Marvin E Graw

In his final year, dementia may have clouded some memories, but it never touched the deepest parts of his heart. He always knew his devoted wife of nearly 65 years, Jeanette; his “favorite daughter” Darla and son-in-law Craig Weiss; and his pride and joy, his grandchildren Kendall and Kailey. He also held a special place in his heart for his beloved chosen sister, Rose Janke, sisters-in-law LaVerne Engelmann and Cindy Engelmann, and his cherished chosen nieces and nephews. He remained a steadfast friend to many throughout his life. Marvin left this world with the same grace and character that defined his time here. Though he is gone, he leaves behind a legacy of kindness and integrity, gently imprinted on the hearts of all who knew him.

Marvin was preceded in death by his parents, Gustav & Alwine Engelmann Graw; his infant sister, Marie; his siblings, Arwit, Martin and Florine Miller; his grandparents, Martin & Marie Engelmann; his special chosen father and mother, Ernst & Alice Engelmann Sr.; and his beloved chosen siblings Margaret Shults and husband, Kenneth, Ernst Engelmann Jr., Ralph Engelmann, and brother-in-law, Eugene Janke.

Marvin was born on October 12, 1935 in the Richland community just outside of Pflugerville, Texas. He moved to Austin at the age of 18, where he worked at Calcasieu and discovered his lifelong passion for craftsmanship and building. He went on to be self-employed for decades, never advertising on television or radio. Instead, his work spoke for itself, growing solely through word of mouth and referrals from satisfied clients.

Marvin was a man blessed with an extraordinary measure of common sense and timeless wisdom. His influence ran deep because he gave it so freely to others. Marvin was an encourager at heart, always ready with a steady word, a thoughtful lesson, or a quiet nod of support. He invested his time and energy in things that mattered most—education, growth, and the well-being of those around him. Teaching wasn’t just something he did; it was who he was. Whether through words or actions, he never stopped imparting truth and insight to those he loved. Some of the wisdom Marvin shared lives on in the simple but powerful principles he carried: Listen more. Speak less; It’s easy to start something, but harder and more worthwhile to finish; It’s always too early to quit; Don’t spend it if you don’t have it; and, Just because you have the money, doesn’t mean you need to spend it. Marvin’s legacy isn’t only in what he said, it’s how he lived. Through his example, he taught us that a life of purpose, restraint, and generosity of spirit is one worth striving for. His wisdom will echo in our lives for years to come.

Anyone who knew Marvin could speak to the deep passion he poured into everything he did— whether it was working in his yard or, most importantly, his family. He was always there when you needed him, offering his time, his help, and his heart without hesitation. Marvin loved spending time with his family and showed that love not just through words, but through action— through his steady presence and unwavering support. He would do anything for the people he cared about, and he loved his family with everything he had. In his spare time, he loved to work on puzzles and play dominoes with his friends. He will be dearly missed by his family and friends who loved him deeply. His impact on his family will be everlasting. The love he gave and his impact will remain with his family always, a lasting legacy of a life lived with deep purpose and generous spirit.

A heartfelt thank you to Marvin’s faithful friends who visited him regularly: Kathy Gregory, Kristy & Barry Sikes, Debbie Weiss, Elizabeth Gregory, Brenda & William Kirchner, Yvonne Zimmer, James Wheless, Virgie Mallett, Alonzo & Katherine Kelley, and Samuel “Buddy” McGlamery. Your presence and support brought great comfort to Marvin and meant so much to our entire family. To those who prayed, FaceTimed, sent cards, letters, flowers, and food—please know how deeply we appreciate your kindness. Your thoughtfulness truly lifted our spirits.

The family wishes to thank the staff at St. David’s North Austin Medical Center, Encompass Health Rehabilitation Hospital of Round Rock, Juniper Village at Spicewood Summit, and St. David’s Round Rock Medical Center.

Ernest Hemingway once said, “ Every man’s life ends the same way. It is only the details of how he lived and how he died that distinguish one man from another.” Marvin believed in those words. He always felt that words and work should speak for you, which they truly did in his life. He didn’t seek attention or accolades—he simply lived with quiet strength, unwavering integrity, and a deep sense of dignity. He left this world the same way he lived in it—peacefully, courageously, and on his own terms. A life well lived. Well done, Dad.

Funeral services for Marvin will be held on Monday, June 23, 2025, at St. John Evangelical Lutheran Church, located at 17701 Cameron Rd, Pflugerville, TX, 78660. This cherished place of worship held a special place in Marvin’s heart, as this is where he was baptized, raised, confirmed, and married. Visitation will begin at 10:00 a.m., followed by the funeral service at 11:00 a.m. A catered meal will be served in the parish hall following the service. Memorial contributions may be made in Marvin’s honor to St. John Evangelical Lutheran Church or MD Anderson.