Dr. Bess Stamps

Bess’s early life was marked by constant change as her mother moved frequently in pursuit of job stability. These challenges persisted until Bess moved to live in Detroit with her maternal Aunt Eva and Uncle Albert. This transition provided her with a safe and stable environment, where she quickly adapted and flourished. She became actively involved in school, immersing herself in the study of dance and proudly marching in holiday parades as a drum majorette. Known for her love of Saturday night gatherings, she would dance late into the night—always under the careful supervision of her aunt. Early Sunday morning she woke up to faithfully attend church in accordance with the household’s steadfast tradition.

During her senior year of high school, Bess married Earnest Stamps. The next two and a half years were filled with significant milestones as they welcomed their daughters, Valerie and Monica, while Earnest embarked on his journey to become a pharmacist. As he advanced his career at Detroit General Hospital, Bess devoted herself to creating a nurturing home and raising their children. Eventually, she pursued higher education, earning a bachelor’s degree from Wayne State University, which led to a teaching position in Detroit. Her academic journey continued with a master’s degree from the University of Michigan in Ann Arbor, culminating in a PhD in Education Administration from Michigan State University in 1987.

When Bess and Earnest divorced, she gave in to her natural sense of adventure and moved to Nassau, Bahamas, to work with the Ministry of Education in the development and implementation of an adult education program. She later ventured on to the country of Ghana, where she joined a multinational team to design, build and staff a new elementary school.

After settling in Florida, Bess put her impressive skills, talent, and experience to work, making history as the first African American Counselor at DeLand High School. She remained dedicated to her role, offering guidance and support to students until she was ready to step away, embrace a well-earned rest, and enjoy retirement.

Bess lived exactly the life she wanted, always on her own terms. She was fierce in her independence and unwavering in her choices right until the end. Even in her final moments, she remained true to herself.

Bess leaves, to cherish her memory, her daughters Valerie Kilby and Monica Bates; grandchildren, Stephanie and Eric Kilby; nieces Brenda Montgomery and Cynthia Stockton (Elmer Stockton) and a nephew Clarence Stamps and a host of other extended family members.

A visitation for Bess will be held Wednesday, June 18, 2025 from 10:00 AM to 11:00 AM at Deltona Memorial Funeral Home, 1295 Saxon Blvd, Orange City, FL 32763, followed by a graveside from 11:00 AM to 11:30 AM.