happen , instead I find myself feeling robbed of my mother and my children robbed of their grandma.  Thank you for being the best Mom, Thank you for Loving me through everything and especially at the times when I wasn’t very lovable . I hope My children see me as a fraction of the mother you were to me.
As a grandmother you were above them all , giving the kids so much love & affection . Thank you for helping me raise my babies. I am trying to find comfort in knowing that you are in heaven watching over us now, but it’s been so difficult without you! I pray that you’ve found your mother in heaven and you were able to heal that broken piece of your heart. Just as I hope mine will heal when we meet again. 
❤️I love you❤️             Love, Michelle 
                                     
                                                   

What! Why! Heartbroken  were my mere words of comprehension when hearing of your loss Josie. You and Heinz were my saviors!  As a  teenager when one day, I came home from school only to find an empty apartment,  my mother had moved  abandoning me with no family or place to go. You took me in as your OWN with love, compassion  and empathy until I was able to survive on my own. I want you know that everyone that has ever touched my life knew about you! You were my living ANGEL throughout my life and will continue and will always continue to be so in spirit. Because of you I have hundreds of framed pictures. You instilled family values in me through the love for your daughters and beautiful being husband Heinz. I thank you for teaching and giving  me the tools emotionally that I would one day need in my life to succeed  but most importantly to know the value of love of any child especially your own. I will forever continue to love you as for I know my friend that we will meet again.  I love you Josie, my forever angel.
I love you Heinz, Thea and Michelle 

I love you so much grandma. You have been there for me since I was born. There are so many things I wish I could tell you, and so many things I wish you could see. But, I know you’ll be watching over us in heaven. You will be our guardian angel. You’ll see all the amazing things everyone has done to make you proud. I couldn’t have asked for a better person to be my grandma. You loved every one of your grandkids more than anything. You always brought joy and laughter with you wherever you went. I will miss the way you laugh, it was such a sweet sound that made everyone else laugh. You always spoke your mind, no matter who it was to, and I admired that. I have learned so many things and so many lessons from you, and I can never thank you enough for everything you did for me. Thank you grandma, for always being there and loving me even when I didn’t deserve it. Thank you for always caring for me and spoiling me. You had so much love to give to us and I appreciate every moment of it. Things are going to be hard without you, but all the love you left behind will get us through it. You were so strong and deserved more than what life gave you. I hope you know that you are to best grandma in the world. There isn’t anyone in the universe like you, grandma. No one could ever come close to you. I am so grateful and so blessed to have had you as my grandma. I love you to the heavens!! 

Oh how I'll miss my beautiful, compassionate, witty friend Josie.  She cared about everyone, talked non stop about her husband, her gorgeous girls and growing family, some who would become regulars at my annual Barn Party. I loved watching the grandkids grow with proud Josie and Heinz beaming close by. Love just poured from Josie. Even when she hurt or wasnt having the best of days she'd try to turn the conversation to  be about you.
Near the end (but I didnt know it was) we were on the phone laughing and talking about how Heinz was the most fabulous man she could ever be blessed with.  Made me smile. She loved her family so much... and her lil dog.
She made their home like a continuous party....celebrating everything! Decorating, caring, sharing....love.
We all are blessed to have had her in our lives. God has his hands full now!😇
Keeping her comfortable, busy being a new Angel  and in  eternal peace...until we meet again my sweet friend. I will never forget you Josie♡Lin

My grandma was the best grandma any kid could have I’m lucky she’s my grandma. She taught  me many things growing up and I appreciate everything she has done for me. She was the most loving, caring, crazy, funny and kindest grandma ever. She spoiled each and everyone of her grandkids with lots of love, hugs, and kisses. She loved when we went over her house and spent the night. When we went over we watched her favorite shows with her or watched a movie while cuddling with a warm blanket on the couch. Grandma always made sure we weren’t hungry she fed us until our stomach was about to explode and her food was so good. On the weekends she would take us to far places and I’d have so much fun I loved going shopping with her. Every time we went shopping me and grandma would go straight to the  clearance  rack and get the best deals! My grandma would call me almost everynight or text me to say good night and when I would forget to text her or call her she’d get so upset but when I did call her or text her she was so happy. When staying at grandma’s she would love to go on walks but as a kid me and my siblings didn’t like to walk so we would always argue who had to walk with grandma if not she would just make us all go but the walks were always so much fun. It’s been hard without you grandma but I think about the fun times we shared like when we laughed or our happy times together once I remember those things I smile because I’ll have those memories in my heart forever. I think about the times we had just talking on the couch eating snacks or when we would gossip. I also remember how much you love me and I know you love me more than I will ever know . I love you a lot grandma and I know you’re watching me up from heaven you will forever stay in my heart I love you so much grandma.💞

