

In his quest for a better life he migrated to the Bahamas, in his early twenties where he learnt his trade under the mentorship of his two older brothers affectionately called Plum and Slim. Our Dad was self- motivated and ambitious he always wanted to do better for himself, so he also travelled to other Caribbean Islands such as US Virgin Island and Guyana for additional job opportunities.
In the early 1970s, he later migrated to the United States and settled in Chicago, Illinois to achieve to his goals. While there, he became a master cement finisher and a union member with the Cement Mason Union for over 40 years. Our Dad’s work ethics was equal to none. Even after retirement he continued to work as an entrepreneur in and around the Chicago area up until recent months.
When I think of our Dad the first phrase that comes to mind is “Mr. Independent”. If you were lazy you could not be his friend. He was a self-starter, self-sufficient, self-reliant man who competently managed his own affairs independent of others for most of his life.
Our Dad had a few hobbies; I must agree he had a green thumb. He looked forward to his summer-time catch crops and a well-manicured lawn, not a blade of grass was out of place. His favorite restaurant was Red Lobster and there he would order the same meal every time, without looking at the menu. We would often humor his order and wondered why he would go to a predominant seafood place to order steak; but that was Dad he knew just what he wanted. His favorite past-time was watching wrestling. If he was out, he would be sure to be home on time for his show.
He loved visiting his family in Florida and looked forward to his steamed fish, Jamaican patties and soups of any kind. His neighbors in Chicago always looked forward to the detailed updates from his trips.
He was not an avid church goer, but had strong faith that when he prayed and asked the “Good Lord” as he referred to him for anything, it was granted. The last five weeks of our Dad’s life was a very special gift to us. We got the chance of a life-time to pamper him and learnt some unique things about him. When he said ‘hear this’ something real important was coming up in the conversation. His other phrase ‘I aint lying’ brought even more validity to his story. Also, if he asked for one thing, do not bring him two, all he really needs is one.
I took every opportunity presented the time we spent together to remind Dad of the goodness of the Lord on his life; and encouraged him to trust in the Lord always and have him direct his path. My Brother Randy, and two of the grand children Shaian and Javel also visited Dad recently, and little did we know this was the culmination of doing life with him. He lived a full life, he was very intentional on setting his goals which he always achieved and he presented all his plans to the ‘Good Lord’ regardless. Purpose has been fulfilled for Dad and we will endeavor to relish the memories and legacy of our hero. Love you always and forever Dad.
He is survived by his three children, Jackie, Khouri (Randy) and Ian (Devon). Seven grand children, Shaian, Iani, Sieana, Tresann, Ranja, Javel and Legend. Two great-grand children, a brother, a sister Daughter-in-law Semone, nieces, nephews, and many friends whose lives have been touch by his love and compassion. May his soul rest in peace!
Fond memories and expressions of sympathy may be shared at www.starofdavidfuneralchapel.com for the James family.
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