Howard M. Miller

Howard Miller passed away peacefully on March 19, 2026, he was 74 years old. He will be remembered as a devoted father, a cherished family member, an accomplished Bridge and Basketball Player, and a respected legal advocate whose compassion and integrity touched many lives.

Born in Brooklyn, New York, and raised in West Hempstead, Long Island, Howard had a passion for basketball. At West Hempstead High School, he became an All–Nassau County Basketball Player and was second at the school’s all-time points upon graduation. His remarkable skill attracted the attention of top college coaches, among them Lefty Driesell and Digger Phelps, who visited his home during the recruitment process. Lifelong medical challenges ultimately prevented him from playing at the level he once seemed destined for, Howard’s love for the game never faded. He continued to play whenever he could and later found joy in coaching his son Nate, and for his niece Melissa and nephew Matt.

Howard went on to graduate from the College of William & Mary, where he met his wife, Francis Miller. He later earned his law degree from the University of Richmond School of Law. Settling in the Tidewater area of Virginia, Howard co-founded the law firm Miller & Marx, building a respected practice in family and criminal law.

His commitment to public service was profound. Howard served as President of the Tidewater Legal Aid Society and was a two-time recipient of the Pro Bono Award from the Norfolk–Portsmouth Bar Association, a testament to his deep sense of responsibility toward those in need of legal support.

Outside the courtroom, Howard pursued another lifelong passion: bridge. His dedication, sharp strategic mind, and competitive spirit earned him recognition as a Diamond Life Master, one of the esteemed ranks in the game. Among his proudest achievements was winning a national pairs bridge title with Richard DePaulo, a highlight that reflected both his skill and his love of the challenge the game offered.

Howard was predeceased by his wife, Francis Miller, and parents Harold and Florence Miller.

He is survived by his devoted son, Nathaniel Miller. He also leaves behind his brother, Dr. Norman Miller, and Norman’s wife, Gail Miller; his niece, Melissa Miller, and her husband, Seth Lonsk; and his nephew, Matthew Miller and his wife Jennifer. To his family, friends, colleagues, and all who were touched by his kindness, Howard’s memory will remain a source of warmth, inspiration, and enduring affection.

Graveside funeral services will be held at 11 AM on Sunday, March 22, at the King David Section of the Woodlawn Cemetery. Donations can be made to the charity of your choice