Bernard "Ben" Kucinski

Bernard "Ben" Kucinski left us on December 24, 2024, with a toolbox full of memories. Born on June 19, 1950, in Cleveland, OH, Ben's journey took him from the shores of Lake Erie to the heart of Texas, where he took his final, peaceful bow in San Antonio.

Ben's adventures began surrounded by a large family. Cheering for the Cleveland Browns, playing in the streets with friends, and causing minor mischief were his pastimes. He was the second of five siblings, plus countless other family members who were always close by. You are probably not surprised to learn that he was voted “Most likely to be Pope” by his peers.

His passion for technology and innovation led him to a distinguished career in IT and operations. With only a high school diploma and an 8-week IBM computer certification, he ascended from junior programmer to senior executive before retirement. He was respected for his dedication, natural problem-solving skills, and leadership. He achieved every professional goal he set and then a few more. Did you know that he holds a few US patents?

Ben’s professional success was secondary to his true love of family. He was a devoted father to his son, Bryan (Stephanie), and daughter, Dena (Scott). He took incredible pride in his role as a grandfather to Dillon, Jonah, Abbi, Nathan, Aaron, and Courtney. Ben gave each grandchild a unique nickname, establishing a cherished bond with their ‘Papa’. He is survived by his children, grandchildren, and four siblings; Ellen, Ellie, Larry, and Mary.

After retirement, he learned to slow down and savor each moment. He enjoyed golfing, especially with his community of golfers – friends Jack, Gene, and the late Ken. He found joy in fixing things, with the word “customized” used on more than one occasion. He even took a motorcycle safety course and obtained his license. He switched from cups of coffee at work to a glass of wine with friends. Ben had a unique gift for mending hearts with his comforting presence.

Those who knew Ben understood that his true passion lay in helping others. If you read this, you probably slept on the couch, rented a room, borrowed a tool, or sought advice. He was often the first to offer assistance, whether to a friend in need or a stranger. After Hurricane Katrina, he went with family to volunteer as the displaced people of New Orleans arrived in San Antonio. He took three of them to his home and helped them get to their own families. Ben's impact on the world was as quiet as it was profound, touching lives in ways that will resonate for years.

Loving, generous, and handy are the words that paint the picture of Ben, but they're just the base coat. His true portrait lay in the stories told at family gatherings and by all those who admired and respected him. We all may remember him differently, but his most outstanding achievement is best left said in his own words. “[My] most important accomplishment was always trying to be present for others.”

Please join us in sharing stories and laughter as we celebrate this great man returning Home.

The family will receive friends at 5:00 PM on Friday, January 3, 2024, at Porter Loring Mortuary North.

CELEBRATION OF LIFEFRIDAY, JANUARY 3, 20255:30 PMPORTER LORING MORTUARY NORTH2102 NORTH LOOP 1604 EAST

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In lieu of flowers or donations, please try to find a way to be present for others - in his honor.