Oh Aunty Josie, Idk if I could say all the love and memories in just 2000 characters....but I’ll start somewhere....
You were always a second mom to me. I hope you knew that. There’s been several times in the past couple wks that I’ve realized how much of an impression you left in my life. I will think of you always with those certain things and smile. I know you’ll stay with me as I continue to try to learn my crazy kids hair. I really wish we would have had more time in Nov to just chat and do the “norm”. But I’m grateful that you made it a point to come to Olivia’s party, sick and all. I won’t ever forget that. 
My prayers will continue for your family. I know they feel the huge loss. We will *always* keep your memory alive esp with the things that you loved most! 
Love you much! Xoxo

Friends are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly...Author: unknown 

What is a friend?  Someone who truly cares for you without wanting anything in return that was my friend Josie.  She had a zeal for life in spite of her health difficulties that  gave me hope on how to deal with my own health problems. I admired  her strength, her positive attitude, her love of family, and love for her friends.  She loved to talk about her grandchildren and her beautiful daughters.  She truly loved her family.  She was the most talented woman I ever met…she had an eye for beauty.  Every time we spoke she was able to give me hope and great advice. I always made her laugh with my boys antics and my family stories.  I will never forget her laugh…it was infectious.   I am so sorry and sad that she is no longer with us. I    will miss her.  I am praying for comfort for he husband, Heinz,  who I truly admire because he never left her side and was always there for her.  I am also praying for God’s comfort for Thea, Michelle, all her grandchildren, and all her family.  Josie, my friend, we are grieving your loss, but we know that God has you in a place were there is no more pain, no more illness, and no more tears.  You are in perfect peace and in perfect health.  We will miss you my sweet friend until we  meet again-Love, Vivian Cone

Revelation 21:4

“And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain...”






My dear beautiful aunt, you will be deeply missed. I will miss our conversations filled with stories and laughter. 

Your legacy and strenght will always continue beyond the horizons.

You are my grasshopper, the inner voice that remains with me in good luck.

Always missed but never forgotten.

I love you!

My dear friend, Dear Josie,
One morning I woke up and my eyes and face are full of tears,, I felt emptiness and heartache,
I was confused , what happened, then it came to me ,I lost Josie, my friend  and confidant . They say that heart feels no pain that is wrong, it hurts a lot.
I do not have the words to express the sadness  I feel by loosing my friend Josie.
God Must have been in need of good people to help him i Heaven , and Josie readily helped him with decorations. She was a perfect interior decorator , her house always looked ready for celebration.. At Christmas her house was like Magic land . Four Christmas trees adorned her house from the top of the stairs , one after another to the living room.
She was a happy grandmother ,she loved them very much, and had pictures of them ready to show.. Josie and her husband Heinz were devoted  to each other, and showed love and devotion every day in every way. Heinz spent the month with Josie in the Hospital, slept on the chair, and would not leave her alone for a minute. "Is that love or what"
As for me  I will miss my friend a lot. Josie never forgot  our birthdays, she called on every occasion,fathers day, mothers day, Christmas, Thanksgiving day, Easter, and any other occasion,phone rings and it is Josie first to call. I will miss those phone calls.
Josie was beautiful inside and out, she had a heart of Gold, generous and  unselfish love for everyone.
Dear Josie , pray for us. We will see you soon. We will be together in God's Home
May God give you rest you so much deserve.But I know you, you will not rest in Heaven, you will like  Little Flower St. Theresa spend your Heaven spreading  good on Earth. I expect to see you in every person  I meet.
I love you Josie my friend.
Puline 





Where to start... Josie has a heart of the purest golds. She opened her house and arms to me when I didn’t even realize how much I needed it. Every time I saw her we would laugh together. She had such an infectious laugh and brighter smile! She always made me feel loved and included. Even when i didn’t deserve it. She taught me compassion. I will keep the memories close to my heart. She was such a beautiful soul. She lived  for her family. She was incredibly loved and loved selflessly. I am grateful for the memories and my heart goes out to all of you. ❤️❤️❤️

I remember when I was little me and grandma would walk down to the school and see Giselle playing and we would talk to her though the fence. When I got older grandma would go to the fence still and see me and Giselle at recess. She would always go on walks and she would make me go on them with her even when I didn’t want to. I enjoyed these walks a lot because we would gossip and find golf balls or recycling cans. -love gabby 

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Josefina Valdez Buchler

1 septembre 1954 – 15 janvier 2019

Eternal Valley Memorial Park & Mortuary

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